{"id":29158,"date":"2018-11-30T10:48:23","date_gmt":"2018-11-30T10:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29158"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:20:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:20:26","slug":"nao-te-preocupes-ainda-sou-teu-mesmo-que-te-tenha-perdido-ha-muito-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-preocupes-ainda-sou-teu-mesmo-que-te-tenha-perdido-ha-muito-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o te preocupes, continuo a ser tua, mesmo que te tenha perdido h\u00e1 muito tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sabem, j\u00e1 me disseram tantas vezes o que fazer e como agir para ter uma vida melhor. Lembro-me de a minha m\u00e3e me dizer que devia comer muita fruta para me manter saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

If I wanted to go outside she would always tell me to take warm clothes because she didn’t want me to get some cold. She took care of me like I was a baby and, even if that annoyed me at that time, now I understand that she only took care of me like every mom takes care of her child.<\/p>\n

And she wasn\u2019t the only one, there were close people in my life who wanted me to always be safe. To keep me safe, they gave me advice about life. Some of it was useful so I listened but some advice I ignored completely.<\/p>\n

O mais interessante \u00e9 que todas essas coisas eram coisas que eu aprenderia mais cedo ou mais tarde na minha vida. Aprenderia essas li\u00e7\u00f5es quando chegasse a altura certa, mas estou zangada porque ningu\u00e9m me ensinou como agir quando se esbarra acidentalmente com o homem que foi toda a nossa vida e agora ele \u00e9 apenas um estranho<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que age quando sai de manh\u00e3 para comprar leite e p\u00e3o para o pequeno-almo\u00e7o e o v\u00ea? Como reage quando sabe que \u00e9 uma desgra\u00e7a e gostaria de ser a mulher mais bonita quando ele a v\u00ea para ficar desiludido por a ter perdido?<\/p>\n

And you are standing there saying nothing and you would like that your mom is there to tell you what to do now. But there isn’t anyone there. Nobody except your heart that beats like crazy and the fuss in your head.<\/p>\n

Toda a sua vida com ele passa \u00e0 frente dos seus olhos. Lembra-se dos seus ser\u00f5es juntos, quando ele estava deitado de barriga para baixo e voc\u00ea brincava com o cabelo dele.<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de todas as suas promessas de ter uma fam\u00edlia grande e uma casa com um quintal onde os seus filhos possam brincar. E ent\u00e3o a voz dele traz-te \u00e0 realidade e percebes que tens de sair desta situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You would be so glad if the ground could just open and take you with it but you are still there in front of him while he is watching you with his eyes. And you know that look very well. You know what he is trying. You know it all but yet you don\u2019t know anything. There is nobody to tell you how to get out of this situation.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t someone who will tell you como seguir em frente<\/a> like you were never together. You need someone who will help you carry that burden because you can\u2019t take it alone anymore. You need someone to tell you how to act when you meet the man who was your everything but now behaves like he is just a stranger.<\/p>\n

Precisas de algu\u00e9m que te diga que est\u00e1s numa boa fase da tua vida e que o teu namorado atual \u00e9 tudo o que precisas.<\/p>\n

Queres tanto ter algu\u00e9m na tua vida que te diga o que fazer para seguires em frente desde o dia em que ele te deixou.<\/p>\n

I need someone who will tell me how to get over something that finished but that won\u2019t ever finish for me. No matter how much I try, it will never truly be over. How should I calm all these emotions that are waking up in my mind and my heart while you see him walking away from you?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que posso estar calma quando aquele que era tudo para mim se vai embora como se nunca tivesse significado nada para mim?<\/p>\n

Sei que n\u00e3o estou calmo agora, mas sei que o tempo cura tudo e que talvez, mas s\u00f3 talvez, eu consiga amar algu\u00e9m da mesma forma que te amei um dia.<\/p>\n

Christine \u00e9 autora de \u2018Encarando os olhos da ansiedade e da depress\u00e3o<\/span><\/a>\u2019<\/span><\/em>Um livro que ir\u00e1 mudar a forma como combate a ansiedade e a depress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You know, I have been told so many times what to do and how to act to have a better life. I remember my mother used to tell me that I should eat a lot of fruits to stay healthy. If I wanted to go outside she would always tell me to take warm clothes…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29163,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/megan-lewis-601494-unsplash.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29158"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29158\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29163"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}