{"id":28914,"date":"2020-05-27T08:59:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T08:59:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28914"},"modified":"2021-12-21T10:26:35","modified_gmt":"2021-12-21T10:26:35","slug":"para-o-meu-ex-foi-por-isso-que-te-bloqueei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-meu-ex-foi-por-isso-que-te-bloqueei\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o meu ex: Foi por isto que te bloqueei"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o quero que apare\u00e7as na minha vida quando te apetece e estragues tudo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I am in a good place now. I\u2019ve finally found peace, and I don\u2019t want you to tamper with that.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve already taken me to enough roller coaster rides. I don\u2019t need one more.<\/p>\n

I blocked you because I want to let you know that I am not available anymore. I won\u2019t jump to see you when you send me a drunken texto noturno<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be ecstatic from happiness because you remembered I exist. I don\u2019t want to be that girl anymore. I won\u2019t be a doormat you can step on.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to have an insight into my life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to think about what to post or not to post on my social media out of fear you\u2019ll see it.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to feel like I\u2019m sending you some hidden messages through the posts I share.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to know where I am and am I seeing anybody. I don\u2019t want you to know anything about me. You lost that right as soon as you took an exit lane out of my life.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to know what\u2019s going on in your life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to see the new girl you are dating. I don\u2019t need to see where you have been and what are you up to these days.<\/p>\n

You became my past by your own choice, and it\u2019s best I leave you there. There\u2019s no point in keeping tabs on each other. That\u2019s not the way to let somebody go.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be tempted to check up on you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If I hadn\u2019t bloqueou-o<\/a>Sei que haveria alturas em que navegaria pelas vossas contas nas redes sociais, \u00e0 procura de sabe Deus o qu\u00ea.<\/p>\n

At those moments, I would be stricken by nostalgia or I would be just curious. I really can\u2019t tell which, but I know it wouldn\u2019t do me any good.<\/p>\n

Precisava de me lembrar de quem eu era antes de tu entrares na minha vida. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve forgotten about that girl. I\u2019ve forgotten her smile. I\u2019ve forgotten what happiness looks like. Intentionally or unintentionally, you took the parts of me I treasured the most.<\/p>\n

You took my self-esteem. You took my inner peace. You took my happiness. It\u2019s time I get them back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time I hit the restart button on my life and reencontrar-me<\/span><\/a>, and I can\u2019t do that if you keep popping up at my news feed.<\/p>\n

Tenho de me conformar com o facto de que nunca vais mudar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Vais ficar sempre como est\u00e1s. Nunca me vais apreciar.<\/p>\n

Sempre me tomar\u00e1s por garantido. Passar\u00e1s sempre por cima de mim.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to grant you access into my life anymore. I won\u2019t allow you to keep going in and out of my life. I won\u2019t allow you to hurt me again. I\u2019ve had enough.<\/p>\n

I blocked you because I don\u2019t need strangers in my life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca te conheci, embora gostasse tanto de ti. Nunca foste honesto em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a nada. Disseste que nunca farias nada para me magoar, mas apunhalaste-me pelas costas. Trouxeste-me l\u00e1grimas e dor.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t care how I felt about what your actions did to me, and I don\u2019t need someone like that in my life.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s algu\u00e9m familiar e pr\u00f3ximo do cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Agora n\u00e3o \u00e9s mais do que um perfeito estranho.<\/p>\n

I blocked you because I know deep down that I don\u2019t need you anymore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tudo o que preciso \u00e9 de mim pr\u00f3prio. E agora sei que sou suficiente. Bloquear-te foi a melhor coisa que alguma vez fiz.<\/p>\n

Bloquear \u00e9 paz na minha mente. Bloqueio \u00e9 metade da sa\u00fade. Bloquear \u00e9 uma vida mais feliz e mais saud\u00e1vel. Bloqueio \u00e9 amor-pr\u00f3prio, e eu preciso de mais disso na minha vida.<\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t want you to show up in my life when you feel like it and mess everything up. I am in a good place now. I\u2019ve finally found peace, and I don\u2019t want you to tamper with that. You\u2019ve already taken me to enough roller coaster rides. I don\u2019t need one more. I blocked…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":28915,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29630],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-no-contact"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29630,"label":"no contact"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/evstratov.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29630,"name":"no contact","slug":"no-contact","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29630,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","parent":29627,"count":30,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29630,"category_count":30,"category_description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","cat_name":"no contact","category_nicename":"no-contact","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28914"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28914\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}