{"id":27901,"date":"2020-03-16T09:08:24","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T09:08:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27901"},"modified":"2022-05-22T23:06:25","modified_gmt":"2022-05-22T23:06:25","slug":"uma-carta-a-minha-melhor-amiga-tu-inspiras-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-a-minha-melhor-amiga-tu-inspiras-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o meu melhor amigo: Tu inspiras-me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Caro amigo,<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t think you really see how special and awe-inspiring you are, and I am here to remind you of that.<\/p>\n<p>Estou aqui para te dizer que mulheres como tu s\u00e3o t\u00e3o raras e preciosas e que me sinto verdadeiramente aben\u00e7oado por te ter na minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>You inspire me because you are not afraid to be yourself. And I know you weren\u2019t born that way. I know that life has beaten and bent you. I know it took you a long time to learned to truly love yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Teve de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/construir-confianca-central-vida-bem-sucedida-namorar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a<\/a> from scratch. But you managed. Somewhere down the line, you realized that it\u2019s not about being perfect\u2014it\u2019s about being you. It\u2019s about accepting yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You taught me that you don\u2019t always have to be strong. You are allowed to have a meltdown from time to time. You are allowed to break into pieces. That\u2019s OK as long as you keep picking yourself up. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Not giving up on yourself is what it\u2019s all about, and it doesn\u2019t matter how long it takes. It\u2019s the end result that counts.<\/p>\n<p>Inspiras-me porque, por mais bolas curvas que a vida te atire, encontras sempre um momento para sorrir.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo nas horas mais sombrias, mant\u00e9ns um esp\u00edrito positivo. Aproveita sempre os pequenos fragmentos de luz que surgem no seu caminho.<\/p>\n<p>You know that there are always some good days just around the corner, waiting for you, waiting for your loved ones, and it\u2019s only a matter of time before you get there.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Transforma um dia normal num dia extraordin\u00e1rio. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tem um grande sentido de humor. Consegue fazer rir uma sala inteira sem fazer um esfor\u00e7o real. H\u00e1 algo de radiante em si que faz com que as pessoas gravitem \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n<p>You are intelligent, driven and passionate in whatever you do. When you hit a roadblock, you just keep on persisting until you make it. And I\u2019m lucky just to witness that.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ver-vos a sonhar em grande inspira-me a fazer o mesmo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/8-coisas-que-deves-dizer-ao-teu-melhor-amigo-neste-momento\/\">8 coisas que deves dizer ao teu melhor amigo agora mesmo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77381 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de neg\u00f3cios a receber uma chamada enquanto est\u00e1 sentada \u00e0 secret\u00e1ria\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are brave enough to leave your comfort zone and reach for more. You don\u2019t allow your fears to hold you down. You say you\u2019ve done that for years and that it is time to change your ways.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t agree more. I will try to do the same. I want more for myself. I want to try new things and follow new adventures.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>All the problems and all the love troubles I\u2019m experiencing seem less when I share them with you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Obrigado por ouvirem o meu drama vezes sem conta. Eu sei que me estou a repetir de vez em quando.<\/p>\n<p>Mas tu entendes-me de alguma forma. Sabes as coisas certas para dizer. \u00c0s vezes at\u00e9 me conheces melhor do que eu pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Obrigado pela vossa paci\u00eancia. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/obrigado-pelo-vosso-apoio-durante-o-nosso-periodo-de-perda\/\">Obrigado por todo o amor e apoio<\/a> you\u2019ve been giving me all these years.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ensinaste-me que nem tudo tem de ter uma resposta.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/carta-aberta-o-melhor-amigo-merece-o-mundo\/\">Uma carta aberta ao meu melhor amigo: Tu mereces o mundo<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m an overthinker, and I don\u2019t do well with things that are left unsaid. I don\u2019t do well with relationships that have loose ends. I hate not having closure. But I guess that\u2019s inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been there, and you know. There\u2019s no point in thinking about \u2018what ifs\u2019 and people who chose to disappear from one\u2019s life without saying a word.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s sempre a lembrar-me que pessoas assim n\u00e3o s\u00e3o dignas do meu tempo e isso torna todo o processo de seguir em frente um pouco mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for soothing my thoughts. Thank you for showing me by example how it\u2019s done. And though these things are never painless, they\u2019ve started hurting a bit less.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Obrigada por me lembrares que mere\u00e7o mais. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You make me believe it myself. I\u2019ve had my fair share of toxic relationships that have made me think I am not good enough. But in your eyes, there\u2019s no one as good as me.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing about me that you would change. You just push me to be the best version of myself. You just keep repeating, \u201cMore self-love baby girl, more self-love.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And you are right. I need to love myself more. I need to demand the same respect back that I\u2019m giving to someone or I will end up heartbroken again.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Thank you for being brutally honest even when I don\u2019t want to hear it<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t sugarcoat anything. I can count on you to give me a reality check when I need one.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9m-me sempre de p\u00e9 e lembra-me que tenho de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperar-o-seu-coracao-e-ouvir-o-seu-cerebro\/\">levo o meu c\u00e9rebro comigo quando sigo o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You will tell me if someone\u2019s stringing me along or making a fool out of me because I\u2019m caught in the love mist and unable to see that for myself.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes que ser\u00e1 doloroso ouvir isto, mas s\u00f3 est\u00e1s a tentar poupar-me a uma dor ainda maior no futuro.<\/p>\n<p>There are many more similar situations. I don\u2019t even want to count them because it would take forever.<\/p>\n<p>But the point is, you have my back. You protect me even when I don\u2019t even realize I need protection.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You make my life better. You make everyone\u2019s life better.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/uma-carta-sentida-a-uma-noiva-no-dia-do-seu-casamento\/\">Uma carta sentida para a noiva no dia do seu casamento<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77383 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"amigas a abra\u00e7arem-se no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are amazingly charismatic, and you have this unique gift to lift other people\u2019s spirits up. You are kind, compassionate and selfless.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 um anjo na Terra que veio a este mundo com o objetivo de ajudar os outros.<\/p>\n<p>Preocupas-te com os outros em primeiro lugar e contigo em segundo. \u00c9s sempre aquele que d\u00e1 mais, que tenta mais e que ama mais.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sadly, that\u2019s something people take advantage of too often\u2014especially those you\u2019ve cared for the most. Those you let into your heart. The men of your life who didn\u2019t know how to appreciate you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tomaram a tua bondade como garantida. Habituaram-se \u00e0 tua compreens\u00e3o da natureza e continuaram a pensar que continuarias a perdoar-lhes durante toda a eternidade. Pensaram que podiam ir e vir como quisessem.<\/p>\n<p>They never could have pictured this new woman you have become. The empowered woman who doesn\u2019t let anybody treat her like crap. The woman who respects herself and demands to be respected back.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 limites dentro de ti que ningu\u00e9m pode ultrapassar. Elevaste os teus padr\u00f5es, apesar de continuares a ser uma rapariga de baixa manuten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need fancy dinners and expensive gifts. You need someone who will laugh with you while you take something from a food stand, and someone to gift you his free time and attention.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>O homem que acabar por ser teu para sempre ter\u00e1 muita sorte em ter-te. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>He will have a woman by his side who knows what is truly important in life, the one who doesn\u2019t sweat the small stuff, the one who is loyal to the bone.<\/p>\n<p>Ele ter\u00e1 uma forte e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-melhor-relacao-da-sua-vida-sera-com-a-rapariga\/\">independent woman who doesn\u2019t need him<\/a> but wants him in her life. And if he\u2019s smart, he\u2019ll appreciate you even more for it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I know that you can\u2019t see yourself through my eyes. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are so modest that you don\u2019t even realize how amazing and unique you are. You believe that everyone has a heart like yours.<\/p>\n<p>Mas escrevi-o na mesma, s\u00f3 para te mostrar do que \u00e9s feito. S\u00f3 para te dizer que me inspiras e me fazes querer ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de mim mesma.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve touched my life in ways I can\u2019t even explain. You are my rock. You are the one I share my happiness with. I am so blessed to have you in my life.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Obrigado pelo amor. Obrigado pela amizade. Obrigado por seres tu.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Penso que este tipo de amizades \u00e9 raro. S\u00e3o algo fora deste mundo. S\u00e3o algo que devemos agradecer a Deus e nunca tomar como garantido.<\/p>\n<p>Acredito mesmo que amizades como a nossa s\u00e3o para sempre. A vida acontece, as coisas mudam, as pessoas v\u00eam e v\u00e3o, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es acabam, mas um melhor amigo \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que fica ao nosso lado para a eternidade.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/paragrafos-do-melhor-amigo\/\">33 par\u00e1grafos de melhor amigo para deixar sua melhor amiga loucamente feliz<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77385 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/A-Letter-To-My-Best-Friend-You-Inspire-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta para o meu melhor amigo: Tu inspiras-me\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/A-Letter-To-My-Best-Friend-You-Inspire-Me-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/A-Letter-To-My-Best-Friend-You-Inspire-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friend, I don\u2019t think you really see how special and awe-inspiring you are, and I am here to remind you of that. I am here to tell you that women like you are so rare and precious and that I feel truly blessed to have you in my life. 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