{"id":27480,"date":"2018-11-08T12:20:03","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T12:20:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27480"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:12:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:12:38","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-se-apaixonou-pelo-sr-talvez-pensando-que-ele-era-o-sr-certo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-se-apaixonou-pelo-sr-talvez-pensando-que-ele-era-o-sr-certo\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que se apaixonou pelo Sr. Talvez, pensando que ele era o Sr. Certo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando nos apaixonamos, queremos um conto de fadas da vida real. Queremos algu\u00e9m que nos deixe de rastos e que nos d\u00ea borboletas e emo\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want an ordinary love. You want to feel like you are on top of the world and like you can achieve anything as long as you have that special someone next to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Queres um homem que te fa\u00e7a sentir viva, um homem que fa\u00e7a com que todos os teus dias valham a pena ser vividos e recordados. Quer paix\u00e3o e aventura e n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposta a contentar-se com menos do que isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is everything this guy is giving you. Ever since you met him, you feel like you\u2019ve lost all control of yourself and as if you are going through a roller coaster of emotions. And the best part is that you like it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas tamb\u00e9m quer certeza e estabilidade. Quer ter algu\u00e9m em quem possa confiar e que esteja sempre ao seu lado.<\/span><\/p>\n

You want a man you can count on through thick and thin and a man who will be your biggest support on good and bad days. A man who will take care of you when you are sick and who\u2019ll worry if you\u2019ve gotten home safe.<\/span><\/p>\n

You want a man whose feelings you\u2019ll never have to question. A man who will love you the same at your best and at your worst. Someone you can be yourself in front of and someone you can plan a future with.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas n\u00e3o \u00e9 isso que tens com o teu namorado. E quando pensa nisso, tudo o que est\u00e1 a receber dele \u00e9 uma tonelada de \"talvez\".<\/b><\/p>\n

You might see him tonight, the way he promised. But maybe you\u2019ll fall asleep all dressed up, with your phone in your hand, desperately waiting for his call or text. Maybe he\u2019ll find time for you tomorrow or he might go see his friends because you are at the bottom of his priority list.<\/span><\/p>\n

Talvez ele simplesmente se tenha esquecido de lhe enviar uma mensagem porque estava demasiado ocupado. Ou porque era a \u00faltima coisa que lhe vinha \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele pode estar a fazer-se de dif\u00edcil e <\/span>lutar contra os seus sentimentos por ti<\/span><\/a> ou ele pode estar apenas a fazer jogos mentais consigo. Talvez ele veja a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o como algo s\u00e9rio ou talvez a veja como uma aventura sem sentido. Pode ser a \u00fanica rapariga na vida dele, mas tamb\u00e9m existe a possibilidade de ele estar a sair com v\u00e1rias outras mulheres ao mesmo tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe he loves you in his own way but there is also a possibility that he doesn\u2019t care about you at all. He might be incapable of loving at all or he is just taking advantage of your feelings for him. He might be <\/span>emocionalmente destro\u00e7ado ou talvez seja apenas um idiota ego\u00edsta<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

E a lista continua.<\/span><\/p>\n

But have you ever asked yourself if his almost love is what you need in life? Is the guy who can\u2019t seem to make up his mind about you really what you deserve or want? Or are you just settling for this Mr. Maybe because you hope that someday he\u2019ll come to his senses and become Mr. Right?<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? He won\u2019t. He will never change and he\u2019ll never become the mature man you hope he\u2019ll be. He will always remain Mr. Wrong and it\u2019s time for you to accept this.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for you to <\/span>deixar de o justificar<\/span><\/a> and for you to stop looking for excuses for his behavior. It\u2019s time for you to stop overthinking and for you to stop trying to get inside this guy\u2019s head.<\/span><\/p>\n

Time for you to stop trying to decode his mixed signals and to stop trying to read between the lines. It\u2019s time for you to put an end to this almost relationship and to stop settling for his almost love.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s about time for you to accept that you are entitled to more and better. Time for you to walk away from this man because that is the only way for your Mr. Right to walk into your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because he will come along when you least expect it. And when he does, you\u2019ll be certain of his love, like you\u2019ve never been sure of anything else in your life. And you\u2019ll have no doubt that he is the one for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

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When you fall in love, you want a real-life fairy tale. You want someone to knock you off your feet and to give you butterflies and excitement. You don\u2019t want an ordinary love. You want to feel like you are on top of the world and like you can achieve anything as long as you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":27481,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/emil-vilsek-488937-6.jpg",800,559,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27480","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27480"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27480\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27481"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27480"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27480"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27480"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}