{"id":27708,"date":"2019-11-13T13:04:13","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T13:04:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27708"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:53:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:53:12","slug":"6-lutas-emocionais-que-quase-todas-as-maes-solteiras-enfrentam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-lutas-emocionais-que-quase-todas-as-maes-solteiras-enfrentam\/","title":{"rendered":"6 dificuldades emocionais que quase todas as m\u00e3es solteiras enfrentam"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser m\u00e3e \u00e9 o trabalho mais duro e mais respons\u00e1vel do planeta. Mas ser uma m\u00e3e solteira que est\u00e1 a fazer o trabalho de duas pessoas sozinha \u00e9 um ato de verdadeiro her\u00f3i<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And it is especially difficult at first, when you are still not fully aware of all of your strength and of everything you can accomplish. You are scared if you\u2019ll succeed in raising this human being alone.<\/p>\n

But eventually, you see that a mother\u2019s love for a child can move mountains.<\/p>\n

You see that you are fierce and powerful and that nothing and nobody can stand in your way where your child\u2019s happiness is concerned.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been raised by a single mother or you are one, you know exactly what I am talking about.<\/p>\n

Estou aqui apenas para lhe dizer que n\u00e3o se martirize quando se sentir cansada ou sobrecarregada, porque quase todas as m\u00e3es enfrentam lutas emocionais semelhantes e aqui est\u00e3o 6 delas.<\/p>\n

1. Finan\u00e7as e carreira<\/h2>\n

Todos os pais carinhosos e atenciosos querem fazer o seu melhor para sustentar a sua fam\u00edlia. E as m\u00e3es solteiras n\u00e3o s\u00e3o exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

A grande diferen\u00e7a aqui \u00e9 que, se for m\u00e3e solteira e n\u00e3o tiver ajuda financeira da outra parte, \u00e9 a \u00fanica provedora da fam\u00edlia. \u00c9 claro que quer dar ao seu filho o m\u00e1ximo poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

But at the same time, you are always torn apart between working extra hours and the fear that you\u2019ll miss out on a big part of your kid\u2019s childhood because you are chasing your career to give them a better future.<\/p>\n

2. Responsabilidade<\/h2>\n

Uma das dificuldades que literalmente todas as m\u00e3es enfrentam \u00e9 o facto de toda a responsabilidade parental estar apenas nas suas costas.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 o \u00fanico respons\u00e1vel pela forma\u00e7\u00e3o de outro ser humano e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m para partilhar esse fardo consigo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have anyone to rely on. Yes, you can ask for advice from people close to you but at the end of the day, you are the one making all the decisions.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ser simultaneamente o pol\u00edcia bom e o pol\u00edcia mau, o pai rigoroso e o amigo, a m\u00e3e e o pai.<\/p>\n

3. Culpa<\/h2>\n

Quando se termina uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem filhos envolvidos, h\u00e1 que lidar com o desgosto.<\/p>\n

But what happens when you have to mend your child\u2019s broken heart and explain to them that their dad doesn\u2019t want to be a part of their life and that they aren\u2019t to blame for that?<\/p>\n

Were you the one who ended things with your child\u2019s father? You knew that this was the best thing you could do for your kid and you knew that they didn\u2019t deserve to be raised in such a toxic atmosphere.<\/p>\n

But despite this, sometimes you can\u2019t help but wonder\u2014did you make the right choice? Should you have chased him more in order to be a responsible parent?<\/p>\n

Privou o seu filho de ter um pai na vida dele? Eles compreendem que fez algo que tinha de ser feito ou culpam-no por se ter afastado?<\/p>\n

Quando se colocar estas quest\u00f5es, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que \u00e9 melhor assim. \u00c9 melhor para o seu filho ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel com um dos pais do que ser criado numa fam\u00edlia disfuncional.<\/p>\n

4. Vida social<\/h2>\n

Ser m\u00e3e solteira \u00e9 cansativo e raramente nos deixa tempo ou energia para qualquer outra coisa na vida.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve ceased to exist as a human being other than being just a mother. That doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t want to socialize and have friends.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you just one thing\u2014there is nothing remotely wrong with this. You shouldn\u2019t ever feel guilty for giving yourself a break from time to time.<\/p>\n

I know you are a full-time mother but you\u2019ll be happier if you loosen up a little and your child will enjoy having a more satisfied mother.<\/p>\n

5. Amar a vida<\/h2>\n

The same way you haven\u2019t ceased to exist as a human being since you\u2019ve become a mother, you are also still a woman with her emotional and sexual needs.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, sentimo-nos s\u00f3s e s\u00f3 queremos ter algu\u00e9m que nos d\u00ea a m\u00e3o e nos diga que tudo vai correr bem. Precisamos de intimidade e afeto e isso \u00e9 perfeitamente natural.<\/p>\n

Mas, por outro lado, sabe que \u00e9 preciso um homem forte para conquistar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e est\u00e1 preocupada com a forma como as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas podem afetar o seu filho.<\/p>\n

Sentir-se-\u00e1 emocionalmente negligenciado? O seu potencial parceiro vai dar-se bem com o seu filho?<\/p>\n

6. Inseguran\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

Quando se \u00e9 m\u00e3e solteira, h\u00e1 alturas em que nos sentimos orgulhosos de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios por conseguirmos fazer tudo sozinhos.<\/p>\n

And then, there are times when you don\u2019t feel enough and when you wonder if you should have done something differently.<\/p>\n

O seu filho sente falta de ter outro progenitor? Deveria estar a ganhar mais dinheiro? Passa tempo suficiente com ele?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a dar um bom exemplo? Ou ser\u00e1 que, na verdade, \u00e9 um pai t\u00f3xico, sem sequer se aperceber disso?<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 alturas em que todas as suas inseguran\u00e7as e medos aparecem \u00e0 superf\u00edcie. Momentos em que s\u00f3 precisamos de algu\u00e9m que nos diga que estamos a fazer as coisas bem.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 por isso que estou aqui para lhe dar a seguran\u00e7a de que precisa, para lhe dizer que \u00e9 fant\u00e1stica e que est\u00e1 a arrasar nesta coisa de ser m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n

Confia em mim, \u00e9s mais do que suficiente<\/a> e est\u00e3o a fazer um excelente trabalho simplesmente porque est\u00e3o a dar o vosso melhor.<\/p>\n

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