{"id":28905,"date":"2018-11-27T08:19:19","date_gmt":"2018-11-27T08:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28905"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:57:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:57:51","slug":"aceitamos-o-amor-que-achamos-que-merecemos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aceitamos-o-amor-que-achamos-que-merecemos\/","title":{"rendered":"Aceitamos o amor que achamos que merecemos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o recente, comecei a pensar no que tinha feito de errado. Vieram-me \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a v\u00e1rias perguntas. Perguntas como: <\/span>Ser\u00e1 que lhe mostrei demasiado afeto e o assustei? Ser\u00e1 que esperei demasiado dele? Ser\u00e1 que estou simplesmente <\/span><\/i>dif\u00edcil de amar<\/span><\/i><\/a>?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

E depois apercebi-me que nada disso era verdade. A \u00fanica verdade \u00e9: <\/span>Aceitamos o amor que achamos que merecemos.<\/b> O que \u00e9 que isto significa? Significa que estamos a limitar-nos involuntariamente no que diz respeito ao amor. Damos mais do que somos capazes de dar e recebemos menos do que merecemos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why do we fall in love with people who don\u2019t deserve us?<\/b><\/p>\n

Why do we choose someone when we subconsciously know that he\u2019s not a good choice for us? Why do we always hope that the person will change or that we will change them? We fool ourself to believe that this is the right thing to do. <\/span><\/p>\n

We choose to enjoy small loves because we think we will never experience the big one. We waste great amounts of our time on someone who is not worthy of one second. And we realize all of this when it\u2019s too late.<\/span><\/p>\n

We think we don\u2019t deserve better and that is why we settle for people who treat us badly.<\/b><\/p>\n

We accept other people\u2019s lies, manipulations and their toxic behavior just because we think we don\u2019t deserve better than that. But this is not true. We deserve much, much better and greater things than we are settling for. We deserve someone who will be there for us when we are scared.<\/span><\/p>\n

Merecemos algu\u00e9m que nos trate com respeito e admira\u00e7\u00e3o. Merecemos algu\u00e9m que pensar\u00e1 sempre em n\u00f3s porque somos parte do seu ser. E nunca devemos deixar de acreditar nisso. <\/span>People who treat us badly don\u2019t deserve us! <\/b>E essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica verdade.<\/span><\/p>\n

We think we\u2019ll never be good enough.<\/b><\/p>\n

We think we have to be perfect in order to be loved by another human being. How cruel of us to think that. We think we\u2019ll never be good enough because we don\u2019t allow ourself to fail. If we don\u2019t allow ourself to fail, we will never be able to improve ourself. We are good enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s suficientemente bom!<\/span><\/a> If they don\u2019t like you the way you are, they certainly don\u2019t deserve you. You should never change only to fit the definition of perfect. You are not perfect and that is more than okay. You are good enough for everyone else but you\u2019re not good to yourself. Be good to yourself!<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensamos que n\u00e3o somos dignos de ser amados.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to worry that you\u2019re unworthy of love because real love is not picky. Real love appreciates all of our quirks, flaws and imperfections and turns them into perfection. We are not unworthy of love, we are just giving our love to the wrong people who are not able to reciprocate.<\/span><\/p>\n

Love should be easy, like a summer breeze, but we keep making it hard for ourself. We keep giving second chances when we know we shouldn\u2019t. We keep hoping that they will change when we know they won\u2019t. We keep giving our heart even though we know that it will be broken. We forget that we deserve to be loved. And we forget to love ourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces ser amado.<\/b><\/p>\n

You deserve to feel free of all the troubles you\u2019ve gone through and you deserve to experience the essence of true love. You deserve someone who will never stop reminding you how beautiful you truly are, inside and out.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><\/p>\n

Deves ter orgulho em ti pr\u00f3prio e s\u00f3 deves aceitar o amor que te eleva, que te inspira e te faz tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o de ti pr\u00f3prio. Aceita o amor que \u00e9 alegre e cheio de vida. Aceita o amor que fica.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Aceitamos<\/p>\n

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After a recent break-up, I started contemplating what I did wrong. Different questions were coming to my mind. Questions like: Did I show too much affection to him and scare him? Did I expect too much of him? Am I simply hard to love? And then I realized that none of it was true. The…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":28906,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/timothy-paul-smith-181500-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28905\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28906"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}