But, I\u2019m sorry to disappoint you that guys don\u2019t work that way.<\/p>\n
If you demand or beg him to change, your requests will be ignored. Guys don\u2019t like to be begged or ordered what to do or how to behave, but they like to be inspired and subtly given advice on something that bothers you.<\/p>\n
Think of them like puppies. If you promise him that you will give him a treat each time he does something good, he will be more than happy to work on himself. I know it sounds weird, but that\u2019s how guys function as well.<\/p>\n
Para obter os resultados desejados, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio criar um ambiente positivo e inspirador que, subtilmente, o leve a mudar sem sequer se aperceber.<\/b><\/p>\n Quando se trata de o convencer a mudar sem ser for\u00e7ado, uma das coisas mais importantes \u00e9 oferecer primeiro sugest\u00f5es e depois dar-lhe conselhos.<\/p>\n Se o fizer, ele n\u00e3o a poder\u00e1 rejeitar, porque oferecer sugest\u00f5es n\u00e3o \u00e9 impor, e ter\u00e1 uma melhor vis\u00e3o e compreens\u00e3o da situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n After that, when he\u2019s accepted the situation, you give him advice (solution on how to overcome it). And if he doesn\u2019t like your advice, let him think and contemplate about it until he finds a proper solution for it.<\/p>\n Esta abordagem f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 compreender, encorajando-o a mudar e a encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o para o problema.<\/p>\n Por encorajar, quero dizer dar-lhe feedback por algo de bom que tenha feito. O feedback pode ser sob a forma de palavras ou de um pr\u00e9mio.<\/p>\n No guy can resist this, and if he sees that you\u2019re noticing his efforts, he will be more than happy to continue improving himself.<\/p>\n If a guy notices that you\u2019re rewarding his work and you\u2019re showing him that his actions have made you happy, he will be encouraged to keep up the good work, so that you continue rewarding him.<\/p>\n That way he will not even be aware that he\u2019s changing because he\u2019s doing it subconsciously.<\/p>\n A forma mais eficaz de o inspirar a come\u00e7ar a trabalhar em si \u00e9 come\u00e7ar a trabalhar em si primeiro. Saiba que os rapazes v\u00e3o modelar o seu comportamento sem sequer se aperceberem de que o est\u00e3o a fazer.<\/p>\n So, the best way to inspire him to change himself is to find something that you\u2019ve always wanted to change about yourself and start working on it.<\/p>\n When he sees that you\u2019re giving your best to accomplish it, he will be inspired to do the same if only to prove you that he can. And when a guy becomes determined to achieve something, believe me, nothing will stop him.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t mean that you should ignore him or act like you don\u2019t care about him. Instead, you should limit the amount of affection you\u2019re showing him and limit your conversations, and he will instantly know that something\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n Isto n\u00e3o o vai enfurecer, mas vai despertar a sua curiosidade e ele vai querer saber qual foi o gatilho para esse comportamento.<\/p>\n E quando lhe disser, ele vai ficar contente por finalmente saber e vai come\u00e7ar a fazer alguma coisa para a reconquistar. Mas tenha cuidado para n\u00e3o exagerar, pois isso resultar\u00e1 num efeito contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n It is important to set your boundaries and to stick to them. If he knows exactly what you\u2019re expecting of him and your relationship, he will know that he will have to work on himself if he wants to keep you.<\/p>\n O maior erro que pode cometer \u00e9 fazer vista grossa se ele fizer algo que sabe que voc\u00ea lhe disse especificamente que n\u00e3o tolera.<\/p>\n If you let this happen once, you will not be able to control it anymore. He has to see that you\u2019re serious about your boundaries and decisions, and if he is not willing to cooperate, there will be certain consequences.<\/p>\n Always remember to acknowledge his efforts if you see that he\u2019s trying. It doesn\u2019t matter if he fails at it because trying is what will make him succeed. So, don\u2019t forget to tell him that you see how hard he is trying, and you really appreciate it.<\/p>\n1. Oferecer sugest\u00f5es, depois dar conselhos<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Encoraj\u00e1-lo<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Inspir\u00e1-lo<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Afastar-se durante algum tempo<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Defina os seus limites<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Reconhecer os seus esfor\u00e7os<\/span><\/h2>\n
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