{"id":28272,"date":"2020-06-22T13:32:53","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T13:32:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28272"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:52:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:52:03","slug":"e-assim-que-um-narcisista-nos-atinge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-um-narcisista-nos-atinge\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que um narcisista o atinge"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever wondered what it is about you that just keeps attracting all these narcissists into your life? Does it stress you how much you just can\u2019t seem to shake them off? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You have finally learned their main traits – their inflated ego and lack of consideration for anyone but themselves. But what is it that makes them target you in particular?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Se quer que eles deixem de bater \u00e0 sua porta e de trazer drama e toxicidade \u00e0 sua vida, aqui est\u00e3o algumas coisas que eles <\/span>procurar<\/span><\/a> num parceiro para os fisgar. Considere-se avisado e boa sorte!<\/span><\/p>\n

1.\u00a0 You have low self-esteem<\/h2>\n

Os narcisistas t\u00eam como alvo as pessoas com pouca confian\u00e7a porque isso lhes d\u00e1 mais hip\u00f3teses de <\/span>enganch\u00e1-lo<\/span><\/a>. \u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que se sinta muito lisonjeada com as suas palavras vazias e falsas, o que facilitar\u00e1 a sua paix\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are not used to being complimented, so when they love-bomb you, saying you\u2019re the most beautiful woman they have ever laid their eyes on, you will believe them because it will make you feel good about yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, they are counting on the fact that you probably don\u2019t feel that great about yourself, so you\u2019ll likely accept their shitty behavior. <\/span>Idiotas.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re too caring<\/h2>\n

He sees how thoughtful and caring you are with your friends and people around you, even when they don\u2019t deserve it, so he uses it to his advantage, thinking you will bend over backwards for his sorry narcissistic ass as well. <\/span><\/p>\n

He knows you\u2019re going to let his shit fly even when he treats you like crap, so you\u2019re his ideal victim.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.\u00a0\u00a0You have a small circle of friends<\/h2>\n

Narcissists are drawn to people with only a small circle around them. They are counting on the fact you don\u2019t have a large, solid support group for when they drain you and use you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re a private person, and you only keep those really close around you. He thinks he can use it against you and manipulate you more easily. <\/span>Idiota!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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4. You\u2019re intelligent<\/h2>\n

But your mind is not exactly why they\u2019re drawn to you. No. They will look for smart girls because they want to prove that they are smarter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Que podem ser mais espertos do que v\u00f3s. Ser\u00e1s, de certa forma, um desafio para eles nas suas <\/span>jogos mentais<\/span><\/a> em que o objetivo \u00e9 manipul\u00e1-lo ao ponto de o fazer cair na sua teia enganadora de falsas promessas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him. Use your intelligence to see through this and leave. <\/span>Show him he\u2019s bit off more than he can chew<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. \u00c9s ambicioso<\/h2>\n

You\u2019re a smart, capable woman who doesn\u2019t waste time and goes out and makes things happen for herself! You are powerful and strong, and \u201cregular\u2019\u2019 men would potentially find you intimidating\u2014which is exactly why a narcissist thinks you are the perfect catch for him! <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e3o normalmente carism\u00e1ticos e manipuladores, pelo que adorariam encontrar uma rapariga \u00e0 sua altura. O facto de terem uma rapariga com as suas capacidades vai aumentar o seu ego.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Acabaste de passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

You are fragile, weak, still not over your long-term boyfriend who just left you out of the blue or you\u2019ve been through some other kind of heartbreak. This is where the narcissist enters. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will walk into your life, pretend that he wants to help you and be there for you, and he will appear so sweet and supportive. But once you open the door to him, it won\u2019t take him long to take his mask off and reveal his true self\u2014that of a conniving asshole who used your fragile state to get through to your broken heart and has no plans of letting you go. <\/span><\/p>\n

So when you\u2019re fresh out of a relationship, look out for the guys who seem too eager to help you and be around you. Let yourself heal first, and when you get to a good place again, your judgement will be much better.<\/span><\/p>\n

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