{"id":27845,"date":"2020-11-15T12:23:21","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T12:23:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27845"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:33:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:33:11","slug":"estes-sao-6-significados-escondidos-por-detras-de-um-i-love-you-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estes-sao-6-significados-escondidos-por-detras-de-um-i-love-you-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"Estes s\u00e3o 6 significados ocultos por tr\u00e1s do \"eu te amo\" de um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Independentemente do que eles tentam fazer-nos pensar, os narcisistas s\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 capaz de amar<\/a> ningu\u00e9m a n\u00e3o ser eles pr\u00f3prios. A sua defini\u00e7\u00e3o de amor \u00e9 t\u00f3xica, insalubre e perigosa e n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com o que o amor realmente deveria ser.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve heard your narcissistic boyfriend tell you how much he loves you a million times, right? Well, the truth is that a narcissist may think he loves you but he never does and here are all the hidden meanings behind his love.<\/p>\n

1. Gosto de te diminuir porque s\u00f3 assim me sinto bem comigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

Even though they\u2019ll never admit it, all narcissists are actually dark and pessimistic people who don\u2019t have a good opinion about themselves. The truth is that they appear to be full of self-confidence but they are actually drowning in insecurities.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica forma de um narcisista se sentir melhor consigo pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 rebaixar a sua v\u00edtima. S\u00f3 quando ele sente que \u00e9 superior a si \u00e9 que tem um sentido de autoestima. S\u00f3 quando ele o faz sentir que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom \u00e9 que a sua autoimagem melhora.<\/p>\n

And that is what every narcissist loves about his victim\u2014the possibility to drain your energy and the possibility to boost his self-confidence. When he insults you and makes you feel like you are good for nothing, he is actually feeding off your positive energy because that is the only way for him to feel good about himself.<\/p>\n

2. Amo-te como um bem<\/h2>\n

A narcissist doesn\u2019t see you as an individual person with your own feelings, mind and free will. He is not interested in taking care of you or meeting your needs and he\u2019ll never take your emotions into consideration.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, ele s\u00f3 te v\u00ea como uma coisa e como algu\u00e9m que ele pode abuso<\/a>. E ele ama-te como um bem precioso que precisa de ter.<\/p>\n

Ele v\u00ea-a como um trof\u00e9u e como algo que lhe pertence. Quando ele age como se tivesse orgulho em estar consigo, na verdade est\u00e1 a gostar do facto de as pessoas o invejarem por a ter.<\/p>\n

A narcissist\u2019s love is always selfish. He is never interested in the way you feel and he\u2019ll never put any effort into making you happy.<\/p>\n

3. Adoro o poder que tenho sobre ti<\/h2>\n

A principal raz\u00e3o pela qual os narcisistas perseguem as suas v\u00edtimas \u00e9 o sentimento de superioridade que t\u00eam sobre elas. Por isso, quando um narcisista diz que a ama, na realidade ama o facto de ser uma v\u00edtima adequada para ele.<\/p>\n

Ele adora o poder que tem sobre ti. Adora o facto de conseguir persuadir-te de que est\u00e1s abaixo dele em todos os aspectos poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

Ele adora a forma como a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o inferior aumenta o seu ego, a forma como a controla como uma marioneta e a forma como brinca com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Ele adora a forma como o fazes sentir que \u00e9 ele que manda e como consegue convencer-te de que \u00e9s completamente insignificante e sem import\u00e2ncia sem ele.<\/p>\n

4. Adoro ter algu\u00e9m que posso culpar por tudo<\/h2>\n

Uma coisa comum a todos os narcisistas<\/a> is that they run away from responsibility. They are never guilty of the things they\u2019ve said or done.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, foste tu que os obrigaste a faz\u00ea-lo e que os provocaste. Tu \u00e9s o louco e o que espera demasiado.<\/p>\n

Pelo menos \u00e9 isso que um narcisista nos far\u00e1 sempre acreditar. E \u00e9 por isso que ele a ama tanto.<\/p>\n

Ele gosta de brincar com a sua mente, fazendo-a questionar a sua sanidade. Adora fazer-lhe luz sobre o g\u00e1s e culp\u00e1-la por tudo o que corre mal na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But most of all, a narcissist loves having someone\u2019s shoulders to put all of life\u2019s responsibilities on. Before you know it, you are guilty of all of his failures, for all the times he doesn\u2019t feel good and for everything in his life that doesn\u2019t go as planned. Before you know it, you have become the source of his frustrations even when you haven\u2019t done anything \u2018wrong\u2019.<\/p>\n

And you know why that is so? Because he sees that you are better than him and he is intimidated by it. He actually feels inferior to you and he wants you to feel guilty for your superiority. He doesn\u2019t want you to see that he is the one who isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

5. Adoro a forma como me amas<\/h2>\n

Quando um narcisista diz que o ama, na verdade ele ama a forma como o trata e a forma como cuida dele. Na verdade, ele adora a forma como o amas.<\/p>\n

Ele gosta de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que ambos o colocam em primeiro lugar e em que ambos o amam. Ele gosta de ter algu\u00e9m que fa\u00e7a todos os sacrif\u00edcios por ele e algu\u00e9m que o ame incondicionalmente, independentemente do que ele fa\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

He loves the way you don\u2019t ask for anything in return, while you are giving him your entire self. And most of all, he loves the way your love compensates for his lack of true self-love.<\/p>\n

6. Odeio-te por precisar de ti<\/h2>\n

Every narcissist will try his best to persuade you that you need him. He\u2019ll try to make you believe that you would be nowhere without him in your life and that you could never find someone better.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que as coisas se passam exatamente ao contr\u00e1rio. Este narcisista manipulador<\/a> precisa de ti como precisa de ar para respirar e isso \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que ele quer que tu percebas.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 voc\u00ea que d\u00e1 sentido \u00e0 vida dele e \u00e9 voc\u00ea que o completa. E \u00e9 por isso que um narcisista nunca o poder\u00e1 amar. \u00c9 por isso que um narcisista o odeia.<\/p>\n

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No matter what they try to make you think, narcissists are not capable of loving anyone but themselves. Their definition of love is toxic, unhealthy and dangerous and it has nothing to do with what love should really look like. You\u2019ve heard your narcissistic boyfriend tell you how much he loves you a million times,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":27846,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27845","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/katie-drazdauskaite-1151083-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27845","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27845"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27845\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27846"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}