{"id":27667,"date":"2018-11-13T10:13:13","date_gmt":"2018-11-13T10:13:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27667"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:39","slug":"6-situacoes-em-que-nao-se-deve-dizer-amo-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-situacoes-em-que-nao-se-deve-dizer-amo-te\/","title":{"rendered":"6 situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que n\u00e3o se deve dizer \"amo-te\""},"content":{"rendered":"

It seems like saying \u201cI love you.\u201d at any given time is a good idea. And it usually is, especially when you are in a serious relationship or marriage. People need to be reminded of how they feel for each other every now and then.<\/p>\n

But when you are saying \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time, it should really be special, and the timing should be right.<\/p>\n

You can really mess things up in saying \u201cI love you.\u201d in certain situations. Keep reading and see in which ones:<\/p>\n

1. Quando \u00e9 demasiado cedo na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

This goes without saying but there is such a thing like saying \u201cI love you\u201d too soon. Saying it on a first date or in the first few months is not a good idea. In that period, it\u2019s easy to confundir lux\u00faria com amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Podemos apaixonar-nos facilmente, mas amar realmente algu\u00e9m leva tempo. \u00c9 preciso tirar os \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa e amar essa pessoa com todos os seus defeitos e virtudes.<\/p>\n

So be careful. Wait a while to build a relationship and be sure in what you feel. An \u201cI love you.\u201d that comes is said at the wrong time (like too early) can pretty much ruin a potentially good relationship and make your partner run for the hills.<\/p>\n

2. Quando se est\u00e1 embriagado<\/h2>\n

As suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es aumentam quando est\u00e1 sob a influ\u00eancia do \u00e1lcool, especialmente se for uma daquelas pessoas giras que adoram tudo e todos quando est\u00e3o b\u00eabedos. O que diz pode n\u00e3o refletir o que sente.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, o seu parceiro pode n\u00e3o o levar a s\u00e9rio ou pode pensar que o est\u00e1 a dizer apenas por causa do \u00e1lcool no seu sangue.<\/p>\n

Saying \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time should be a magical experience you will treasure in your memory for a long time.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is if \u201cI love you.\u201d is not something you would say sober, you shouldn\u2019t say it while drunk either.<\/p>\n

3. Quando se \u00e9 vulner\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n

A vulnerabilidade pode facilmente mudar a sua perspetiva. Sentimentos de tristeza, desilus\u00e3o e solid\u00e3o podem facilmente lev\u00e1-lo a dizer essas tr\u00eas palavrinhas sem as querer realmente dizer.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, podemos pensar que amamos algu\u00e9m porque sentimos falta de estar com algu\u00e9m, qualquer pessoa, e sentimos falta do sentimento de pertencer a algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

But saying \u201cI love you.\u201d without actually meaning it or in the phase where your relationship hasn\u2019t had time to grow will make the whole thing worse.<\/p>\n

4. Quando um de v\u00f3s inicia uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o depois de terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/h2>\n

Quando termina um rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/span><\/a>A sua vida est\u00e1 cheia de bagagem emocional e de sentimentos n\u00e3o resolvidos do passado. Poder\u00e1 demorar muito tempo at\u00e9 voltar a entrar em contacto com os seus verdadeiros sentimentos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso abrandar o ritmo e fazer uma pausa nas declara\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais at\u00e9 ter a certeza dos seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, se foi ele que teve recentemente uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e1 ou uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o longa que correu mal, d\u00ea-lhe tempo. V\u00e1 com calma. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de se apressar a dizer o que sente. Deixe-o chegar l\u00e1, tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

5. When he\u2019s going through some stuff<\/h2>\n

A vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 arco-\u00edris e borboletas. Por vezes, torna-se realmente ca\u00f3tica, injusta e dolorosa. Se a sua cara-metade estiver a passar por alguma coisa, como problemas familiares, problemas de trabalho ou a morte de algu\u00e9m que lhe era pr\u00f3ximo, deve definitivamente adiar a express\u00e3o do que sente.<\/p>\n

For starters, it\u2019s not good timing. They need you just to be there and support them through difficult times.<\/p>\n

They need to see that you care but there is no need to say, \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time at this point because they might think you are saying it just because you feel sorry for them.<\/p>\n

6. Quando sentimos que temos de o dizer<\/h2>\n

Talvez ele o tenha dito primeiro, e agora sente que tem de o dizer tamb\u00e9m, mesmo que ainda n\u00e3o tenha chegado a esse ponto ou que ainda esteja a perceber as coisas.<\/p>\n

Saying how you feel shouldn\u2019t feel like an obligation; it should be instinctive and pure. You should only say it when you feel it\u2019s time.<\/p>\n

You should say it when you feel like you are going to go crazy with all those emotions locked on the inside. That\u2019s when it\u2019s real. That\u2019s when you should definitely say \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/p>\n

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