{"id":27650,"date":"2020-03-20T08:23:04","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T08:23:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27650"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:36:23","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:36:23","slug":"e-por-isso-que-tens-de-te-afastar-dele-mesmo-que-isso-te-custe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-tens-de-te-afastar-dele-mesmo-que-isso-te-custe\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que tens de te afastar dele, mesmo que isso te magoe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando amar realmente um homem<\/a>, you follow your heart blindly, and you don\u2019t listen to reason.<\/p>\n

You ignore that voice in the back of your head telling you that he doesn\u2019t treat you well and that you deserve much more than what he can give you.<\/p>\n

When you love a man, you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to save your relationship and avoid a painful heartbreak. You never want to abandon this guy, even if there are millions of things telling you that this is exactly what you should do.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to walk away from him even when he\u2019s the main cause of your misery \u2013 even though you\u2019re aware that he\u2019s the only one responsible for all of this pain that\u2019s been eating you alive.<\/p>\n

Even if he\u2019s the one making your life a living hell. Even when you know that this man doesn’t deserve you, that your needs aren’t met, that he is wrong for you, and even when his toxicity is threatening to ruin you completely.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to leave him alone to fight with his demons, and you continue hoping that you\u2019ll manage to bring him to the light.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re willing to sacrifice your self-respect for him. You\u2019re convinced that you\u2019ll manage to save him.<\/p>\n

But somehow, this isn\u2019t happening. Instead, you\u2019re the one who is slowly being pulled down into his darkness. <\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez de o salvar e fazer a sua <\/b>trabalho de relacionamento<\/b>, you\u2019re allowing him to destroy your <\/b>vida pr\u00f3pria<\/b>sem que se d\u00ea conta disso.<\/b><\/p>\n

E \u00e9 exatamente por isso que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio afastar-se<\/a> N\u00e3o \u00e9 poss\u00edvel que o teu amor por este homem seja t\u00e3o forte como o teu amor por ele. \u00c9 por isso que precisa de se salvar dele, e a \u00fanica forma de o fazer \u00e9 escolher o amor-pr\u00f3prio em vez do amor que tem por ele.<\/p>\n

Sim, real o amor precisa de trabalho \u00e1rduo<\/a>, and you can\u2019t just leave the moment things get rough.<\/p>\n

It takes a lot of patience, effort, and energy for two people to build a healthy relationship, and you shouldn\u2019t give up on your loved one at the first glance of trouble, an unanswered phone call, or ignored text messages.<\/p>\n

But love isn\u2019t pain. Because there is nothing romantic in staying next to someone who\u2019s crushing you to pieces with every new day that dawns. Someone who can’<\/b>falar<\/b> durante 20 segundos sem dizer apenas mentiras. <\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de po\u00e9tico na dor devastadora de permitir que um <\/b>narcisista<\/b> e um <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/b> para continuar a partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque <\/b>amor verdadeiro<\/b> should never hurt, and it should never bring you more sadness than happiness. It shouldn\u2019t be this difficult, and it definitely shouldn\u2019t make your life harder.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Fazer todos os sacrif\u00edcios para o bem da outra pessoa n\u00e3o \u00e9 prova do seu amor por ela. Perder-se a si pr\u00f3prio e lutando todas as batalhas sozinho<\/a> aren\u2019t signs of your devotion to your relationship.<\/p>\n

Instead, these are signs that you don\u2019t respect and love yourself the way you should.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, when a man figures out that he’s your whole life, he won\u2019t see you as a high quality woman and, therefore, he\u2019ll never stop tomar-te por garantido<\/a>. And no matter how much you\u2019ve been fighting for him, you\u2019ll end up running in circles. <\/p>\n

Passar tempo com um homem assim \u00e9 mais uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o do que uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, fa\u00e7am o que \u00e9 correto: acabem com esta agonia. <\/b>Afastar-se<\/b> dele e a s\u00e9rio. Esque\u00e7a o <\/b>primeira vez<\/b> o conheceu, impe\u00e7a-o de <\/b>mensagens de texto<\/b> e salva-te antes que ele te destrua completamente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Deix\u00e1-lo<\/a> and choose yourself over him before it\u2019s too late. <\/b><\/p>\n

And even if your man wants you to stay and begs you not to leave him, don\u2019t fall for his fake, selfish behavior because his only motive is to feed his big ego. The reason why he’s doing it is because he’s the wrong man.<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de lutar pelo homem errado, passe tempo com os seus melhores amigos, com as pessoas que a amam e, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, nunca deixe de acreditar que deix\u00e1-lo foi a coisa certa a fazer.<\/p>\n

Em vez de lutar pelo homem errado, concentre-se em amar-se a si pr\u00f3pria, em tratar-se com carinho e em esperar pelo verdadeiro homem que merece. <\/p>\n

Life is too short to waste it on men who don’t know how to treat you right, who aren’t ready to make an effort and keep their promises. Life is too short to be cruel to yourself and prevent yourself from experiencing true happiness.<\/p>\n

Now, I know that leaving him is easier said than done and I know that you\u2019re scared of stepping into your future without him because you\u2019re convinced that leaving this guy will hurt you more than staying with him.<\/p>\n

I know that it\u2019s not easy to start living a new life and end the toxic chapter you spent so much time on.<\/p>\n

But I promise you that you\u2019ll end up much happier and healthier once you start focusing on your own happiness and say your <\/b>despedida final<\/b><\/a> to him. That you\u2019ll feel liberated once you set yourself free from all of his toxicity.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that leaving this man is the last thing you want to do and I\u2019m not here to convince you that it\u2019ll be a walk in the park. I just want you to have faith in yourself because you are strong enough to close the doors behind you and never look back.<\/p>\n

Strong enough to do what has to be done, even though you don\u2019t think this way now. <\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, afastar-se \u00e9 a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o real que tem e a escolha que precisa de fazer se quiser dar a si pr\u00f3prio uma oportunidade de ser feliz.<\/p>\n

And I promise you that once the pain goes away, you\u2019ll never regret doing it. Instead, you\u2019ll see it for what it is: the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Respect Yourself Enough To Walk Away From A Man Who Doesn’t See Your Worth<\/a><\/p>\n

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