{"id":27835,"date":"2019-11-15T10:49:02","date_gmt":"2019-11-15T10:49:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27835"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:42:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:42:35","slug":"nao-precisas-de-mudar-so-precisas-de-deixar-de-sair-com-idiotas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-precisas-de-mudar-so-precisas-de-deixar-de-sair-com-idiotas\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o precisas de mudar, s\u00f3 precisas de deixar de sair com idiotas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas n\u00f3s temos um g\u00e9nero. Quer queiramos admiti-lo ou n\u00e3o, de alguma forma gravitamos sempre em dire\u00e7\u00e3o ao mesmo tipo de homens, sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

Be that an ambitious hard-worker who doesn\u2019t really have the time to nurture a loving relationship with you or be that a well-built guy who looks like he was made to break hearts with that gorgeous face and the body of a Greek god. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly what always happens. <\/span>Ele parte-nos o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Did you ever start to wonder how come after every break-up you always end up disappointed in the entire male species, crying yourself to sleep, spending days eating Ben & Jerry\u2019s and listening to Coldplay\u2019s saddest songs? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 ser o facto de estar simplesmente, inconscientemente, a escolher sempre o tipo que n\u00e3o \u00e9 adequado para si?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably going back in time now, and recollecting your past relationships and seeing a recurring pattern. You never realized this before, and you always thought that there was something wrong with you, but now, you are probably starting to realize that it\u2019s really not you. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s your unconscious desire to go after guys who make you feel so loved for a full whole minute and then <\/span>partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a> t\u00e3o rapidamente como o ganharam.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now is the time to realize you need to break that vicious pattern and realize why it was there in the first place. That way, you will be able to go for guys that are more suitable for you and won\u2019t make you feel like you<\/span> necessidade de mudar<\/span><\/a> anything about yourself\u2014<\/span>para al\u00e9m da vossa escolha de homens.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio porque \u00e9 que escolhe os tipos que escolhe? <\/i><\/b>There is always a reason, whether it\u2019s visible or not. Maybe it has something to do with how you see yourself, and you are projecting this on the guys you date? <\/span><\/p>\n

Talvez eles ressoem consigo a um n\u00edvel mais profundo de que nem sequer tem consci\u00eancia, pelo que gravita sempre em torno deles?<\/span><\/p>\n

Normalmente, as pessoas optam por coisas com as quais se sentem familiarizadas e com as quais sentem que podem lidar imediatamente. Isso faz-nos sentir seguros e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado nisso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Could it be that you are looking for someone who is just like your dad, because he was the only male figure you had in your life who you looked up to? And in theory, it should work, but in practice, it\u2019s much more problematic.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Whatever the case is, now that you are aware of that recurring pattern, it\u2019s time to break it, and venture out and try to find someone completely different from what you would normally go for. You\u2019ll never know if you don\u2019t try! <\/span><\/p>\n

It can only be better, so give it a chance. Don\u2019t fear the unknown, it may turn out to be just the thing for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pergunte a si pr\u00f3pria o que \u00e9 que acha que merece? De uma forma ou de outra, fala consigo pr\u00f3pria, seja na sua cabe\u00e7a ou em voz alta, e est\u00e1 a fazer eco da forma como o seu di\u00e1logo interior funciona com a forma como escolhe os seus homens. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Escolhemos os que nos parecem familiares, os que melhor se adaptam \u00e0 nossa maneira de pensar, falar e sentir.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Maybe you simply believe you only deserve a certain type of guy in your life, so you\u2019re not letting yourself break out of that unhealthy circle in which you keep coming back to the same guy, just in a different form.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you start making changes in your dating life before you end up with the wrong guy in the long run. It\u2019s time to stop letting these men make you feel insufficient and inadequate, simply because you are afraid of making a different choice!<\/span><\/p>\n

Saia do seu <\/i><\/b>zona de conforto<\/i><\/b><\/a> e procure mais! O mundo est\u00e1 cheio de homens que podem ser os teus. S\u00f3 precisa de ser suficientemente corajosa para os ver!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We all have a type. Whether we like to admit it or not, somehow we always gravitate towards the same type of men, every single time. Be that an ambitious hard-worker who doesn\u2019t really have the time to nurture a loving relationship with you or be that a well-built guy who looks like he was…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":27836,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/matthew-t-rader-1148748-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}