{"id":29016,"date":"2020-09-28T11:43:04","date_gmt":"2020-09-28T11:43:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29016"},"modified":"2022-01-18T00:00:29","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T00:00:29","slug":"8-coisas-que-perder-o-amor-da-sua-vida-lhe-ensina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-coisas-que-perder-o-amor-da-sua-vida-lhe-ensina\/","title":{"rendered":"8 coisas que perder o amor da sua vida lhe ensina"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas as suas esperan\u00e7as e sonhos estavam ligados a essa pessoa, e perd\u00ea-la \u00e9 como se tivesse perdido tudo. Parece o fim da vida tal como a conhecemos.<\/p>\n

Perder o amor da sua vida<\/a> is something you can\u2019t prepare yourself for. It\u2019s one of the worst things that can happen to you. It\u2019s like part of your heart was taken away from you, and you are never getting it back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s unbelievably hard. Pain can be overwhelming and excruciating. But a heartbreak is a lesson on its own, a lesson we don\u2019t want to learn, but we don\u2019t get to have any say in it.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o feitas para dois e, assim que um dos lados se afasta, n\u00e3o nos resta outra alternativa sen\u00e3o aprender com a nossa dor.<\/p>\n

When it first happens you are telling yourself that you are OK, but you really aren\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

A sua rea\u00e7\u00e3o inicial \u00e9 ser forte. Perder o amor da sua vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se recupere de um dia para o outro.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 as pessoas mais fortes s\u00e3o esmagadas quando o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 arrancado do peito. Ningu\u00e9m consegue sobreviver a isso de p\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Feel your feelings. Admit that you are not OK and that it\u2019s going to take you a long time before you can honestly say you are back on your feet.<\/p>\n

Let it hurt. It\u2019s supposed to hurt. You are supposed to cry and grieve over your loss. It will make the healing process a bit easier.<\/p>\n

Healing is a process which can\u2019t be rushed<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e1 todo o espetro de emo\u00e7\u00f5es que v\u00e3o desde a raiva, a tristeza, o desespero, o medo do futuro at\u00e9 ao entorpecimento total. <\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m ter\u00e1 dias bons em que se sentir\u00e1 positivo e forte. S\u00e3o esses dias que o recarregar\u00e3o e lhe dar\u00e3o o impulso de que necessita para continuar a avan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t expect that healing will happen in just a few days or months. Sometimes it takes a long time, and we are all different when dealing with our pain, especially if they were the hard love (this is one of the tr\u00eas amores na vida<\/a>). <\/p>\n

You\u2019ll miss them for a great while, and that\u2019s something you can\u2019t help<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Eles foram uma grande parte da sua vida e vai lembrar-se deles constantemente. As l\u00e1grimas vir\u00e3o sozinhas sempre que vires algo que te fa\u00e7a pensar neles, e os teus pensamentos ser\u00e3o o teu pior inimigo.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o estivesse destinada a terminar e que n\u00e3o tenha sido totalmente feliz, a sua mente ir\u00e1 repetir todos os momentos felizes que viveram juntos e ignorar todos os maus momentos.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look at this as a sign you should do the impossible to get back together. Remind yourself that you shouldn\u2019t chase after anyone who deixou-te sozinho<\/a> e escolheu n\u00e3o fazer parte da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Love is worth the fight, but it should never be begged for, and that\u2019s a huge difference.<\/p>\n

As redes sociais s\u00e3o o seu inimigo<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You are going to go through your exe\u2019s social media accounts. You will investigate every little clue in order to find some closure or the real reason why this person left you.<\/p>\n

But in the end, you will realize that you are just hurting way more this way. You will never get the answers you want if they weren\u2019t decent enough to tell you in person what it\u2019s all about.<\/p>\n

Your heart won\u2019t be at ease if you keep seeing their happy faces or even pictures with somebody they could have mais do que amizade<\/a> com.<\/p>\n

Try to resist the urge to check up on your ex. Don\u2019t go through their social media accounts. Don\u2019t ask your mutual friends about them. It will only make you feel worse and more hurt.<\/p>\n

Vais deixar de sonhar acordada com a possibilidade de voc\u00eas voltarem a estar juntos<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

It\u2019s only natural that you will have these desires at the beginning. You will be nostalgic about that person and about all those amazing moments you shared together.<\/p>\n

Mas, com o passar do tempo, aperceber-se-\u00e1 de que o seu ex pertence ao passado por uma raz\u00e3o. Perceber\u00e1 que merece melhor e que, embora gostasse muito dele, ele foi apenas um grande cap\u00edtulo da sua vida. N\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que a hist\u00f3ria termina.<\/p>\n

You choose your life; you don\u2019t settle for it<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t influence other people\u2019s behavior. We can\u2019t stop bad things that happen to us, but we can choose the way we deal with things.<\/p>\n

Podemos passar dias na cama e muito tempo a chorar pelo rumo errado que a nossa vida tomou ou podemos levantar-nos e fazer as nossas pr\u00f3prias escolhas.<\/p>\n

We can get up every day with a mindset that things will work out in the end. We can fight our pain and do things that shift our focus from our brokenness to empowering ourselves. If you do that, you will discover soon enough it\u2019s the way to happiness.<\/p>\n

Aprende que tem for\u00e7a suficiente para come\u00e7ar uma nova vida sem eles<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Depois de um certo per\u00edodo de tempo em que o amor perdido era a \u00fanica coisa em que pensava, aperceber-se-\u00e1 de que tem de continuar a andar, apesar da dor. Perceber\u00e1 que tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante.<\/p>\n

You will want to change your life. Your essence will and should always be the same. You will want to welcome newness in your life. You don\u2019t need constant reminders of what you had and lost.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you might start with simple things like changing your hair or the way you dress, hitting the gym and finding a way to sweat out the pain, etc.<\/p>\n

Mas tamb\u00e9m vai querer mudar a sua vida de uma forma importante. Ir\u00e1 atr\u00e1s de algo que o apaixona. Vai testar os seus limites e sair da sua zona de conforto.<\/p>\n

Conhecer\u00e1 novas pessoas e ter\u00e1 uma nova vis\u00e3o da vida. Deixar\u00e1 esta dor com a vit\u00f3ria pessoal de ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Losing the love of your life doesn’t mean that you lost your chance for true love<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida de que o amor que sentiu era real e talvez tenha pensado que essa pessoa era o amor da sua vida quando, na realidade, era apenas o seu maior amor at\u00e9 \u00e0 data.<\/p>\n

You will love again. As impossible as that sounds at the initial phases of your heartbreak, it\u2019s true. The one that is the real love of your life will be there to stay forever.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why the expression we use is a \u2018forever person\u2019\u2014love with them never ends.<\/p>\n

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