{"id":2853,"date":"2020-08-26T07:30:52","date_gmt":"2020-08-26T07:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2853"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:55:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:55:56","slug":"5-razoes-para-nao-ficar-com-o-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-para-nao-ficar-com-o-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel continuar a namorar com o teu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Isn\u2019t the whole idea of being <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/me-we\/201502\/what-it-really-means-be-friends-benefits\" rel=\"noopener\">amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a> para n\u00e3o ter nenhum compromisso? Brincar ao FWB com a tua ex \u00e9 uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all the emotional baggage that you carry which will interrupt your intentions, and you\u2019ll end up catching feelings once again even though you wanted it to be just casual s*x.<\/p>\n<p>There are some major things that\u2019ll ruin your plan.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A fam\u00edlia e os amigos continuam a enviar-te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107910\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"tr\u00eas amigos est\u00e3o sentados num caf\u00e9 a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might think all that there was between the two of you has ended, but people you\u2019re surrounded with might not agree with you. They see it way differently than you do and that\u2019s why they\u2019ll still try and ship you.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 imposs\u00edvel ir a jantares em conjunto ou a qualquer outra coisa sem ser constantemente chamada \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Toda a gente que o conhece o suficiente est\u00e1 a captar a energia que se passa entre si e o seu ex.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re Unable To Move On<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107912\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"uma morena triste senta-se na cama e pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-768x518.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-150x101.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Having somebody besides you (and that somebody is your ex) makes it hard for you to move on. The thing with being FWB with your ex is that you constantly think you have somebody even though you haven\u2019t put a label on it.<\/p>\n<p>You do call yourself \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/me-we\/201502\/what-it-really-means-be-friends-benefits\" rel=\"noopener\">amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a>\u2019, but deep down, something is still holding you attached to him and it makes you run and not look back whenever you get a chance for a new hookup.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you\u2019ve broken up, you\u2019re refusing to end whatever there is going on between the two of you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O ci\u00fame \u00e9 inevit\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107914 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette.jpg\" alt=\"um retrato de uma bela morena triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is this feeling of belonging to your ex that stays for a little while even after you have broken up. After a while it should disappear\u2014eventually, it goes away like after not hearing from him\/her for a while or so.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t cut all strings with your ex, you\u2019ll get again those jealousy outbursts like you had when you were dating because you haven\u2019t given enough time for each other to move on.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You Start Acting Like It\u2019s All Normal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107915\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher sorridente e bem vestida, com \u00f3culos de sol, caminha pela rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Where is the line you can\u2019t cross? You might agree on your terms of \u2018dating\u2019, but I can bet you it\u2019ll all be forgotten once you get too used to each other.<\/p>\n<p>Late night talks, joint dinners, jokes only the two of you get and you\u2019ll end up holding each other\u2019s hand and you\u2019re back to square one.<\/p>\n<p>Or\u2026<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Everything&#8217;s A Competition<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107916\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"um casal rom\u00e2ntico a caminhar descal\u00e7o na praia ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who\u2019s the one that will move on first and who\u2019ll be the sucker to be played in the end?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about the feelings and one of you has a bit more affection towards the other or it might be that in the end, the winner is the one that breaks the heart of the other.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m pagar\u00e1 por todos os erros cometidos na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e algu\u00e9m sair\u00e1 sem um arranh\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line would be this: If friends with benefits is something you wish to have, then it\u2019s better to try it with somebody new. Reward yourself with a fresh start if you don\u2019t want to end up back with your ex.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/friends-benefits-4-golden-rules-not-cross-line\/\">Amigos com benef\u00edcios: 4 regras de ouro para n\u00e3o pisar o risco<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107921 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel continuar a namorar com o teu ex\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Isn\u2019t the whole idea of being friends with benefits to not have any strings attached? Playing FWB with your ex is a mission impossible. It\u2019s all the emotional baggage that you carry which will interrupt your intentions, and you\u2019ll end up catching feelings once again even though you wanted it to be just casual s*x&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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