{"id":29214,"date":"2020-09-03T09:11:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T09:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29214"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:51:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:51:01","slug":"5-maneiras-incriveis-de-aliviar-o-seu-coracao-pesado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-incriveis-de-aliviar-o-seu-coracao-pesado\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras incr\u00edveis de aliviar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o pesado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When your mind is busy, it\u2019s not unusual to get overwhelmed and easily distracted, but the good thing about our mind is that it can always find a way to process things and let go at some point.<\/p>\n<p>But when it comes to your heart, it\u2019s not that simple.<\/p>\n<p>Os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o demasiado ternos. Eles guardam tanto amor, alegria, felicidade, tristeza, raiva, ressentimento e isso \u00e9 dif\u00edcil de processar de uma s\u00f3 vez.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata do nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o, ele \u00e9 a parte mais vulner\u00e1vel de n\u00f3s e, quando se torna pesado, as coisas podem ficar muito negras para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Our hearts take on too much sometimes, and it takes a real toll on us. They don\u2019t let go as easily as our heads, and they make us ask questions like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Porque \u00e9 que me sinto assim?<\/li>\n<li>Ser\u00e1 que este sentimento alguma vez vai passar?<\/li>\n<li>Como \u00e9 que vou ultrapassar isto?<\/li>\n<li>Ser\u00e1 que algu\u00e9m me entende?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And sometimes it\u2019s hard to find a way out of it. You feel trapped with no way to escape.<\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00ea <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/strong-women-shut-narcissistic-people\/\"> encerrar <\/a> from the world and decide you\u2019re done opening up. It makes you feel suffocated, and so you just disconnect because it\u2019s easier that way.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00c9 nessa altura que se torna ap\u00e1tico, deprimido e fechado a todos os que o amam e querem ajudar. Come\u00e7a a sentir-se s\u00f3 e desamparado, sem nada que o motive a seguir em frente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>It is common knowledge that the heart wants what the heart wants, but you\u2019re not helpless!<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 formas de acalmar a alma e de aliviar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o pesado. S\u00f3 tens de estar disposto a tentar.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o algumas maneiras que me ajudaram a lidar com os momentos mais dif\u00edceis e que realmente ajudaram a aliviar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o pesado e a voltar a ser a rapariga que eu sabia que era.<\/p>\n<p>Espero que vos possam ajudar tanto como me ajudaram a mim.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Come\u00e7ar a escrever tudo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112016\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a escrever em notas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Este passo simples pode ajud\u00e1-lo a libertar-se de todas as emo\u00e7\u00f5es que o est\u00e3o a perturbar e que n\u00e3o o deixam respirar facilmente.<\/p>\n<p>Quando transferir todos os seus pensamentos para um peda\u00e7o de papel, sentir\u00e1 uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de al\u00edvio e conforto, pois conseguiu, de alguma forma, express\u00e1-los e transferi-los do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para um lugar onde n\u00e3o o possam sobrecarregar tanto.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Aprendi da maneira mais dif\u00edcil que, quando estamos a reagir com raiva, dizemos coisas que mais tarde desejamos nunca ter dito. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Normalmente, deixamo-nos levar pelas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e acabamos por reagir de forma muito exagerada, arrependendo-nos pouco depois.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>This is why it is smart to write down whatever is causing you distress, as when you\u2019re writing it, you are slowly <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/to-the-girl-who-is-learning-that-letting-go-doesnt-happen-overnight\/\"> deixar ir <\/a> e a sua mente fica mais clara e menos propensa a agir por impulso.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, processa a situa\u00e7\u00e3o de uma forma saud\u00e1vel e reage a partir de um lugar est\u00e1vel e calmo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tentar encontrar uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o em cada dificuldade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112017\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher sentada e a pensar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 a passar por coisas dif\u00edceis que nos dificultam o racioc\u00ednio e os sentimentos, pode ser um verdadeiro desafio ver que algo de bom pode resultar disso.<\/p>\n<p>Em cada trag\u00e9dia, em cada desgosto e em cada per\u00edodo de desafio, h\u00e1 uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o disfar\u00e7ada.<\/p>\n<p>It is not always easy to see it, and it can make you insane trying to find it, but it\u2019s there.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s important to just let yourself go through whatever you need to go through, in order to realize some things after it has passed.<\/p>\n<p>Essas b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os v\u00eam normalmente sob a forma de uma epifania que nos faz ver exatamente porque \u00e9 que aquilo tinha de acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>O objetivo era ensinar-te alguma coisa. Talvez fosse suposto fazer-te ver a tua for\u00e7a e ajudar-te a perceber como \u00e9s muito mais resistente do que pensavas!<\/p>\n<p>Seja qual for a luta que esteja a atravessar, esteja aberto a que ela lhe ensine alguma coisa.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 bondade em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es e, quando se tem esperan\u00e7a, est\u00e1-se sempre aberto \u00e0s coisas boas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dar a si pr\u00f3prio tempo para sarar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112018\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e atenta sentada sozinha no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t rush into anything. Don\u2019t ask yourself how long it will take you to heal from this.<\/p>\n<p>Each thing takes the time that is necessary to get back to a healthy place, and rushing it won\u2019t make it happen faster. It will only cause you more inner stress.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00ea-lhe tempo. A cura \u00e9 um processo que leva tempo e ningu\u00e9m lhe pode dizer o tempo exato que vai levar para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/3-maneiras-de-esquecer-alguem-que-nunca-soube-amar-te\/\"> superar <\/a> algu\u00e9m ou para recuperar de uma trag\u00e9dia.<\/p>\n<p>The heart has its tempo. It\u2019s going to be a process, so don\u2019t rush yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You know yourself better than anyone, and when you start feeling that weight is lifted from your shoulders, you will know you\u2019re on your way.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tomar medidas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita a olhar para o lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 nessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o de afundamento, e se sente sem esperan\u00e7a e desamparado, o mais f\u00e1cil \u00e9 deixar-se deteriorar.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t take any effort. You just stop trying, stop thinking and let it destroy you from the inside out.<\/p>\n<p>Mas o mais corajoso \u00e9 agir. Tomar o assunto nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os. Seja a pessoa que decide que j\u00e1 chega e comece a fazer algo que o ajude a melhorar!<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sometimes, the smallest victories are the ones that end up making the biggest difference. You can\u2019t help everyone in this world, but look around you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Encontre aquela pessoa que sabe que pode ajudar e fa\u00e7a-o! Fa\u00e7a com que essa pessoa se sinta melhor do que se est\u00e1 a sentir neste momento.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Isto vai fazer com que se sinta imensamente menos ansioso e vai deix\u00e1-lo com um sentido de objetivo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you are not enough or that your gift is not enough. It is!<\/p>\n<p>You are amazing, and you are capable of much more than you think right now. Don\u2019t let your heavy heart mess with your perception of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Being a contributor in somebody else\u2019s happiness will help lighten your heavy heart.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Partilhe o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o pesado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112020\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a confortar a sua amiga triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Em tempos de tristeza e luto, a pior coisa que se pode fazer por si pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 isolar-se e n\u00e3o deixar ningu\u00e9m entrar.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it\u2019s the easiest thing to do\u2026 and that you don\u2019t feel like sharing nor are you able to explain the amount of sorrow you are feeling. So it\u2019s easier to keep it inside.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a coisa mais corajosa a fazer \u00e9 telefonar a um amigo, a um familiar ou ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>Qualquer pessoa que lhe seja pr\u00f3xima e que saiba que o pode ajudar neste momento dif\u00edcil, sem precisar de nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m que queira <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/se-a-amas-apoia-a\/\"> estar presente <\/a> porque a vossa felicidade significa o mundo para eles.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Seja corajoso para pedir ajuda. Partilhe a sua tristeza. Ajude-os a ajud\u00e1-lo! Pode ser que encontre algu\u00e9m que simpatize consigo por ter passado pelo mesmo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sharing is caring! It\u2019s not just a clich\u00e9. It\u2019s the truth.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando se \u00e9 capaz de dar o primeiro passo e falar com algu\u00e9m sem guardar nada, isso \u00e9 a prova de que se est\u00e1 a fazer muito melhor do que se pensa.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, d\u00ea a algu\u00e9m a oportunidade de contribuir para a sua felicidade e volte a ser saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Leave yourself open to finding your light again, and don\u2019t let your heavy heart darken it.<\/p>\n<p>Este sentimento que o est\u00e1 a consumir vai passar. S\u00f3 tens de passar pela parte dif\u00edcil primeiro, antes de voltares a encontrar a tua luz guia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112022\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 maneiras incr\u00edveis de aliviar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o pesado\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your mind is busy, it\u2019s not unusual to get overwhelmed and easily distracted, but the good thing about our mind is that it can always find a way to process things and let go at some point. But when it comes to your heart, it\u2019s not that simple. Our hearts are too tender. They&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":112021,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29214"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29214\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112021"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}