{"id":28142,"date":"2020-06-21T09:25:13","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T09:25:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28142"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:51:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:51:56","slug":"como-amar-uma-mulher-que-ja-foi-ao-inferno-e-voltou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-amar-uma-mulher-que-ja-foi-ao-inferno-e-voltou\/","title":{"rendered":"Como amar uma mulher que j\u00e1 foi ao inferno e voltou"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eles tentaram am\u00e1-la. Homens vieram e foram, mas nenhum deles conseguiu. Todos eles falharam.<\/p>\n<p>Those who don\u2019t have enough strength don\u2019t need to even bother to win her over. It will take a lot of time and a determined love to find a way to her heart.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t have it in you, don\u2019t even try because you\u2019ll fail. This woman who has been through hell and back will put you to the test. She\u2019ll make sure you have what it takes to be worthy of her love.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t know how to be her sunny after stormy weather, she will push you away. She\u2019ll make sure you never get close enough to her.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t give you a chance to hurt her. She is unpredictable. When her pain and suffering get the best of her, she\u2019ll turn into a hurricane, wiping out everything that stands in her way.<\/p>\n<p>But when she\u2019s calm in the status quo, she\u2019ll be as gentle as the summer rain.<\/p>\n<p>During the &nbsp;times when she\u2019s calm, at peace, but slightly broken and sad, you have to love her then.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ela est\u00e1 furiosa, com uma for\u00e7a furiosa que arrasa tudo \u00e0 sua volta, ama-a ainda mais.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95999\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-man-comforting-his-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem a confortar a namorada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-man-comforting-his-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-man-comforting-his-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-man-comforting-his-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll always be torn between her fear of you leaving her and her fear of being trapped. She\u2019ll never be able to put herself somewhere in the middle.<\/p>\n<p>Her mind hasn\u2019t still connected to her heart. She\u2019ll never admit to you how she feels. She\u2019ll never admit that she\u2019s scared of herself.<\/p>\n<p>Because one day, she\u2019ll want you close to her, giving her all the love and protection she needs, and the next day, she\u2019ll want her independence.<\/p>\n<p>Ela pode sentir-se presa na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o por causa dos fantasmas do seu passado.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re sleeping, she\u2019s awake, watching the clock tick and the time pass by. While you\u2019re in a deep sleep, she\u2019s wide awake.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s afraid to close her eyes because she doesn\u2019t know what awaits her. All the creatures from her worst nightmares can come and get her, all her biggest fears.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll wake up tomorrow, fresh and satisfied, but she\u2019ll walk like a zombie with big dark circles around her eyes. When that happens, leave her alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96000\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"cabelo afro mulher pensativa em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t smother her by trying to help her or make her smile. At those moments, all she really needs is herself. She needs to be alone. She needs to face her fears.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ela pedir a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o, ame-a. Quando ela o afastar, ame-a ainda mais.<\/p>\n<p>Although she is independent, she is terrified like a small child. She may look fierce and courageous from the outside, but she\u2019s falling apart on the inside.<\/p>\n<p>Cada nova situa\u00e7\u00e3o, cada nova pessoa que encontra, deixa-a ansiosa e nervosa. Ela tentar\u00e1 provar a si pr\u00f3pria que consegue resistir a todos os desafios e a todos os medos que a consomem.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll play the role of a tough girl. But every time she fails, she is going to need you to be there for her. Sometimes you\u2019ll have to hold her hand and press her body close to yours.<\/p>\n<p>And sometimes you\u2019ll have to read her like a book to know exactly what she wants because she won\u2019t know by herself.<\/p>\n<p>When she tries to fight her own battles and goes all in with everything she\u2019s got, love her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96001\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a confortar a sua mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-comforting-his-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-comforting-his-woman-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When she\u2019s scared she\u2019ll lose but pushes you away, love her even more.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll always be torn apart between not being good enough or being too much for someone. She struggles with finding the perfect ratio of both.<\/p>\n<p>She is scared she won\u2019t love you the way she\u2019s supposed to, and she\u2019s scared she\u2019ll love you more than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>It would be perfect if she could stay in the middle because she has never found someone who will love her when she\u2019s both.<\/p>\n<p>When she loves too much, love her. When doesn\u2019t love hard enough, love her even more. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, she\u2019ll hurt and all you can see on her face will be sad expressions and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-triste-verdade-e-que-ha-uma-tonelada-de-dor-escondida-por-detras-do-seu-sorriso\/\">uma enorme dor escondida por detr\u00e1s do seu sorriso falso<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes she\u2019ll be the happiest girl alive, laughing from the top of her lungs which will be the sweetest melody you\u2019ve ever heard.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ela se ri honestamente, ama-a. Quando ela esconde a dor por detr\u00e1s de um sorriso, ama-a ainda mais.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96002\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"um homem abra\u00e7ou a sua namorada triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll always love you with a dose of precaution. She\u2019ll always have an emergency exit, just in case something goes wrong.<\/p>\n<p>The part of her heart which has been wounded the most, she\u2019ll keep hidden. She won\u2019t risk her scars opening up again.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that you\u2019ll leave her. Everyone who has ever loved her has left her. You may swear on it now, but you too will leave her and hurt her.<\/p>\n<p>Because she knows that you\u2019ll leave her, she\u2019ll try to sabotage her own relationship. She\u2019ll try to find the reason to leave you first and try to avoid what\u2019s probably an inevitable pain.<\/p>\n<p>This is how she\u2019ll make sure she\u2019ll not get hurt again. When she wants you by her side, love her.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ela quiser afugentar-te, ama-a ainda mais. Nunca lhe tires a liberdade. Ela precisa de sentir o vento no seu cabelo.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa de dan\u00e7ar descal\u00e7a sob o c\u00e9u. Ela precisa de ter a certeza de que h\u00e1 sempre uma sa\u00edda, de que tem o controlo da sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96003\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista traseira de uma mulher a segurar um cobertor no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Never trap a bird in a cage because it wants to fly. Don\u2019t do this to her. It will destroy her.<\/p>\n<p>Love her when everything is alright and love her, even more, when it\u2019s not. Love her and prove to her that she has never seen a love like the one your offer her.<\/p>\n<p>Ama-a como se soubesses muito bem o que ela teve de arriscar para te dar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Ama-a como se compreendesses a sorte que tiveste ao am\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n<p>A woman like her doesn\u2019t need a man. A woman like her wants a man. And you are the one she chose to be with because you\u2019re strong enough to survive the hurricane she is.<\/p>\n<p>You, because in times when she pushes you away, because she doesn&#8217;t know how to love you, you love her even more.<\/p>\n<p><em>Maria Parker \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m a autora do novo livro Her Way, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Getting-Over-Narcissist-COLLECTION-NARCISSISM\/dp\/1731268459\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d<\/a>. <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96004 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/How-To-Love-A-Woman-Who-Has-Been-To-Hell-And-Back-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Como amar uma mulher que j\u00e1 foi ao inferno e voltou\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/How-To-Love-A-Woman-Who-Has-Been-To-Hell-And-Back-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/How-To-Love-A-Woman-Who-Has-Been-To-Hell-And-Back-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/How-To-Love-A-Woman-Who-Has-Been-To-Hell-And-Back-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/How-To-Love-A-Woman-Who-Has-Been-To-Hell-And-Back-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/How-To-Love-A-Woman-Who-Has-Been-To-Hell-And-Back-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/How-To-Love-A-Woman-Who-Has-Been-To-Hell-And-Back-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They have tried to love her. Men have come and gone, but none of them have succeeded. They have all failed. Those who don\u2019t have enough strength don\u2019t need to even bother to win her over. It will take a lot of time and a determined love to find a way to her heart. 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