{"id":27935,"date":"2018-11-16T11:50:46","date_gmt":"2018-11-16T11:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27935"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:05:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:05:22","slug":"lidar-com-um-ex-ciumento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/lidar-com-um-ex-ciumento\/","title":{"rendered":"Lidar com um ex ciumento"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you call it quits with someone, you\u2019re hoping they\u2019ll just go away, and you\u2019ll never have to deal with them again. And you certainly don\u2019t want your partner\u2019s ex to linger long after the fact, either. No one wants a crazy, jealous ex sticking around long after any romantic feelings have dissipated.<\/p>\n

So, what should you do if your man\u2019s ex won\u2019t give up the fight?<\/b> Even if you know he doesn\u2019t want anything to do with her or even feels sorry for her, the immaturity is still pretty annoying, right?<\/p>\n

Continually confronting your man won\u2019t solve the problem. If he has ignored the desperate attempts to win him back and hasn\u2019t reciprocated at all, there\u2019s really nothing more he can do. You don\u2019t want to let her ruin a good thing by nagging about it all the time or stooping to her level and striking back, ultimately giving her the attention she seeks while making yourself look just as nuts.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que se pode fazer?<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, confie no seu instinto.<\/b> If you are secure in your relationship, you have nothing to worry about. Anyone who copies your every move or keeps showing up everywhere you are in order to get the attention of your ex while your relationship is solid has a screw loose. Their actions will do all the talking for the both of you, anyway. They\u2019re only making themselves look silly and sad. The longer this continues, the more obvious it\u2019ll become, not only to you and your man, but to everyone else in your circle, too. Don\u2019t even respond.<\/p>\n

Bloco, bloco, bloco.<\/b> This day and age, to eliminate a stalker, you not only have to go incognito in person, but you have to take some extra precautions on your devices and online as well. Block this person and any known acquaintances on your phone and on social media, and never accept a friend request from someone you don\u2019t know or who you know is close with your stalker. Don\u2019t react to the behavior by explicitly calling them out for the world to see, either. Again, they\u2019re already making themselves look crazy. Others see this, and you don\u2019t want to make yourself look just as bad. You really need to simply shake your head and move on to more important things.<\/p>\n

Continua a ser tu.<\/b> If the ex is desperately trying to copy your every move in order to present as someone they\u2019re obviously not, just smile. First of all, this person was with your partner at one point, and he will see this better than anyone else. He knows who they really are and who you really are and can see they\u2019re only trying to emulate you. He can see she\u2019s copying you and this will make him want to stay with you more than anything else.\u00a0<\/b>You have a fan and you should be flattered! Don\u2019t worry, the original is always better than the sequel.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re only hurting themselves.<\/b> O esfor\u00e7o que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio para o perseguir continuamente e tentar encontrar formas de ser como voc\u00ea, ou para arranjar raz\u00f5es fr\u00edvolas para contactar o seu ex, \u00e9 exaustivo, mesmo s\u00f3 de pensar. A s\u00e9rio, como \u00e9 que esta pessoa consegue fazer algo verdadeiramente importante com todo o tempo gasto a tentar chamar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o? No final, o ressentimento s\u00f3 prejudica a pessoa que o carrega.<\/b> The individual who it\u2019s directed toward will never be afflicted with this weight.<\/b> So, while you\u2019re living freely and enjoying your partnership, know that this person is trapped by their own toxic emotions. Like a broken record, I\u2019ll repeat\u2014you don\u2019t have to do anything.<\/em> You don\u2019t have to react. They\u2019re already in a bad place.<\/p>\n

Resistir ao impulso.<\/b> There are less than ideal ways to handle jealous exes, of course. You could post crazy things online, hoping they\u2019ll try to copy them, so you\u2019ll get a good laugh. Or having your man pretend to take the bait just long enough to get a rise out of her. But, at some point, you have to realize you\u2019re better than this. You really are. O teu homem escolheu-te a ti, n\u00e3o a ela.<\/b> O ex \u00e9 um ex por uma raz\u00e3o. E, garantidamente, as tentativas desesperadas de ser igual a si s\u00f3 o tornar\u00e3o mais desej\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t sweat it. Shrug your shoulders and focus on what really matters\u2014the love you have for each other!<\/p>\n

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