{"id":29096,"date":"2020-05-29T09:22:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T09:22:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29096"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:20","slug":"12-sinais-de-que-uma-separacao-foi-a-melhor-coisa-a-fazer-mesmo-que-ainda-sintas-falta-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-sinais-de-que-uma-separacao-foi-a-melhor-coisa-a-fazer-mesmo-que-ainda-sintas-falta-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Sinais de que uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi a melhor coisa a fazer (mesmo que voc\u00ea ainda sinta falta dele)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>1. A sua autoestima est\u00e1 de volta.<\/b> You\u2019re back baby! You don\u2019t feel lonely, and you don\u2019t question every single thing you do.<\/p>\n<p>Os seus pensamentos est\u00e3o no s\u00edtio certo. Sente-se novamente como voc\u00ea mesmo. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 p\u00e2nico ou ansiedade.<\/p>\n<p><b>2. You feel like you\u2019re free.<\/b> Pode estar ainda um pouco triste e talvez perdido.<\/p>\n<p>Mas o sentimento geral que nos consome, para al\u00e9m de tudo o resto, \u00e9 o sentimento de liberdade. Sabes que tens a tua antiga vida de volta.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. It\u2019s been a long time since you last devoted time to yourself.<\/b> Quando acabamos com algu\u00e9m, levantamo-nos e reinventamo-nos.<\/p>\n<p>You try to find that something within you which you\u2019ve lost. And then you realize it has been forever since you last did something nice for yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>4. You feel peace when you\u2019re by yourself.<\/b> Sure, it\u2019s not all that peachy all the time. Loneliness is a big burden to bear, but at the same time, you sometimes feel like you\u2019ve found your peace.<\/p>\n<p>You feel lonely because you\u2019re still hurt, and the wound is still fresh. But those moments when you feel happy about being alone are how you actually feel when you take away the sadness.<\/p>\n<p><b>5. You know exactly what you want and where you\u2019re headed.<\/b> Tem possibilidades ilimitadas guardadas para o futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Tem um objetivo claro e sabe que ningu\u00e9m pode interferir com ele; ningu\u00e9m o pode impedir de alcan\u00e7ar o que quer.<\/p>\n<p><b>6. You don\u2019t have to make compromises you don\u2019t want to.<\/b> Podes ver os programas de televis\u00e3o de que gostas. Podes comer o que quiseres.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 muitas coisas que estavam fora do alcance quando se estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que agora est\u00e3o dispon\u00edveis. Mas o mais importante \u00e9 que essas coisas o fa\u00e7am feliz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47821\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"12 Sinais de que uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi a melhor coisa a fazer (mesmo que voc\u00ea ainda sinta falta dele)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>7. You\u2019re laughing like you haven\u2019t laughed in a long time.<\/b> Laughter heals the soul, but while you were in a relationship, you didn\u2019t laugh that much.<\/p>\n<p>Laughing was replaced with bickering and yelling. Now that you are laughing again, you realize how much you\u2019ve missed it.<\/p>\n<p><b>8. A ideia de voltar a namorar faz-te entrar em p\u00e2nico.<\/b> Quando se acaba uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, h\u00e1 momentos de fraqueza em que se come\u00e7a a pensar como seria se ainda estivessem juntos?<\/p>\n<p>On the surface, that seems so much easier than going through the pain you\u2019re feeling. But when you really start thinking about it, you start panicking because you remember all the bad things that happened.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e1. Agora j\u00e1 sabes que acabar \u00e9 o melhor.<\/p>\n<p><b>9. Gosta da sua pr\u00f3pria companhia.<\/b> You don\u2019t need people around you in order to be happy and feel good.<\/p>\n<p>Before, you needed someone around you to enjoy yourself. Now you\u2019d rather drink a cup of coffee all by yourself than putting up with someone else\u2019s unnecessary presence.<\/p>\n<p><b>10. You\u2019re learning how to do things you know you wouldn\u2019t have learned if you had stayed in that relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re learning how to comfort yourself because you have no one by your side to make you feel better. You\u2019re learning how to be happy without a man in your life. You\u2019re learning how to be by yourself and love it!<\/p>\n<p><b>11. You\u2019re not afraid of change.<\/b> You\u2019re aware that it\u2019s so much better to be scared about the future and feel a bit of discomfort because you know you\u2019re growing than feel comfortable by staying in one and the same place.<\/p>\n<p><b>12. You\u2019ve gotten your own identity back.<\/b> Quando estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, as pessoas olhavam para si como parte de outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s a tua pr\u00f3pria pessoa, com os seus pr\u00f3prios interesses e a sua pr\u00f3pria personalidade. Agora tens tudo isso de volta e nunca mais vais abdicar disso.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-29099 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"12 Sinais de que uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi a melhor coisa a fazer (mesmo que voc\u00ea ainda sinta falta dele)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Your self-esteem is back. You\u2019re back baby! You don\u2019t feel lonely, and you don\u2019t question every single thing you do. Your thoughts are in the right place. You feel like yourself again. There is no panic or anxiety. 2. You feel like you\u2019re free. You can be still a bit sad and maybe lost&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":29098,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/greg-raines-50574-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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