{"id":29304,"date":"2020-06-04T10:01:02","date_gmt":"2020-06-04T10:01:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29304"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:29:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:29:25","slug":"e-simples-se-ele-nao-a-persegue-nao-quer-estar-consigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-simples-se-ele-nao-a-persegue-nao-quer-estar-consigo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 simples: Se ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a perseguir-te, n\u00e3o quer estar contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 dif\u00edcil ser honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio quando as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e3o \u00e0 flor da pele. Ouve-se o que se quer ouvir. Repara nos sinais de que ele est\u00e1 interessado em si, mesmo que eles n\u00e3o estejam realmente l\u00e1.<\/p>\n

You do everything to convince yourself that he cares. Maybe it\u2019s a bit less than you do, but still there are some feelings there.<\/p>\n

But there aren\u2019t any, not genuine feelings at least. He might like you.<\/p>\n

He might drop by when it\u2019s convenient. He might give you crumbs but he will never be all in.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple really, and we shouldn\u2019t complicate things. If a man wants you, he will pursue you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t, he might be living across the street, and he would still find excuses not to see you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The desire to pursue is incorporated into a man\u2019s DNA. He will go after the one he wants, and he will do the impossible to be by her side.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t, he is not interested in having a real and committed relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that it\u2019s so hard to be aware of that sometimes. Not just because you are so in love that you can\u2019t see clearly but because most men want something, but they don\u2019t want everything.<\/p>\n

Assim, eles >Enganar-vos <\/a>. Servem-vos mentiras e sabem todas as palavras certas para vos fazer ficar ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

Dar-te-\u00e3o o suficiente para te segurares, mas nunca o suficiente para saberes que os seus cora\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o apenas teus.<\/p>\n

He will have his charming days. Days in which you\u2019ll be sure he\u2019s totally into you. Then he will flip the story upside down.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He will forget to text you, sometimes even for days. He will come by when it\u2019s convenient. He will get mad without a reason.<\/p>\n

E sentir-se-\u00e1 confuso com tudo isto. Ter\u00e1 um milh\u00e3o de perguntas a passar-lhe pela cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Tentar\u00e1s chegar ao fundo das coisas. Vai questionar-se e at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a pensar que foi algo que fez.<\/p>\n

Stop! He\u2019s not worth it. He\u2019s not worth your time. He\u2019s not worth the chase.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no point in going after someone who always has one foot out of the door. <\/b><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no happiness with a man who is not one hundred percent sure about his feelings for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be a woman who waits for his text as if her life depended on it. Don\u2019t let him come in and out of your life as he pleases.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him treat you like a doormat. Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

Your feelings aren\u2019t toys he can play with. Your mind isn\u2019t something that he should mess with.<\/p>\n

Your body isn\u2019t at his disposal. Don\u2019t let him think that for a second.<\/p>\n

Ser uma mulher que sabe o seu valor. Seja confiante. Seja corajosa. Seja independente.<\/p>\n

Tome a sua vida e a sua felicidade nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os.<\/p>\n

Never allow a man to waste your time. Don\u2019t wait for him to change. He never will.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Be the one who doesn\u2019t measure her value by her relationship status. Be the one who knows that being single is always better than putting up with a crappy relationship.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t deny yourself the right to be with someone who can give you that old-fashioned type of love the one in which a man courts you and stops at nothing until he makes you his. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, this way of thinking is not a fairy tale. It\u2019s true, and it exists. It\u2019s just that you don\u2019t see it because of the all wrong men that surround you.<\/p>\n

Espere pela hist\u00f3ria de amor em que um homem lhe mostra que est\u00e1 interessado em si. Aquela em que ele planeia com anteced\u00eancia. Aquela em que ele se lembra de enviar mensagens.<\/p>\n

Aquela em que ele encontra tempo. Aquele em que ele te mostra como \u00e9s importante. Aquele em que ele te persegue.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not too much to ask. You deserve a real love story with a man who is devoted to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You deserve someone who will respect you and be there for you at all times. You deserve someone who accepts your flaws and doesn\u2019t rub your nose in them every time he feels like it.<\/p>\n

Mereces algu\u00e9m em quem te apoiar, um homem que seja o teu maior apoiante e que te inspire a fazer grandes coisas.<\/p>\n

Mereces o amor que te faz sentir segura. Mereces o verdadeiro, n\u00e3o algo falso e tempor\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t put up with >Sinais mistos <\/a> e pouco esfor\u00e7o. Deves ser a sua prioridade, n\u00e3o uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You should be his destination, not a stop along the way. Remember that, and don\u2019t fall for his lame excuses.<\/p>\n

Rest assured that the man you are supposed to end up with will pursue you. He won\u2019t complicate things and make your life a living hell.<\/p>\n

Ele mostrar-te-\u00e1 que o amor nunca \u00e9 for\u00e7ado. Flui sempre naturalmente do cora\u00e7\u00e3o dele para o teu, e vice-versa.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s hard to be honest with yourself when your emotions are running wild. You hear what you want to hear. You notice the signs he is into you even if they are not really there. You do everything to convince yourself that he cares. Maybe it\u2019s a bit less than you do, but still there…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":106229,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Its-Simple-If-He-Isnt-Pursuing-You-He-Doesnt-Want-To-Be-With-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29304"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29304\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106229"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}