{"id":28235,"date":"2018-11-22T12:44:41","date_gmt":"2018-11-22T12:44:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28235"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:30:45","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:30:45","slug":"6-licoes-que-aprendi-depois-de-namorar-com-um-rapaz-que-se-fode","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-licoes-que-aprendi-depois-de-namorar-com-um-rapaz-que-se-fode\/","title":{"rendered":"6 li\u00e7\u00f5es que aprendi depois de sair com um rapaz que se fode"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Percebi o que quero de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

Depois da minha experi\u00eancia traum\u00e1tica com um rapaz de merda<\/span><\/a> que se aproveitou de mim, aprendi o que realmente quero de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica. Aprendi que a honestidade, o amor, o respeito e a compreens\u00e3o s\u00e3o coisas que importam e que devemos obt\u00ea-las se as dermos \u00e0 pessoa amada.<\/p>\n

But, unfortunately, I was the only one who gave all of this but got nothing in return. That\u2019s why I will never ignore all those red flags telling me that I should be more careful. Next time, I will choose more wisely.<\/p>\n

2. Aprendi a p\u00f4r-me em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

In a toxic relationship like that, I learned that putting first someone who doesn\u2019t even give a damn about you is the worst thing you can do to yourself. That\u2019s how I learned that I need to start loving and respecting myself and that I should give my trust to the ones who work hard to earn it.<\/p>\n

Agora sei que o amor-pr\u00f3prio n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo ego\u00edsta e que precisamos dele para sermos capazes de amar os outros. E apesar de esta li\u00e7\u00e3o ter sido dura, pelo menos nunca mais voltarei a cometer o mesmo erro.<\/p>\n

3. I learned I shouldn\u2019t go too fast<\/h2>\n

In all my previous relationships, I moved too fast, dreaming of big things even if I didn\u2019t know my boyfriend very well. That\u2019s what I did with the fuckboy as well. I gave him my love, my trust, and my support. In fact, I gave him all of myself but he never reciprocated in the same way. He ignored me to get my attention.<\/p>\n

He played mind games to win me over. And he was damn good at all of that. It surely wasn\u2019t his first time but even if I was bruised and broken, at least I learned a valuable lesson that will save me in the future.<\/p>\n

4. Aprendi que nem tudo se resume \u00e0 apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n

Por alguma raz\u00e3o, as raparigas apaixonam-se sempre por meninos maus<\/a> who happen to look great. They somehow miss all those shy guys who have a lot to offer but who don\u2019t look like top models. That\u2019s how I made the mistake. I fell for a man who had a perfect body but a wicked mind.<\/p>\n

E ele sabia que eu ficaria com ele, independentemente do que ele me fizesse, uma vez que me tornei viciada nele. E fiquei. At\u00e9 que descobri que ele me andava a trair enquanto est\u00e1vamos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. E com esse tipo de comportamento, ele simplesmente passou dos limites. Depois de o deixar, jurei que iria prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o a todos os homens e n\u00e3o apenas aos que t\u00eam um aspeto fant\u00e1stico.<\/p>\n

5. I learned that if I don\u2019t respect myself, others won\u2019t do it either<\/h2>\n

While in a relationship with a fuckboy, I didn\u2019t respect myself at all. He was my number one priority and I did everything to make him happy. But I soon realized I couldn\u2019t live like that any longer, not because I couldn\u2019t but because he didn\u2019t see my efforts.<\/p>\n

E quando acabei com ele, apercebi-me que durante todo o tempo em que estive com ele, n\u00e3o fiz qualquer esfor\u00e7o por mim. E mudei isso. Foi a melhor decis\u00e3o da minha vida.<\/p>\n

6. Aprendi a ser forte<\/h2>\n

After all that I went through in that relationship, I learned that I need to be strong for myself because others won\u2019t do it for me. I learned that life is not easy and that I need to fight for every single good thing I want to happen.<\/p>\n

After he broke me, I decided I couldn\u2019t stay down, crying and being frustrated, but that I have to stand up for myself and fight for a better future. And that\u2019s what I did and I still keep doing now. Even though this lesson was extremely painful, it only made me a stronger and better person.<\/p>\n

Christine \u00e9 autora de \u2018<\/span><\/span>Encarando os olhos da ansiedade e da depress\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><\/span>\u2019<\/span>Um livro que ir\u00e1 mudar a forma como combate a ansiedade e a depress\u00e3o.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

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