{"id":29145,"date":"2020-09-30T10:06:36","date_gmt":"2020-09-30T10:06:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29145"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:46:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:46:43","slug":"o-teu-melhor-amigo-vs-o-amor-da-tua-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-teu-melhor-amigo-vs-o-amor-da-tua-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"O teu melhor amigo contra o amor da tua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Para alguns de n\u00f3s, chegar\u00e1 um momento em que encontraremos o amor da nossa vida, algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o podemos ter durante toda a nossa vida. Pelo menos, n\u00e3o da forma que gostar\u00edamos de ter.<\/p>\n<p>Eles alimentar\u00e3o o nosso fogo; colocar\u00e3o os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es em acelera\u00e7\u00e3o. Ser\u00e1 aquela pessoa pela qual, sem d\u00favida, mergulhar\u00edamos num penhasco.<\/p>\n<p>A pessoa que, quando estamos com ela, nada mais importa no mundo a n\u00e3o ser o que est\u00e1 entre as quatro paredes que nos rodeiam. Ela desafiar-nos-\u00e1 a n\u00edvel intelectual, de formas que nunca imagin\u00e1mos poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n<p>Uma pessoa, a nossa pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Teremos uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e um v\u00ednculo que a maior parte da sociedade nunca compreender\u00e1. No entanto, estamos quase sempre gratos por esse privil\u00e9gio. Ser\u00e1 fascinante, estimulante, alucinante, por assim dizer.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, um dia, essa experi\u00eancia \u00fanica na vida chegar\u00e1 ao fim. Nunca um fim total, ou um fim completo, mas um fim mesmo assim. Algo mudar\u00e1, para um ou para o outro, talvez at\u00e9 para ambos. Almas g\u00e9meas sim, mas n\u00e3o amantes para toda a vida.<\/p>\n<p>Juntos ou separados, o la\u00e7o interior permanecer\u00e1 para sempre, nunca ser\u00e1 preenchido por outro. Porque, francamente, isso seria imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll keep in touch. You\u2019ll always essentially be there for one another, just not 100 for 100.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122709 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada e ao telefone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-sitting-and-button-on-the-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Partes de ambos continuar\u00e3o a seguir em frente na vida, ultrapassando um ao outro lenta e gradualmente.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a uma pausa, aprecie este momento, pare no tempo e lembre-se do calor que ele trouxe \u00e0 sua vida e de todas as li\u00e7\u00f5es sinceras e dolorosas que este belo amor lhe ensinou. Agora, avance rapidamente.<\/p>\n<p>Um dia, conhecer\u00e1 algu\u00e9m novo, algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 o seu melhor amigo em todos os sentidos da palavra, que lhe traz felicidade e conforto, bem como um futuro brilhante.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll know in your heart, that this is it. This is the person with whom you should and will most likely spend your life with, happily nonetheless.<\/p>\n<p>Likewise, there is something daunting in the air, something you can\u2019t quite put your finger on. Like a light it hits you. Your person.<\/p>\n<p>They aren\u2019t nor could ever be that riveting, cliff diving, sensationally intellectual person in your life because you\u2019ve had that. Your once-in-a-lifetime has come and gone per se, and yet while \u201cgone\u201d, they\u2019re still present in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, you\u2019re stuck partially in your current world and partially within the world in which an intellectual part of your being lives.<\/p>\n<p>So you must decide: Do you spend the duration of your life falling in and out of this intellectual world you\u2019ve created with your person?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122710 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher tiram fotografias\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-take-pictures-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your fire fueling, butterfly giving, wild and free, once in a lifetime person&#8230; or do you create a new world? A safe, sound, happy, appreciated life, where you and your best best friend can create a meaningful and fulfilled life together?<\/p>\n<p>The right choice, the smart choice, is your best friend, leaving your once-in-a-lifetime person, in the past. This isn\u2019t an easy choice, but it\u2019s the right choice for a happy and healthy you.<\/p>\n<p>You see, your person, they\u2019re like an addiction. Once you close that door, you can\u2019t just throw away the key. You have to remind yourself and choose to keep that door shut, daily.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to feel nostalgic. It\u2019s normal to wonder some days, and play the \u2018what if\u2019s\u2019 in your mind. However, just remember, just because it\u2019s once-in-a-lifetime doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s your forever.<\/p>\n<p>A vida \u00e9 criada atrav\u00e9s de experi\u00eancias. Esta, em particular, \u00e9 especial. Vai ensinar-lhe coisas sobre si pr\u00f3prio que nunca imaginou serem poss\u00edveis ou verdadeiras.<\/p>\n<p>However, it will also teach you should you pay close enough attention to what you shouldn\u2019t settle for. Just because they\u2019re a once-in-a-lifetime person, doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re a forever person.<\/p>\n<p>O teu melhor amigo, esse \u00e9 o teu para sempre. Esse \u00e9 o teu ouro. Isso tamb\u00e9m ser\u00e1 um feito \u00fanico na vida, apenas numa forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em><b>por Jasmine P.<\/b><\/em><br \/>\n<b> <\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122708 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Your-Best-Friend-Vs-The-Love-Of-Your-Life-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O teu melhor amigo contra o amor da tua vida\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Your-Best-Friend-Vs-The-Love-Of-Your-Life-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Your-Best-Friend-Vs-The-Love-Of-Your-Life-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Your-Best-Friend-Vs-The-Love-Of-Your-Life-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Your-Best-Friend-Vs-The-Love-Of-Your-Life-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Your-Best-Friend-Vs-The-Love-Of-Your-Life-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For some of us, there will come a time when we meet the love of our life, one who, we cannot have for the entire duration of our life time. At least, not in the way in which we wish we could. They will fuel our fire; set our hearts in overdrive. They will be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":122707,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Your-Best-Friend-Vs-The-Love-Of-Your-Life-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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