{"id":28111,"date":"2020-05-20T14:08:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T14:08:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28111"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:26:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:26:25","slug":"uma-mulher-forte-nao-tem-uma-atitude-tem-padroes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-mulher-forte-nao-tem-uma-atitude-tem-padroes\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma mulher forte n\u00e3o tem uma \"atitude\", ela tem padr\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"

When men see a strong woman they can\u2019t have, the first thing they\u2019ll say is that she is demasiado exigente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll accuse her of being snobbish and for acting like she is better than them, without any reason.<\/p>\n

When a man meets a powerful, self-confident woman who knows what she wants from life and isn\u2019t afraid to get it, he\u2019ll run as fast as he can. But not because he doesn\u2019t like her.<\/p>\n

No, he\u2019ll run away from this woman because he is scared. Because he is intimidated by her strength and greatness and because he knows that he\u2019ll never be enough for her.<\/p>\n

And when a woman like this refuses him, he won\u2019t take, \u201cNo,\u201d for an answer. He won\u2019t accept that she wants more from life or that her deal-breakers simply don\u2019t allow him to be with her.<\/p>\n

Em vez de trabalhar para se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio e ter a oportunidade de conquistar a rapariga, ele acusa-a de ser demasiado negativa e rude.<\/p>\n

Ele acus\u00e1-la-\u00e1 de pensar demasiado em si pr\u00f3pria e de ter uma atitude.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something\u2014having an attitude and having standards are two completely different things.<\/p>\n

Because a strong woman never has an \u2018attitude\u2019. Instead, she has strong <\/b>factores de desempate<\/b><\/a> and high standards which she doesn\u2019t want to lower for anyone.<\/b><\/p>\n

Having boundaries and expecting everyone else to respect them isn\u2019t attitude. It only means that you aren\u2019t ready to go against your moral norms or values just to please someone. It means that you won\u2019t do anything you aren\u2019t comfortable with just for the sake of someone else.<\/p>\n

Saying no to a guy you don\u2019t like isn\u2019t attitude.<\/b> Tens o direito de gostar de quem quiseres e de sair com quem quiseres.<\/p>\n

Just because you are not interested in a man doesn\u2019t make you cocky or stuffy. Instead, it makes you fair because you clearly don\u2019t want to string someone along just not to be alone.<\/p>\n

Not wanting a relationship isn\u2019t attitude.<\/b> It means that you\u2019ve embraced your single life and that you are enjoying every second of it. It means that you\u2019re dedicating all of your time and energy to some more important things right now.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Walking away from a man who doesn\u2019t treat you the way he should isn\u2019t attitude\u2014it\u2019s not settling for less.<\/b><\/p>\n

It is you showing yourself and everyone that you can\u2019t be manipulated into staying in a lousy relationship just because you wasted years on it. You know you can do better and you are ready to remain single until the man you want and need comes along.<\/p>\n

Cutting toxic people out of your life isn\u2019t attitude.<\/b> It means that you have enough courage to break all ties with someone who\u2019s been in your life for a long time, simply because you see that they don\u2019t have a good impact on your life.<\/p>\n

It just means that you don\u2019t want their negativity and toxicity exhausting you. You want to surround yourself with positivity and optimism and the last thing you need is emotional vampires to suck you dry.<\/p>\n

Demanding appreciation isn\u2019t attitude.<\/b> Significa apenas que se respeita a si pr\u00f3prio o suficiente para n\u00e3o deixar que os outros o tratem de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Being yourself isn\u2019t attitude.<\/b> It only means that you\u2019ve embraced your imperfections and that you are not trying to present yourself as flawless.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve worked hard to become the woman you are today and you are not ready to change yourself for anyone.<\/p>\n

You are not ready to mold yourself to fit into society\u2019s standards or to be more likable to some and the last thing you plan on doing is comparing yourself to anyone. And whoever can\u2019t accept the real you doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n

Having high self-confidence isn\u2019t attitude. <\/b>\u00c9 n\u00e3o permitir que os outros o diminuam de qualquer forma poss\u00edvel e n\u00e3o permitir que as pessoas o tratem como lixo. \u00c9 saber tudo o que somos capazes de fazer e ter f\u00e9 em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Putting yourself first isn\u2019t attitude.<\/b> \u00c9 conhecer o seu valor pr\u00f3prio e saber que dar prioridade a si pr\u00f3prio nunca \u00e9 ego\u00edsta. \u00c9 amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios acima de todos os outros e n\u00e3o esperar que os outros compensem a falta desse amor.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When men see a strong woman they can\u2019t have, the first thing they\u2019ll say is that she is too picky. They\u2019ll accuse her of being snobbish and for acting like she is better than them, without any reason. When a man meets a powerful, self-confident woman who knows what she wants from life and isn\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":94240,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/A-Strong-Woman-Doesnt-Have-An-\u2018Attitude\u2019-She-Has-Standards.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28111"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28111\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}