{"id":29171,"date":"2020-04-30T11:44:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T11:44:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29171"},"modified":"2022-12-09T19:25:18","modified_gmt":"2022-12-09T19:25:18","slug":"8-sinais-de-emocoes-reprimidas-formas-de-lidar-com-elas-com-sucesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-emocoes-reprimidas-formas-de-lidar-com-elas-com-sucesso\/","title":{"rendered":"8 sinais de emo\u00e7\u00f5es reprimidas e formas de lidar com elas com sucesso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>O que s\u00e3o emo\u00e7\u00f5es reprimidas?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando se \u00e9 uma pessoa emocionalmente reprimida, provavelmente n\u00e3o se tem consci\u00eancia desse facto.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que se trata de uma condi\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e9dica em que \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel exprimir os sentimentos, especialmente quando se sente desconfort\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not just that you hide your emotions\u2014you are consciously trying to avoid them and run away from them because you don\u2019t know how to handle them properly. But these feelings don\u2019t disappear in the process.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, they bottle up inside of you and usually cause you numerous problems, which you don\u2019t even see.<\/p>\n<p>If everything you\u2019ve just read applies to your personality, congratulations because you\u2019ve taken the first step by coming to the right place.<\/p>\n<p>E sabe porqu\u00ea? Porque est\u00e1 prestes a ler a maioria dos sintomas que quase todas as pessoas emocionalmente reprimidas enfrentam, o que o ajudar\u00e1 a diagnosticar-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>E essa n\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor parte, porque tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 a receber 10 formas bem-sucedidas de lidar com a sua doen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\"><b>Quais s\u00e3o os sinais e sintomas de emo\u00e7\u00f5es reprimidas?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. You don\u2019t listen to yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89018\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa a olhar para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When was the last time you really paid attention to yourself? The last time you really followed your heart and the last time you had some one-on-one talk? I bet you can\u2019t remember.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe que um dos primeiros sinais de que est\u00e1 emocionalmente reprimido \u00e9 o facto de n\u00e3o estar em contacto consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t carry out any self-introspection and you aren\u2019t listening to your inner voice and subconscious side.<\/p>\n<p>Even when you notice that there is something going on and that you are feeling bad, you don\u2019t research the cause of this emotional energy you\u2019ve been feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you choose to ignore it, thinking that it\u2019ll magically disappear that way.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Sente-se embara\u00e7ado com a raiva e a tristeza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo sentado ao lado da janela e a olhar para fora\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you are a man, when you were a kid, you were taught that boys don\u2019t cry.<\/p>\n<p>Foi-lhe ensinado que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/45-coisas-que-os-homens-de-verdade-fazem\/\">homens de verdade<\/a> raramente est\u00e3o tristes e que lidam sempre com a vida com os p\u00e9s bem assentes na terra.<\/p>\n<p>You were taught that showing your weaknesses and vulnerable sides is not a manly thing and with time, you\u2019ve adopted this pattern of behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, se for mulher, provavelmente foi-lhe ensinado que as raparigas nunca devem perder a calma.<\/p>\n<p>You were told that you weren\u2019t behaving like a real woman every time you showed your anger or nervousness.<\/p>\n<p>E mesmo que n\u00e3o tenha consci\u00eancia disso, essas opini\u00f5es moldaram-no para ser a pessoa que \u00e9 hoje.<\/p>\n<p>Quando eras crian\u00e7a, ensinaram-te que a raiva e a tristeza s\u00e3o emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas e agora, como adulto, tens vergonha delas.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014there is no such thing as bad and good emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you are feeling, you are entitled to feel and you shouldn\u2019t justify yourself for experiencing a certain emotion.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Nunca falas das tuas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89020\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-female-sitting-on-wooden-dock-in-front-of-lake.jpg\" alt=\"vista traseira de uma mulher loira sentada numa doca de madeira em frente a um lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-female-sitting-on-wooden-dock-in-front-of-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-female-sitting-on-wooden-dock-in-front-of-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-female-sitting-on-wooden-dock-in-front-of-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another important symptom of emotional repression is the fact that you don\u2019t share your emotions with anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that you should go around and talk about your deepest fears, hopes, aspirations and darkest secrets to everyone who comes your way.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que tem certamente alguns amigos e familiares pr\u00f3ximos.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, you don\u2019t talk to them about your true feelings either.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo quando choras, nunca o fazes \u00e0 frente deles. Em vez disso, prefere lidar com todas as suas coisas sozinho, sem envolver mais ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 alguma vez pensou porque \u00e9 que isto acontece? Tem vergonha de sentir? Acha que as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta v\u00e3o ridicularizar os seus sentimentos?<\/p>\n<p>Confias neles? Ou achas que eles podem usar o facto de te abrires com eles contra ti?<\/p>\n<h2>4. Est\u00e1s guardado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89025\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com concha branca ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As pessoas chamaram-lhe <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/7-maneiras-pelas-quais-uma-rapariga-reservada-ama-de-forma-diferente\/\">vigiado<\/a> no passado? Mas n\u00e3o estou a falar do facto de uma pessoa lhe ter dito isto.<\/p>\n<p>Estou a falar do facto de ser conhecido por ser uma pessoa fechada e reservada e de quase toda a gente pensar assim a seu respeito.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that this is a bad characteristic of yours because it is simply a part of your personality.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer para usarem sempre o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga. Mas a verdade \u00e9 que esta sua qualidade tem de ter um fundo e uma raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you are probably trying to protect your heart from getting broken and that you are overly careful with people but the fact is that you\u2019ve built these walls around yourself and that you don\u2019t let almost anyone in.<\/p>\n<p>Pode n\u00e3o ter consci\u00eancia disso, mas a verdade \u00e9 que muitas vezes parece que est\u00e1 a usar uma armadura de a\u00e7o que n\u00e3o pode ser quebrada.<\/p>\n<p>E este \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um dos primeiros sinais de uma pessoa emocionalmente reprimida.<\/p>\n<h2>5. You are always \u2018all right\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos de sol no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma das principais caracter\u00edsticas das pessoas emocionalmente reprimidas \u00e9 o facto de nunca dizerem em voz alta quando algo as est\u00e1 a incomodar.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, when people ask you how you\u2019ve been or if you need some help, you\u2019ll always answer that you are all right and that you don\u2019t need anything.<\/p>\n<p>But let\u2019s face it\u2014we all have good and less good days. We all have days when we are anything but all right.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, prefere terminar uma conversa sobre os seus sentimentos assegurando a todos que est\u00e1 bem, em vez de lhes dar a oportunidade de investigar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Mas j\u00e1 alguma vez se perguntou se, ao faz\u00ea-lo, est\u00e1 a mentir a todos os que o rodeiam? Ou se tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 a mentir a si pr\u00f3prio?<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 a tentar convencer-se de que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada com que se preocupar e que est\u00e1 perfeitamente bem, mesmo quando, no fundo, sabe que n\u00e3o est\u00e1?<\/p>\n<p>Tenho quase a certeza de que a resposta \u00e9 sim e isso \u00e9 um indicador claro de que est\u00e1 a reprimir os seus verdadeiros sentimentos.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Guardas rancor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones-1.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano de uma mulher a ouvir m\u00fasica triste com auscultadores\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando retemos as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, temos o h\u00e1bito de guardar rancores durante muito tempo, mesmo por coisas pequenas.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you don\u2019t process when someone close to you does you harm or hurts you because you are certain that the feeling of disappointment or repressed <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-raiva-resulta-simplesmente-do-medo-ou-da-tristeza-dicas-de-confrontacao-saudavel\/\">raiva<\/a> desaparecer\u00e1 com o tempo, se optar por ignor\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n<p>E esta abordagem s\u00f3 funciona a curto prazo, porque os sentimentos continuam a acumular-se e acabamos por ficar demasiado ressentidos.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t forgive people in time because of your inability to face what happened in your relationship with someone and that brings you more bad than good.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que n\u00e3o tenha consci\u00eancia disso, a verdade \u00e9 que, com o tempo, se tornou prisioneiro desses sentimentos e a \u00fanica pessoa que est\u00e1 a prejudicar \u00e9 a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, forgiveness brings liberation and it\u2019s better to do it in time.<\/p>\n<h2>7. You\u2019ve been accused of being passive-aggressive<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89031\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Two-young-female-friends-sitting-on-a-sofa-in-the-living-room-in-the-house.jpg\" alt=\"Duas jovens amigas sentadas num sof\u00e1 da sala de estar de uma casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Two-young-female-friends-sitting-on-a-sofa-in-the-living-room-in-the-house.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Two-young-female-friends-sitting-on-a-sofa-in-the-living-room-in-the-house-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Two-young-female-friends-sitting-on-a-sofa-in-the-living-room-in-the-house-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As pessoas sempre o acusaram de ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-relacao-passivo-agressiva\/\">passivo-agressivo<\/a>? Se a resposta for sim, existe a possibilidade de o seu potencial <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/agressivo-passivo\/\">comportamento passivo-agressivo<\/a> \u00e9 uma consequ\u00eancia das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es reprimidas.<\/p>\n<p>It is more than obvious that you don\u2019t have the ability to face your problems in time.<\/p>\n<p>You have a hard time telling people what is bothering you at the exact moment when you feel bad and you don\u2019t know how to argue productively.<\/p>\n<p>But everything you are feeling is kept somewhere deep inside of you and it doesn\u2019t magically go away if you act like it isn\u2019t there.<\/p>\n<p>Assim, por vezes, inconscientemente, castigamos aqueles que amamos, ignorando-os ou dando-lhes o tratamento do sil\u00eancio, quando fazem algo que nos incomoda.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Explode por coisas pequenas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89034\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-female-friends-talking.jpg\" alt=\"amigas preocupadas a falar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-female-friends-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-female-friends-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-female-friends-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outro sinal de que est\u00e1 a engarrafar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 o facto de ter o h\u00e1bito de explodir por causa de pequenas coisas.<\/p>\n<p>Se pensarmos bem, nenhuma das nossas discuss\u00f5es com os nossos entes queridos tem a ver com grandes coisas que s\u00e3o realmente importantes para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you suppress your real emotions and you don\u2019t show them in time and then you just lose it over the smallest possible thing.<\/p>\n<p>E, claro, toda a gente pensa que estamos a exagerar e a exagerar quando fazemos um alarido por algo que mais ningu\u00e9m faria.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially surprising coming from you, since you are known to be someone who doesn\u2019t have a tendency to react to bigger things, let alone to blow them out of proportion.<\/p>\n<p>But what people don\u2019t know is that your reactions always have a deeper background.<\/p>\n<p>And to be honest, they can\u2019t know it either. Nobody can read your mind and nobody can magically know when you are bothered by something unless you verbalize it.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect the people close to you to understand that you are attacking them now for something they did last month.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\"><b>Quais s\u00e3o as melhores formas de lidar com emo\u00e7\u00f5es reprimidas?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Estar consciente de que tem um problema<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89036\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"Homem bonito a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O primeiro passo para resolver qualquer problema, incluindo este, \u00e9 aceitar que o problema \u00e9 real e que existe. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de vergonhoso em ser uma pessoa emocionalmente reprimida.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, faz parte de quem somos, mas tamb\u00e9m nos traz muitos problemas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os outros e, sobretudo, na rela\u00e7\u00e3o que temos connosco pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, a primeira coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 olhar a verdade nos olhos e admitir que, por vezes, ret\u00e9m as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>E, mais ainda, que isso lhe est\u00e1 a causar mais problemas do que aqueles de que se apercebe.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Lembra-te que \u00e9s apenas um ser humano<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/cute-woman-surrounded-by-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mulher gira rodeada pela natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/cute-woman-surrounded-by-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/cute-woman-surrounded-by-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/cute-woman-surrounded-by-nature-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After you\u2019ve acknowledged that the problem exists, it\u2019s time to start working on finding ways to resolve it.<\/p>\n<p>E o primeiro passo para o fazer \u00e9 aceitar que se \u00e9 apenas um ser humano, feito de carne e osso.<\/p>\n<p>Remember\u2014none of us is perfect and nobody expects you to be flawless, even though you should never think about your feelings as your imperfections.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 um super-humano e tem todo o direito de ter um dia mau ou de se sentir mal, mesmo sem uma raz\u00e3o especial.<\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m vai gozar contigo por mostrares a tua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estar-com-um-homem-que-nao-tenha-medo-de-lhe-mostrar-o-seu-lado-vulneravel\/\">lado vulner\u00e1vel<\/a> e as pessoas que merecem um lugar na sua vida nunca usar\u00e3o as suas fraquezas contra si.<\/p>\n<p>Mereces ter algu\u00e9m que te sirva de ombro para chorar e que te ou\u00e7a quando precisares.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Find some \u2018you\u2019 time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89040\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de uma mulher bonita sentada numa mesa com um computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But let\u2019s face it\u2014you can\u2019t share your feelings with the people close to you unless you become aware of them for yourself first. So, what you need to do is acknowledge your emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Your feelings are existent, they are real and they aren\u2019t going anywhere, as much as you try to chase them away.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, em vez de deixar que se acumulem e em vez de tentar fugir delas, sem qualquer sucesso, a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que tem \u00e9 olh\u00e1-las nos olhos e tentar lidar com elas da melhor forma poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>And the best way to do so is to find some \u2018you\u2019 time. I know you live a busy life but remember\u2014this is important for your physical and mental health so try your best to find some time to be alone with your thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014this can be scary sometimes. So take a few deep breaths because you are about to face all of your inner demons and to be honest, you are even not sure what awaits you in the depths of your own personality. But it has to be done.<\/p>\n<p>And when I am talking about \u2018you\u2019 time, I am not saying that you should sleep, watch TV, read a book or listen to music.<\/p>\n<p>A chave est\u00e1 em excluir tudo e todos que possam chamar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e que possam desviar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o de se ouvir a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Quando encontrar esse tempo, ou\u00e7a atentamente a sua voz interior. O que \u00e9 que ela lhe diz? Quais s\u00e3o as coisas que mais o est\u00e3o a magoar? O que \u00e9 que o faz feliz?<\/p>\n<p>What are your fears? What are your craziest dreams and hopes which you don\u2019t have the courage to say out loud?<\/p>\n<p>Give yourself answers to each one of these questions and don\u2019t rush it.<\/p>\n<p>Think about these things thoroughly because this is everything you\u2019ve been running away from for as long as you can remember.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Aprender a chorar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89041\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-straight.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa com um olhar direto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-straight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-straight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/thoughtful-woman-looking-straight-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sei que pensa que o maior sinal da sua coragem \u00e9 o facto de nunca chorar, nem \u00e0 frente dos outros, nem mesmo quando est\u00e1 sozinho, e de quase nunca estar verdadeiramente triste.<\/p>\n<p>You never break apart and even when you feel like you could cry, you toughen up and you don\u2019t allow your tears to come to the surface.<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn\u2019t mean you are courageous. I am sorry to be the one to break it to you but this only means you are not brave enough to face your emotions, even when you don\u2019t like them. Instead, you choose to cowardly run away from them.<\/p>\n<p>Because let\u2019s face it\u2014sometimes, you deal with things that should make every human being sad.<\/p>\n<p>And do you think all of your suppressed tears go away? No, they don\u2019t disappear. They remain bottled up inside of you.<\/p>\n<p>And that is exactly why it\u2019s time for you to learn how to cry. Even when you don\u2019t feel like crying, because you probably forgot how to do it, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-tips-on-how-to-make-yourself-cry-like-theres-no-tomorrow\/\">fazer chorar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Think about a sad memory and let it consume you completely. Listen to a pathetic song that reminds you of someone you\u2019ve lost. Force yourself to cry your heart out one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>Just do it. And when you start, don\u2019t hold yourself back. Scream, if you feel like screaming.<\/p>\n<p>Sob and let all those tears out. No, you are not pathetic and you are not a crybaby\u2014you are just a human being.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Aprender a rir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89042\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-joyous-woman-in-coat.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher alegre de casaco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-joyous-woman-in-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-joyous-woman-in-coat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-joyous-woman-in-coat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you hold your emotions inside of you, you can\u2019t choose which of them to repress and which of them to let out.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, esquece-se de ser feliz tamb\u00e9m, porque se esfor\u00e7a muito para n\u00e3o demonstrar sentimentos.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, a pr\u00f3xima coisa que deve aprender a fazer \u00e9 rir sem qualquer raz\u00e3o espec\u00edfica.<\/p>\n<p>Think about something you know will put a huge smile on your face. Trust me\u2014it will make you feel much better.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Don\u2019t ignore your emotions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89043\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-man-with-curly-hair-outside.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente com cabelo encaracolado no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-man-with-curly-hair-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-man-with-curly-hair-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-man-with-curly-hair-outside-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se come\u00e7a a enfrentar as emo\u00e7\u00f5es, o pior que se pode fazer \u00e9 ter medo delas e come\u00e7ar a ignor\u00e1-las de novo.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, accept your feelings as a part of who you are and don\u2019t ever shut them down.<\/p>\n<p>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/le-isto-quando-te-sentires-um-destroco-emocional\/\">sentir-se emocionalmente destro\u00e7ado<\/a>Quando estiveres zangado, permite-te chorar. Quando estiveres zangado, permite-te estar zangado, sem te pores em perigo a ti pr\u00f3prio ou a quem te rodeia. E quando estiveres feliz, s\u00ea feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t compare your feelings to those of others. Don\u2019t think about if you should be feeling something or if your emotions at any given moments are appropriate. Don\u2019t think about fitting into a box or acting socially appropriate.<\/p>\n<p>Just be your true self whenever you feel like it. Remember\u2014nobody will judge you for it.<\/p>\n<p>And even if they do, it only means that they don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Don\u2019t judge yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89050\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-posing-beside-trees.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a posar junto a \u00e1rvores\" width=\"800\" height=\"537\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-posing-beside-trees.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-posing-beside-trees-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-posing-beside-trees-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-posing-beside-trees-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you stop caring about other people\u2019s opinions and judgments, it\u2019s time for you to stop judging yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Esque\u00e7a tudo o que lhe ensinaram em crian\u00e7a e deixe de se considerar demasiado fraco para sentir.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, it\u2019s time for you to be proud of your own strength and for the fact that you\u2019ve gotten this far.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you\u2019ve finally looked all of your inner demons straight in the eye and you are ready to accept them or to fight them off.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you\u2019ve finally come to the stage in which you are willing to deal with your emotions, whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Mime-se<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89044\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-covered-her-mouth-with-pillow.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher tapou a boca com uma almofada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-covered-her-mouth-with-pillow.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-covered-her-mouth-with-pillow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-covered-her-mouth-with-pillow-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O pr\u00f3ximo passo para lidar com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es reprimidas \u00e9 come\u00e7ar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/lista-de-desejos-de-uma-rapariga-solteira-tempo-para-mimar\/\">mimar-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer que nos devemos tornar ego\u00edstas de um dia para o outro, porque nunca \u00e9 esse o caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Estou apenas a aconselh\u00e1-la a n\u00e3o ser t\u00e3o dura consigo pr\u00f3pria. Nunca te trates pior do que tratas os outros!<\/p>\n<p>Remember how you observe your loved ones and how you\u2019ve learned to recognize their emotions, even when they aren\u2019t expressing them?<\/p>\n<p>You know how you are ready to do whatever it takes to put a smile back on someone\u2019s face when you see they are feeling low?<\/p>\n<p>So, why exactly aren\u2019t you treating yourself the same way? After all, you are the person you should love the most in this world and the person you should treat with the most care.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Encontrar um amigo de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89046\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/two-young-friends-chatting-in-bar.jpg\" alt=\"dois jovens amigos a conversar num bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/two-young-friends-chatting-in-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/two-young-friends-chatting-in-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/two-young-friends-chatting-in-bar-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outra coisa que o pode ajudar a lidar com os seus sentimentos reprimidos a longo prazo \u00e9 encontrar uma pessoa em quem possa confiar, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure that you have that special someone in your surroundings and you\u2019d see it as well, if you had just been paying attention.<\/p>\n<p>Esta pessoa pode ser a sua cara-metade, um membro da fam\u00edlia ou o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/40-boas-razoes-para-eu-amar-a-minha-melhor-amiga\/\">amigo<\/a>\u2014it is just important for them to be your friend, in the real sense of that word.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que sejas tu quem tem de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-controlar-as-suas-emocoes-numa-relacao\/\">lidar com as suas pr\u00f3prias emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>A verdade \u00e9 que somos seres sociais e \u00e9 sempre mais f\u00e1cil partilhar os nossos problemas com algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 disposto a ouvir-nos.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be ashamed of sharing your feelings with this special someone because it will make you feel better and it will serve as valuable practice for further verbalizing and expressing your emotions<\/p>\n<h2>10. Estar grato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89047\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-in-red-checkered-dress-standing-in-front-of-trees.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com vestido axadrezado vermelho em frente a \u00e1rvores\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-in-red-checkered-dress-standing-in-front-of-trees.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-in-red-checkered-dress-standing-in-front-of-trees-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Woman-in-red-checkered-dress-standing-in-front-of-trees-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finalmente, por favor <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/ser-grato-mesmo-nas-provacoes-e-tribulacoes-da-vida\/\">estar grato<\/a> for having all of these feelings. Be grateful that you\u2019ve managed to find them and for being strong enough to confront them the right way because this is the only path to complete emotional freedom.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t think of any experience or emotion as negative. Instead, look at them as valuable lessons which shaped you in becoming the person you are today.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89012\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/8-Signs-Of-Repressed-Emotions-Ways-To-Handle-Them-Successfully-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 sinais de emo\u00e7\u00f5es reprimidas e formas de lidar com elas com sucesso\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/8-Signs-Of-Repressed-Emotions-Ways-To-Handle-Them-Successfully-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/8-Signs-Of-Repressed-Emotions-Ways-To-Handle-Them-Successfully-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are repressed emotions? When you are an emotionally repressed person, you are probably not aware of that fact. But the truth is that this is a medical condition in which you find it almost impossible to express your feelings, especially when you are uncomfortable. It\u2019s not just that you hide your emotions\u2014you are consciously&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":89013,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29171","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/8-Signs-Of-Repressed-Emotions-Ways-To-Handle-Them-Successfully.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29171","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29171"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29171\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89013"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29171"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29171"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29171"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}