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<\/p>\nAs pessoas parecem pensar que uma mulher precisa de um homem para lhe facilitar a vida. Parece que pensam que somos incapazes de fazer as coisas sozinhas.<\/p>\n
Social norms teach you that men are the protectors and providers of the families, and women are the caretakers. Well, I\u2019m going to tell you that that is a load of BS!<\/p>\n
Conhe\u00e7o muitas mulheres que s\u00e3o mais m\u00e1sculas do que os homens que est\u00e3o ao seu lado. Conhe\u00e7o m\u00e3es solteiras que est\u00e3o a criar os seus filhos t\u00e3o bem como dois pais o fariam.<\/p>\n
And I, for one, am sick of these presumptions that a woman needs a man in her life. She doesn\u2019t need him, but she can have him if she wants.<\/p>\n
Todas as senhoras devem acreditar que s\u00e3o fortes e independentes. Podem tomar conta de v\u00f3s pr\u00f3prias. <\/b><\/p>\n
Podem fazer uma boa vida para voc\u00eas pr\u00f3prios. <\/b>You\u2019re more than capable. You don\u2019t need someone else in your life to become what you want.<\/b><\/p>\n
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you need to shut everyone out because you can do things by yourself. Don\u2019t be a relationship-hater. You can be in a relationship and be independent at the same time.<\/p>\n
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Just never allow yourself to lose that independence and be subordinate to anyone you\u2019re dating just for the sake of the relationship. There are plenty of other men out there; men that won\u2019t make you give up your freedom.<\/p>\n
Isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor; isso \u00e9 controlo.<\/p>\n
O amor n\u00e3o consiste em tomar decis\u00f5es por outra pessoa. O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 telefonar para saber se o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a trair-te<\/span><\/a>. Amar n\u00e3o \u00e9 duvidar de tudo o que o outro diz.<\/p>\n O amor \u00e9 apoio e confian\u00e7a. O amor \u00e9 inspira\u00e7\u00e3o e motiva\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n I let someone fall in love with me, but I\u2019ve set boundaries because I don\u2019t want to lose myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n I don\u2019t necessarily need a man<\/b> na minha vida, mas eu escolho ter um.<\/b> It\u2019s who I am. I\u2019m always going to choose love, but not at all costs.<\/p>\n I\u2019ll love someone because I want to, not because I have to.<\/p>\n I\u2019m perfectly capable of living on my own. I don\u2019t need anyone<\/a> to show me how to live or tell me what to do. I\u2019m independent, and I want to stay that way.<\/p>\n I\u2019ll never sacrifice myself and stay in a shitty relationship just because I don\u2019t have any other choice. I refuse to be trapped with a man I don\u2019t love just because I need him.<\/p>\n When I fall in love, the man standing beside me won\u2019t have to carry me on his shoulders for the rest of his life.<\/b><\/p>\n We\u2019re going to be partners and lovers. We\u2019ll create an unbreakable union and a partnership. We will help each other.<\/p>\n Love shouldn\u2019t be about only taking care of the other person. Sure, you\u2019ll be there for each other when it\u2019s needed.<\/p>\n Mas o amor n\u00e3o consiste em apanhar o lixo atr\u00e1s de algu\u00e9m. Ningu\u00e9m deve ser apenas um doador ou um tomador numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Temos de ser simultaneamente dadores e receptores. Quando eles precisam de n\u00f3s, temos de estar presentes, e quando n\u00f3s precisamos deles, eles t\u00eam de fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to lower my partner\u2019s expectations.<\/b> I want him to know that I\u2019m going to work as much as him.<\/p>\n I want him to know that I\u2019m never going to let him support me just because he is used to me not lifting a finger or fazer um esfor\u00e7o<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n If this relationship is destined to work, we have to give our best\u2014both of us.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t need to be saved. I\u2019m not looking for a Prince Charming to wake me up from my deep sleep. I don\u2019t need a knight on a white horse to come and rescue me.<\/p>\n I need an equal partner. I need a friend. I don\u2019t need or want a man to solve my problems nor do I need a man who will become one.<\/b><\/p>\n![\"a](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-stands-in-a-field-of-outstretched-arms.jpg\")
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