{"id":29260,"date":"2020-05-03T11:24:46","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T11:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29260"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","slug":"perdoa-te-a-ti-proprio-pelas-vezes-em-que-te-esqueceste-do-teu-proprio-valor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdoa-te-a-ti-proprio-pelas-vezes-em-que-te-esqueceste-do-teu-proprio-valor\/","title":{"rendered":"Perdoa-te pelos momentos em que te esqueceste do teu pr\u00f3prio valor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Est\u00e1 bem ciente de que o perd\u00e3o \u00e9 uma parte crucial da liberta\u00e7\u00e3o e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/this-is-what-moving-on-is-really-all-about\/\"> seguir em frente<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>With time, you\u2019ve learned that it is the only way to true liberation and to freeing yourself completely.<\/p>\n<p>And you keep forgiving the ones who have done you harm. You keep accepting the apologies you never got because you\u2019re a kind and loving person who can\u2019t stay resentful for long.<\/p>\n<p>But what about you? Why don\u2019t you treat yourself the same way? <b>Porque \u00e9 que guardas rancor de ti pr\u00f3prio? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Why don\u2019t you find the strength to forgive yourself?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 exatamente isso que deve fazer.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to <b>Perdoa-te a ti pr\u00f3prio por cada vez que permitiste que algu\u00e9m te partisse o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b> Porque a culpa nunca foi tua.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve always loved the best way you could and the ones who took advantage of your love are the only ones who should be ashamed of their actions.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por cada vez que se contentou com menos do que merecia.<\/b> Because now you know what you don\u2019t want from life.<\/p>\n<p>Agora sabes que foste feito para coisas maiores e para pessoas mais valiosas.<\/p>\n<p>Perdoe-se por ter deixado entrar as pessoas erradas e por n\u00e3o as ter cortado a tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Por lhes dar infinitas segundas oportunidades e por justificar aqueles que vos fizeram mal.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91813\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria em mentes profundas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por n\u00e3o saberes melhor e por n\u00e3o aprenderes com os teus erros do passado.<\/p>\n<p>Forgive yourself for all the times when you begged for someone\u2019s love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Por todas as vezes que deixaste que um idiota te fizesse pensar porque n\u00e3o \u00e9s suficiente e por te comparares com todas as outras raparigas da tua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Por cada vez que perseguiste algumas pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>For all the sleepless nights you spent trying to decode some guy\u2019s signals and trying to understand what he wanted from you.<\/p>\n<p>Por n\u00e3o saberes que um homem a s\u00e9rio nunca te obrigar\u00e1 a persegui-lo.<\/p>\n<p>Perdoe-se por todas as vezes em que esperou que algu\u00e9m mudasse e se tornasse uma pessoa melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Por n\u00e3o saber que \u00e0s vezes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-teu-amor-nao-pode-mudar-um-homem-ate-que-ele-proprio-decida-faze-lo\/\"> love isn\u2019t enough to make someone change <\/a> at\u00e9 que eles pr\u00f3prios decidam faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n<p>For all the times when you tried to save the people who didn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n<p>For trying to fix all those broken men and for not knowing that sometimes they aren\u2019t emotionally unavailable\u2014they are just assholes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perdoe-se a si pr\u00f3prio por dar mais do que receber em troca.<\/b> Por colocar todos os seus esfor\u00e7os em rela\u00e7\u00f5es que estavam condenadas ao fracasso.<\/p>\n<p>Por ser o \u00fanico a tentar, sem receber qualquer aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o, se nada mais. Por estar pronto a mover montanhas pelas pessoas que nunca levantaram um dedo para o seu bem.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na cadeira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>For every time you loved someone more than you loved yourself and for every time you didn\u2019t prioritize yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por colocares as necessidades dos outros \u00e0 frente das tuas e por n\u00e3o seres ego\u00edsta quando o devias ter sido.<\/p>\n<p>Stop blaming yourself for all the times you didn\u2019t appreciate yourself and for all the times when you allowed others to treat you the way they wanted.<\/p>\n<p>For all the times you didn\u2019t see that you matter and for all the times when you didn\u2019t see your true worth.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, be proud of the fact that you\u2019ve always worn your heart on your sleeve. Be proud of always being the good guy and for never hurting anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Mas acima de tudo, <b>be proud of yourself for always doing your best. For always trying and for always taking a chance, even when maybe you shouldn\u2019t have.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Orgulha-te de ti pr\u00f3prio por seres sempre honesto e verdadeiro. Pelo facto de nunca teres sido <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-tenha-medo-de-amar-de-novo-nem-todos-serao-como-o-seu-ex\/\"> medo de amar <\/a> ou com medo de se dar a conhecer, sem esperar nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p><b>Be proud of your strength and power. Be proud of the fact that you\u2019ve survived every heartbreak and that you\u2019ve always managed to get up when they tried to knock you down. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, por favor, em vez de se culparem, tomem tudo o que vos aconteceu como uma li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa e uma experi\u00eancia digna.<\/p>\n<p><b>See each of your scars as a reminder of the things you went through and as a reminder that you\u2019ve always managed to rise and to pick up the pieces of your broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because trust me\u2014not many can do that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91818\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Perdoa-te pelos momentos em que te esqueceste do teu pr\u00f3prio valor\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are very well aware that forgiveness is a crucial part of letting go and moving on. With time, you\u2019ve learned that it is the only way to true liberation and to freeing yourself completely. And you keep forgiving the ones who have done you harm. You keep accepting the apologies you never got because&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29260","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29260"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29260\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29260"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29260"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29260"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}