{"id":27674,"date":"2020-07-13T10:51:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-13T10:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27674"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:51:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:51:21","slug":"22-coisas-que-so-as-mulheres-que-foram-emocionalmente-usadas-por-um-narcisista-compreenderao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/22-coisas-que-so-as-mulheres-que-foram-emocionalmente-usadas-por-um-narcisista-compreenderao\/","title":{"rendered":"22 coisas que s\u00f3 as mulheres que foram usadas emocionalmente por um narcisista v\u00e3o entender"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Demora muito tempo <b>tempo para curar<\/b> because you can\u2019t avoid the aftermath of dating a narcissist. It\u2019s impossible to avoid the pain, and you know it, so you accept it.<\/p>\n<p>2. O seu <b>a autoestima vai por \u00e1gua abaixo<\/b>. You feel completely lost. After a narcissist is done with you, you feel simply put, like a piece of shit\u2014unable to continue your life, unable to recognize yourself.<\/p>\n<p>3. Antes de ele entrar na tua vida, eras uma rapariga normal, mas depois de ele acabar contigo, tu <b>perder a sua dignidade<\/b>perdemos a no\u00e7\u00e3o de quem j\u00e1 fomos.<\/p>\n<p>4. Tentas esconder a tua dor. Tentas esconder o facto de que qualquer coisa neste mundo te toca, mas falhas sempre. <b>You\u2019re extremely vulnerable,<\/b> and you can\u2019t hide it.<\/p>\n<p>5. Voc\u00ea <b>sentir-se invis\u00edvel<\/b> porque ele convenceu-te de que eras um z\u00e9-ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>6. Os teus olhos dizem a verdade sobre o que sentes. Podes p\u00f4r um sorriso falso, mas os teus olhos est\u00e3o cheios de tristeza.<\/p>\n<p>7. <b>You don\u2019t smile anymore<\/b> because you want to but because you have to. You know people are worried about you, so you smile to ease them. You haven\u2019t smiled sincerely for a long time. And that is just a price you have to pay for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/e-assim-que-um-narcisista-nos-engana-e-como-lidar-com-isso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lidar com um narcisista<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>8. <b>Est\u00e1 a ser vigiado.<\/b> You don\u2019t want to talk about what happened. Building emotional walls around yourself is the only thing you can do to feel safe. You need protection, and for now, you\u2019re the only person who can do that.<\/p>\n<p>9. Dating a narcissist doesn\u2019t come without a cost. You are <b>deprimido e ansioso<\/b> all the time, and you weren\u2019t like that at the beginning. That is a side-effect you get from being in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>10. Voc\u00ea <b>can\u2019t go through the healing process alone<\/b>. S\u00f3 os amigos mais sinceros se manter\u00e3o por perto durante esse per\u00edodo. S\u00f3 as pessoas que gostam genuinamente de si ser\u00e3o o seu apoio infinito. Aceite a ajuda deles; ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>11. Voc\u00ea&nbsp;<b>don\u2019t believe in the good in people<\/b> anymore. Because you\u2019ve fallen into his trap, you don\u2019t trust anyone. The only thing you see when you look around is people who want to hurt you. The only thing you see is him, wherever you go.<\/p>\n<p>11. <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sabes-o-meu-nome-nao-a-minha-historia-por-isso-pensa-antes-de-julgares\/\">You don\u2019t need to be judged<\/a>.<\/b> You know you\u2019ve made a mistake. All you need now is understanding and patience. The pain won\u2019t just go away, and anyone who says, \u201dGet it over with already!\u201d has no idea what you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<p>12. You still can\u2019t swallow what happened to you. You still don\u2019t believe it. It all seems like a <b>sonho mau<\/b> from which you\u2019re going to wake up any minute now.<\/p>\n<p>13. <b>Precisas de aprova\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b> You need encouragement. It\u2019s hard to snap out of the reality that you\u2019ve lived in for so long. It\u2019s hard not to wait for something bad to happen. You\u2019ve lived your life that way, and it\u2019s impossible to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-altura-de-carregar-no-botao-de-reiniciar\/\">carregar no bot\u00e3o de reiniciar<\/a> em apenas um ou dois dias.<\/p>\n<p>14. <b>You don\u2019t trust people.<\/b> The person you were connected the most with is the person who failed you the most. Every time you meet someone new, you\u2019re doubtful. Every time someone does something nice for you, you wait for the price you have to pay.<\/p>\n<p>15. At the moment, you don\u2019t know how to love. You\u2019re bruised, and love is something so distant to what you know.&nbsp;<b>You\u2019re afraid to like anyone, let alone to actually feel love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>16. Tenta evitar o sofrimento emocional, por isso <b>pede desculpa<\/b> all the time. You\u2019re sorry even when you don\u2019t have to be sorry. When dating a narcissist, that was all you had to say to save yourself from being punished. You had to be the bad guy. You&#8217;re apologizing for the smallest thing because you\u2019re still so insecure.<\/p>\n<p>17. Voc\u00ea <b>esconder os seus sentimentos<\/b> because you\u2019re scared you\u2019re going to pay a price for feeling something. The more you showed your feelings in your relationship with a narcissist, the worse he treated you.<\/p>\n<p>18. You\u2019re <b>com medo de parecer pegajoso, dependente ou demasiado emocional.<\/b> Por isso, opta por seguir o caminho mais f\u00e1cil e enclausura os seus sentimentos. Guardas tudo para ti.<\/p>\n<p>19. One day, you\u2019ll want to be left alone with your thoughts, and the next day, that lonesomeness will suffocate you. Your <b>o humor vai mudar&nbsp;<\/b>em poucas horas.<\/p>\n<p>20. You need someone to be there for you. Someone to convince you\u2019re going to be fine. You are a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-licoes-que-teve-de-aprender-antes-de-se-tornar-uma-mulher-forte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mulher forte<\/span><\/a>Pelo menos, j\u00e1 foste, mas por agora, <b>precisas de algu\u00e9m que te proteja<\/b> at\u00e9 que voltes a estar de p\u00e9. At\u00e9 voltares a ser o que eras.<\/p>\n<p>21. Precisa de algu\u00e9m que realmente <b>cumprir as promessas<\/b> they\u2019ve told you. You need someone who\u2019ll finally put you first after you\u2019ve been dwelling at the bottom for so long. You need to be important; you need to feel alive.<\/p>\n<p>22. Don\u2019t be scared. There is a good girl hiding beneath that scared face. There is a girl who can love with all of her heart. But, <b>she\u2019s scared now<\/b>. Ajude-a, mostrando-lhe que todas as coisas m\u00e1s acabam por passar. S\u00f3 \u00e9 preciso tempo. Muito tempo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27677 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"22 coisas que s\u00f3 as mulheres que foram usadas emocionalmente por um narcisista v\u00e3o entender\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. It takes a hell of a long time to heal because you can\u2019t avoid the aftermath of dating a narcissist. It\u2019s impossible to avoid the pain, and you know it, so you accept it. 2. Your self-worth goes down the drain. You feel completely lost. After a narcissist is done with you, you feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":27676,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/pietra-schwarzler-463523-unsplash.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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