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<\/p>\nWe\u2019ve all sworn not to be like this. We\u2019ve all sworn that we won\u2019t forget our friends once we fall in love and we\u2019ve mocked those doing so for way too long. <\/b><\/p>\n
O tiro saiu pela culatra.<\/p>\n
No in\u00edcio, quis queimar todas as nossas fotografias e apagar as que tinha na minha galeria. Queria apagar esse per\u00edodo da minha vida porque o futuro n\u00e3o reservava nada para n\u00f3s os dois.<\/p>\n
Ela encontrou a sua verdadeira alma g\u00e9mea e j\u00e1 n\u00e3o havia tempo nem lugar para mim.<\/p>\n
But the fact that we didn\u2019t hang around as we used did couldn\u2019t change the fact that we had so many amazing and exciting moments together. That can\u2019t be erased.<\/p>\n
I spent so much time thinking, \u201c Who else am I going to call my best friend?\u201d.<\/b><\/p>\n
We\u2019ve been friends for so long and I had plenty of people around, but you know how it goes\u2014there is this one really best friend; others are just people I hang around with.<\/p>\n
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Acho que ela esteve sempre l\u00e1.<\/b> Ela estava l\u00e1 para as noites selvagens. Ela estava l\u00e1 para curar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n
She was there for Netflix and chill\u2014the only one I let change my favorite show until she wasn\u2019t anymore. It felt kind of empty.<\/p>\n
As recorda\u00e7\u00f5es estavam por todo o lado.<\/b> As recorda\u00e7\u00f5es ainda est\u00e3o por todo o lado. Havia o nosso s\u00edtio preferido para comer depois de uma sa\u00edda \u00e0 noite.<\/p>\n
Houve o nosso gelado especial para um cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido e tivemos a nossa dan\u00e7a ao som da nossa can\u00e7\u00e3o favorita. Acho que pass\u00e1mos de amigos a estranhos com mem\u00f3rias.<\/p>\n
Boohoo for me\u2014I know I am not the only one out there to live these things. It\u2019s just awkward when people ask me about her and why they don\u2019t see us together any longer. It\u2019s a little too obvious, don\u2019t you think? <\/i><\/p>\n
She was no longer up for wild nights out. She wasn\u2019t always available and most of her plans contained her new boyfriend as well.<\/p>\n
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See, I felt betrayed, left alone, played and what not. We had our plan\u2014we had our mantra that we lived until she fell in love.<\/p>\n
And still she had me in her plan. She did, but it wasn\u2019t the only two of us and it somehow felt awkward. So, we fell apart.<\/p>\n
Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> Foi assim que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica matou o meu melhor amigo<\/p>\n Comecei a pensar na amizade que t\u00ednhamos e nas amizades em geral.<\/b><\/p>\n I realized most of our friendships are formed when we\u2019re in our 20s and when life is scary as hell. It\u2019s mostlyfriendships out of need.<\/b><\/p>\n We need someone who\u2019ll share our deprivation. We need someone who\u2019ll share the same feelings as we do. We need somebody who\u2019ll understand us and we need to be taken care of.<\/p>\n When our whole world is falling apart, we need someone to tell us it\u2019ll be alright\u2014basically, we need our soulmates. Someone in whose life we\u2019re reflected.<\/p>\n A segunda coisa de que me apercebi \u00e9 que os nossos amigos s\u00e3o de facto as nossas almas g\u00e9meas, mas s\u00f3 por algum tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n Porque quando sa\u00edmos, encontramos um rapaz com quem podemos passar as noites, que era o objetivo principal da nossa sa\u00edda.<\/p>\n We might fool ourselves and think we go out to have fun, but it\u2019s only fun if there are cute guys around us.<\/p>\n Love is what we\u2019re constantly searching for.<\/b> Quer gostemos de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, precisamos de amor para funcionar.<\/p>\n Precisamos de nos deitar na cama com um homem que amamos e precisamos de ter algu\u00e9m em quem apoiar a cabe\u00e7a. Esse tipo de intimidade \u00e9 um n\u00edvel totalmente novo e, ap\u00f3s alguns anos, eu percebo.<\/p>\n Eu percebo que ela tenha seguido em frente e encontrado algu\u00e9m especial na sua vida. Ela estava l\u00e1 quando eu precisava mesmo dela e depois seguiu em frente.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the way things should go. I know now if I was her, I\u2019d do the same thing. I\u2019d choose the love of my life over her as well. I would plan my days with him, my vacations, trips and what not.<\/p>\n Because he\u2019d be mine forever, and he\u2019d be the one I\u2019d like to see myself with in future. I get it now.<\/p>\n I\u2019m just sorry that I spent so much time angry when I should\u2019ve been happy for her. She deserved to be loved, not to be held back by me. <\/b><\/p>\n It hurt like hell to lose my best friend over a guy, but I know now that\u2019s the way things should go. I just wish I knew this earlier.<\/b><\/p>\n We\u2019ve all sworn not to be like this. We\u2019ve all sworn that we won\u2019t forget our friends once we fall in love and we\u2019ve mocked those doing so for way too long. That backfired horribly. 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