{"id":27819,"date":"2020-10-15T08:48:55","date_gmt":"2020-10-15T08:48:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27819"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:42:24","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:42:24","slug":"5-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-fortes-atraem-narcisistas-e-psicopatas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-fortes-atraem-narcisistas-e-psicopatas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres fortes atraem os narcisistas e os psicopatas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 resistente ao charme de um sociopata. Existe uma ideia errada na sociedade de que s\u00f3 as mulheres fortes s\u00e3o capazes de resistir a homens t\u00f3xicos.<\/p>\n<p>Acredita-se que as qualidades das mulheres fortes as tornam imunes a este tipo de homens.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade. As mulheres fortes n\u00e3o s\u00e3o uma esp\u00e9cie de robots desumanos sem empatia ou compaix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>They feel as any other woman does. So why would it be easier for them to resist a toxic man\u2019s charm?<\/p>\n<p>Apaixonar-se por narcisistas e psicopatas n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com intelig\u00eancia, educa\u00e7\u00e3o ou independ\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve met dozens of women of all profiles, from common everyday ladies to highly educated women, who have fallen prey to such men.<\/p>\n<p>Nenhum deles \u00e9 uma exce\u00e7\u00e3o quando se trata de amar um manipulador emocional.<\/p>\n<p>Os manipuladores, os narcisistas e os psicopatas s\u00e3o ainda mais suscept\u00edveis de se sentirem atra\u00eddos por estas mulheres fortes. Eles acham as suas qualidades desej\u00e1veis porque t\u00eam mais material para trabalhar.<\/p>\n<p>Estas mulheres oferecem mais energia positiva para drenar.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o as principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres fortes atraem narcisistas e sociopatas:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Eles sabem como fazer-nos sentir especiais<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123931\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"casal num encontro num restaurante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s extremely hard for strong women to find people they connect with instantly and when they do, they think that it\u2019s fate, that it\u2019s meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>But for a person with toxic tendencies, it\u2019s not fate. It\u2019s all a part of the plan.<\/p>\n<p>Porque os narcisistas e os sociopatas fingem ser exatamente aquilo que queremos que eles sejam. Eles v\u00e3o gostar das mesmas coisas que tu gostas.<\/p>\n<p>Eles agem exatamente como voc\u00ea quer que eles ajam. Basicamente, far\u00e3o qualquer coisa s\u00f3 para o irritar.<\/p>\n<p>Quando finalmente chamam a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e te fazem acreditar que s\u00e3o a tua pessoa para sempre, come\u00e7a o terror.<\/p>\n<p>They know you\u2019re in it for real now, and you won\u2019t back down that easily.<\/p>\n<p>Lutar\u00e1s por eles porque te preocupas com eles.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Procuram a intelig\u00eancia e o sucesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123933\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader.jpg\" alt=\"mulher l\u00edder autoconfiante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re probably targeted because you are successful and intelligent. They see you as a trophy they must have.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that you\u2019re successful or wealthy makes you even more desirable.<\/p>\n<p>Fazem de si um alvo e, na verdade, pouco ou nada tem a ver com o facto de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-ate-as-mulheres-fortes-terminam-relacoes-dificeis\/\">acaba por namorar um narcisista ou um sociopata<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They want everything you have to become theirs, so they can brag about their \u2018win\u2019.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua aud\u00e1cia \u00e9 atractiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123934\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"homem tatuado sentado num caf\u00e9 a beber caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O facto \u00e9 que quanto mais narcisista for um homem, mais atraente ser\u00e1 para as mulheres.<\/p>\n<p>A sua ousadia e uma atitude um pouco arrogante d\u00e3o a impress\u00e3o de que sabem o que querem e que o v\u00e3o conseguir.<\/p>\n<p>When the center of their attention is you and you know you are wanted, it flatters you, and you feel special. Don\u2019t be ashamed\u2014it\u2019s true, and every woman feels it.<\/p>\n<p>So, it\u2019s so easy to fall under their spell because they project everything you want to see in a man&#8230;at first.<\/p>\n<p>Mais tarde, mudam de riscas e mostram quem realmente s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">S\u00e3o manipuladores h\u00e1beis<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123936\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club.jpg\" alt=\"Casal feliz e os seus amigos a dan\u00e7ar numa discoteca\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Conseguem enganar qualquer pessoa. S\u00e3o h\u00e1beis manipuladores disfar\u00e7ados.<\/p>\n<p>Fazem-no de forma t\u00e3o profissional e esperam um per\u00edodo de tempo consider\u00e1vel para mostrar quem s\u00e3o realmente.<\/p>\n<p>They stay hidden until a later stage in the relationship when you get too much involved, and you can\u2019t get out.<\/p>\n<p>Depois, j\u00e1 vos t\u00eam nas suas garras e usam-vos como fonte de abastecimento.<\/p>\n<p>As consequ\u00eancias s\u00e3o simplesmente horr\u00edveis. Aquilo por que se tem de passar para ultrapassar um narcisista pode, no momento, fazer com que nunca mais se confie em ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re dealing with getting over a narcissist, read my new book <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/B07KGDMNY3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d here <\/a> and hopefully, you\u2019ll find answers based on my painful experience.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">S\u00e3o charmosos e confiantes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party.jpg\" alt=\"Casal feliz no bar a desfrutar de um cocktail\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is the thing when you see a charming man\u2014you\u2019re going to fall for him&#8230;and even more so, if the man is confident.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want a needy<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-mortais-de-um-homem-imaturo\/\"> homem imaturo<\/a> by your side. You want someone who\u2019ll know how to take care of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the bait which catches you. That\u2019s the road you take, and although the road had warning signs all over, you couldn\u2019t (or didn\u2019t want to) see them.<\/p>\n<p>Quando um narcisista encanta a sua v\u00edtima, ele seduzi-a e, no final, suga-a at\u00e9 ao tutano.<\/p>\n<p>Shy, strong, outgoing, introverts, empaths&#8230;any kind of a woman can be a target of a narcissist or a psychopath.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres fortes atraem os narcisistas e os psicopatas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98170\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres fortes atraem os narcisistas e os psicopatas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No one is resistant to a sociopath\u2019s charm. There is a misconception in society that only strong women are able to resist toxic men. It is believed that the qualities of strong women make them immune to this type of men. Well, that is just not true. Strong women are not some kind of inhumane&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":123937,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27819","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27819","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27819"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27819\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123937"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27819"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27819"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27819"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}