{"id":27476,"date":"2020-11-08T12:12:41","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T12:12:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27476"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:45:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:45:06","slug":"ela-nao-merecia-o-desgosto-que-lhe-causaste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-nao-merecia-o-desgosto-que-lhe-causaste\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o merecia o desgosto que lhe trouxeste"},"content":{"rendered":"

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es chegam ao fim. As pessoas afastam-se umas das outras. Apaixonam-se ou cansam-se da outra pessoa. Tudo isso faz parte da vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

E ela compreende isso. Ela compreende que, a certa altura, deixaste de a amar. Ou talvez tu <\/span>nunca a amei o suficiente<\/span><\/a> mas demoraste anos a perceber isso?<\/span><\/p>\n

She understands that you obviously didn\u2019t see a future with her and that you didn\u2019t want to stay by her side any longer. <\/span>So, she doesn\u2019t blame you for leaving her.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas ela culpa-o pela forma como o fez. Ela culpa-o por todas as coisas que lhe fez antes de se afastar definitivamente da vida dela. Ela culpa-o por toda a dor que lhe causou, mesmo que pudesse ter sido evitada.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ela culpa-o por lhe ter partido o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e por a ter feito em peda\u00e7os. Porque tu sabes muito bem que era a \u00faltima coisa que ela merecia.<\/b><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you treating her the way you did. She didn\u2019t deserve you not being man enough and not taking responsibility for your actions. She didn\u2019t deserve the fights, the emotional abuse and the fact that you tried to make her feel guilty for everything that went wrong between the two of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you taking her for granted or treating her like your backup plan, nor you counting on the fact she\u2019d always be someone you could go back to, when everyone else left you or if everything else failed.<\/span><\/p>\n

This girl didn\u2019t deserve you abandoning her when she needed you the most. She didn\u2019t deserve to waste years on you when you knew all along that you could never be the man she deserved to have by her side.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you cheating on her or lying to her. And she certainly didn\u2019t deserve you emotionally scarring her for life.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you <\/span>convincing her that she wasn\u2019t meant to be loved<\/span><\/a> and losing all faith and trust in everyone around her. She didn\u2019t deserve you spiritually killing her or making her doubt herself and her worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes muito bem que esta rapariga te deu tudo o que tinha, sem pedir nada em troca. Sabes que ela usava o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga e que te amava como mais ningu\u00e9m na tua vida alguma vez o far\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes que ela estava pronta a mover montanhas por ti, enquanto tu nunca mexeste um dedo por ela. Que foi ela que se esfor\u00e7ou e fez todos os sacrif\u00edcios. A \u00fanica que lutou por esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, enquanto tu estavas pronto para desistir dela t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

E foi assim que lhe pagou?<\/b> Por <\/span>afastar-se sem dizer uma palavra<\/span><\/a>? Ao n\u00e3o lhe dar uma conclus\u00e3o?<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi assim que lhe agradeceste por todas as coisas boas que ela fez por ti?<\/b> Deixando-a a pensar no que correu mal e no que poderia ter feito para evitar que se fosse embora?<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi assim que lhe mostraste a tua gratid\u00e3o por tudo o que ela te deu?<\/b> Fazendo-a passar por todo este sofrimento? Por a manter acordada \u00e0 noite, a pensar em todo o mal que causou?<\/span><\/p>\n

Couldn\u2019t you have been the bigger person and showed her some more respect? Couldn\u2019t you at least have acted like you appreciated all of her love even if you stopped feeling it back? Couldn\u2019t you have chosen to be a mature man instead of being a selfish asshole?<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas adivinha? Ela vai erguer-se desta dor. E quando isso acontecer e quando ela finalmente o vir como realmente \u00e9, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 como voltar atr\u00e1s.  <\/span><\/p>\n

She will pick up the pieces of her crushed heart and everything you did will just make her stronger. All the pain you made her go through will empower her to become the best possible version of herself. And that is when she\u2019ll realize that you breaking her heart was actually the best thing that could have ever happened to her.  <\/span><\/p>\n

So apparently, even though you are the one who left, she is the one who won. And you know why? Because she will be happy again and you\u2019ll forever remain the same piece of shit you\u2019ve always been.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Ela <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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