{"id":28065,"date":"2018-11-20T11:49:14","date_gmt":"2018-11-20T11:49:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28065"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:04:37","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:04:37","slug":"6-licoes-de-cortar-o-coracao-que-aprendi-depois-de-perder-a-minha-alma-gemea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-licoes-de-cortar-o-coracao-que-aprendi-depois-de-perder-a-minha-alma-gemea\/","title":{"rendered":"6 li\u00e7\u00f5es de cortar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o que aprendi depois de perder a minha alma g\u00e9mea"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve met my soulmate. I fell for him from the moment I met him. We were perfect for each other. Right from the start, both of us knew we were supposed to meet and be together.<\/p>\n

We laughed together; we cried together. It\u2019s was all I\u2019d ever dreamt of. But, sadly, it didn\u2019t last that long<\/p>\n

We couldn\u2019t be together. It was impossible for us to be together. <\/b><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t even begin to explain the heartbreak of meeting your soulmate and losing him shortly after.<\/p>\n

When I finally realized that there is no way our situation could end up happily, I hit the breaking point in my life. I was falling apart, and I couldn\u2019t pick myself up. I didn\u2019t have a reason to move on because my life wasn\u2019t worth living without him in it.<\/p>\n

Pensei mesmo que a minha vida tinha acabado. Pensei que a felicidade me tinha encontrado e passado por mim.<\/b><\/p>\n

Thankfully, I bounced back from the horror I was faced with\u2014the horror of living without him. I managed to find purpose and joy in my life once again.<\/p>\n

Foi dif\u00edcil. Foi um per\u00edodo da minha vida cheio de l\u00e1grimas e desespero. Mas quando se chega ao fundo do po\u00e7o, o \u00fanico s\u00edtio para onde se pode ir a partir da\u00ed \u00e9 para cima. E, entretanto, redescobre-se e aprende-se a apreciar a pessoa que se \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Eis o que aprendi<\/a> depois de perder a minha alma g\u00e9mea:<\/p>\n

1. O amor voltar\u00e1 a encontrar-te<\/h2>\n

Life goes on. You aren\u2019t stuck in the moment. You aren\u2019t going to be unhappy for the rest of your life. It will take time to heal. It will be hard to move on, but you\u2019ll make it.<\/p>\n

It may seem hard and impossible at that moment, but later on, when you look back, you\u2019ll see it wasn\u2019t that bad. You\u2019ll see how that experience made you stronger and better.
\nLife goes on, and you can\u2019t stop it. You can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/p>\n

Your life didn\u2019t begin and it doesn\u2019t end with your soulmate. Each day passes, and you feel an inch better up to the point where you no longer feel pain.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: 10 sinais reveladores de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 perto de uma reuni\u00e3o da chama g\u00eamea<\/a><\/p>\n

2. As recorda\u00e7\u00f5es ficam na mem\u00f3ria<\/h2>\n

You\u2019ll never forget about him. No matter how many years go by, you\u2019ll always have memories. This is the hard part of letting go of your soulmate. Every time you feel sad in your life, you\u2019ll go back, imagining the times when you were happy with him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll go to a safe place when you had your alma g\u00e9mea<\/span><\/a>, and it will be hard to let go of the memories. But memories can\u2019t haunt you for that long. They appear in the moments of your weakness, and as soon as you snap out of it, those memories are gone.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019ll become a different person<\/h2>\n

You\u2019ll never feel the same after losing a soulmate. A part of you will disappear with him. But that is not a bad thing. You\u2019ll let go of that part of you like you let go of the person you can\u2019t be with.<\/p>\n

Then, reinventing begins. Then you learn and build another part of yourself. You\u2019ll find things that make you happy, and you\u2019ll fill that big void you had after you lost him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll become a different version of yourself, indeed a better one. It\u2019s because you\u2019ve grown and you\u2019ve learned so much since your heartbreak. Things look so much clearer now because you know who you were and what you\u2019re becoming.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re so much stronger than you think<\/h2>\n

Quando nos despedimos um do outro, o meu mundo desmoronou-se. At\u00e9 hoje, lembro-me que esse tempo foi apenas um grande borr\u00e3o. Eu era uma pessoa morta a andar.<\/p>\n

But I didn\u2019t stay in that mood for long. I moved on because I didn\u2019t have any other choice. Time was passing by, and I had to move on as well.<\/p>\n

Only then, when something big like that hit me, I realized I had so much strength in me. After feeling so much pain and after dealing with such a loss, I picked myself up and moved on with my life. I had it in me, and I didn\u2019t even realize it then.<\/p>\n

5. Por vezes, o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/h2>\n

We loved each other so much. But for us, love wasn\u2019t enough. We met at the completely wrong time in our lives. We were at different stages in life with a timing which couldn\u2019t be more off. We had to go our separate ways despite the fact we wanted to be together.<\/p>\n

We loved each other. We were meant to be with each other, but we didn\u2019t choose each other. We didn\u2019t want to commit because us being together would hurt so many people around us. We couldn\u2019t be that selfish.<\/p>\n

6. \u2018The one\u2019 doesn\u2019t exist, only the more suitable one at that time<\/h2>\n

We were soulmates, but that didn\u2019t mean we agreed on everything. We loved each other, and we had a feeling we could love each other to the day we die, but that didn\u2019t mean we were perfect.<\/p>\n

Discut\u00edamos porque ambos t\u00ednhamos as nossas pr\u00f3prias opini\u00f5es. Mas a beleza da coisa \u00e9 que, apesar das nossas diferen\u00e7as, sab\u00edamos como encontrar um caminho de volta um para o outro e entendermo-nos. Fizemos com que resultasse.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never meet a person who is just like you. You\u2019ll never meet someone who doesn\u2019t disagree with your points or argue for their cause. You don\u2019t have to be like that person, and that is okay.<\/p>\n

A lot of people are compatible but in a lot of different ways. The thing is whether you\u2019ll find the right thing you need from someone at the right time. If you do, then that person is \u2018The One\u2019.<\/p>\n

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