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<\/p>\nRecentemente, li algures a seguinte cita\u00e7\u00e3o: I know what I bring to the table, and I\u2019m not afraid to eat alone.<\/b> Precisei de dois longos dias para compreender verdadeiramente o significado desta cita\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
A primeira coisa que me veio \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a foi algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 a trazer comida real e f\u00edsica para a mesa.<\/p>\n
He knows what he is bringing and because of that he\u2019s not afraid to eat by himself. He\u2019s not afraid of everyone leaving him because he knows the true worth of the nourishment he is bringing.<\/p>\n
Esta \u00e9 uma compreens\u00e3o b\u00e1sica da cita\u00e7\u00e3o, mas quando a aprofundamos, apercebemo-nos da sua verdadeira beleza. Pode ser aplicada basicamente a qualquer coisa e o significado permanece o mesmo.<\/p>\n
Se queres que os outros te apreciem, tens de saber o teu valor.<\/b><\/p>\n
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Esta \u00e9 a primeira coisa que tem de recordar a si pr\u00f3prio para compreender o significado da cita\u00e7\u00e3o. Leia-a novamente, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n
Absorb it. Feel the beauty of it. This simple statement means that you need to know your worth (you need to know what you\u2019re bringing to the table) if you want others to appreciate you.<\/p>\n
Algumas pessoas esqueceram-se de como s\u00e3o dignas e d\u00e3o-se por garantidas, o que rapidamente leva \u00e0 desilus\u00e3o com os outros. \u00c9 preciso compreender que tudo come\u00e7a por si.<\/p>\n
\u00c9 preciso perceber o nosso valor e mostr\u00e1-lo aos outros para que saibam que n\u00e3o podem brincar connosco.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you\u2019re not worthy of being respected and appreciated for who you are.<\/p>\n
Tu \u00e9s incr\u00edvel e \u00e9s suficiente! E mesmo que a maioria das pessoas lhe diga o contr\u00e1rio, contradiga-as e mostre-lhes que n\u00e3o t\u00eam raz\u00e3o!<\/p>\n
You\u2019re the only one who knows what challenges you had to overcome in order to become who you are today. You\u2019re the only one who knows your ability to love, give and receive.<\/p>\n
And you\u2019re the only who can tell them that this is who you are, and they better appreciate it or you\u2019ll go with those awesome traits of yours somewhere else to someone else who will appreciate them.<\/p>\n
Estabelecer limites.<\/b><\/p>\n
As pessoas cometem erros. Eu cometo erros. Tu cometes erros. E \u00e9 isso que nos torna humanos.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re allowed to make mistakes, but you should also know when to apologize or when to say that it\u2019s enough.<\/p>\n
Se queres que os outros te respeitem, deves estabelecer os teus limites e mant\u00ea-los. Se algu\u00e9m lhe disser algo simp\u00e1tico, agrade\u00e7a-lhe.<\/p>\n
But, if someone pisses you off, don\u2019t be nice to them. Show them your rage, and they will respect you.<\/p>\n
Show them that you\u2019re only human just as they are, but also show them that you\u2019re not just any kind of human.<\/p>\n
You are a human with a big heart, and that is what distinguishes you from the others. And if they don\u2019t appreciate your big heart, they are certainly not worth your time.<\/p>\n
Life\u2019s too short to waste time on people who are not worth your second. You should never make someone a priority who is not ready to simply be there for you.<\/p>\n
Diga-lhes que aprecia demasiado a sua vida para perder o seu tempo com pessoas como eles. Diz-lhes: It\u2019s enough!<\/b><\/p>\n
Tens de aprender a gostar de ti pr\u00f3prio pelo que \u00e9s.<\/b><\/p>\n
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Tens uma voz \u00fanica. Tem uma forma \u00fanica de pronunciar certas palavras.<\/p>\n
You have a unique way of walking, greeting people and smiling. There\u2019s not a single person in the world who shares your traits and abilities.<\/p>\n
You are you. And why would you let anyone tell you that you\u2019re not doing something right (if they don\u2019t have a valid reason for it)?<\/p>\n
Porque deixarias que te fizessem odiar por seres quem \u00e9s? Que te fa\u00e7am desejar ser outra pessoa? N\u00e3o existe certo ou errado.<\/p>\n
Ningu\u00e9m pode dizer-vos que a vossa maneira de andar e de se comportar \u00e9 errada, porque n\u00e3o est\u00e3o autorizados a julgar-vos.<\/p>\n
Tu \u00e9s uma cria\u00e7\u00e3o tua. Tudo o que fazes representa a tua mente \u00fanica, os teus desejos e as tuas vontades. Tens de aprender a amar-te a ti pr\u00f3prio por aquilo que \u00e9s, porque \u00e9s fant\u00e1stico.<\/p>\n
And if they don\u2019t appreciate what you bring to the table, let them eat alone.<\/b><\/p>\n
If they don\u2019t appreciate you for who you are, don\u2019t change yourself. If they don\u2019t appreciate your efforts, stop trying.<\/p>\n
If they don\u2019t appreciate your love, give your heart to someone else. Just don\u2019t let them take you for granted.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t let them think that you\u2019ll do anything to make them happy. If you\u2019re not happy with something, leave.<\/p>\n
Mostre-lhes que saiba o seu valor <\/a>, and if they don\u2019t respect it, leave them. Leave them because \u00e9s suficientemente bom <\/a>.<\/p>\n Deixa-os porque tens os teus padr\u00f5es e n\u00e3o te vais alterar apenas para apaziguar a sua natureza gananciosa.<\/p>\n And if they don\u2019t recognize your efforts and you\u2019re killing yourself to achieve something, leave them.<\/p>\n Deixa-os porque sabes que deste tudo de ti e eles ainda n\u00e3o s\u00e3o capazes de o reconhecer.<\/p>\n And when you give all of yourself, you have every right to expect that it will be noticed and that you\u2019ll receive something in return.<\/p>\n Espera por algu\u00e9m que te respeite e goste de ti pelo que \u00e9s.<\/b><\/p>\n N\u00e3o est\u00e1 dependente de ningu\u00e9m. Lembre-se novamente de que \u00e9 uma cria\u00e7\u00e3o \u00fanica e que merece algu\u00e9m que o trate com respeito, que goste de si pelo que \u00e9.<\/p>\n And if they don\u2019t appreciate you at your worst, they certainly don\u2019t deserve you at your best.<\/p>\n Mostra as tuas verdadeiras cores. Dance, sorria, mostre raiva e espere por algu\u00e9m que repare na sua verdadeira beleza.<\/p>\n Lembra-te que n\u00e3o \u00e9s o teu passado. N\u00e3o \u00e9s as tuas m\u00e1s decis\u00f5es ou erros.<\/p>\n You are here, living in the present, and if you\u2019re reading this, it means you\u2019re aware of yourself, and you\u2019re not afraid to get inspired by things around you.<\/p>\n V\u00ea o bem em toda a gente, e \u00e9 por isso que deve esperar por algu\u00e9m que veja o mesmo em si.<\/p>\n But, please, don\u2019t try to be perfect. Know that you don\u2019t have to be perfect in order to be loved and respected.<\/p>\n As pessoas certas v\u00e3o gostar de si pelo que \u00e9. Aceitar\u00e3o as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e ficar\u00e3o.<\/p>\n As pessoas correctas nunca se v\u00e3o embora, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, porque conhecem a beleza de ser um ser humano imperfeito a viver num mundo imperfeito.<\/p>\n Recently I read the following quote somewhere: I know what I bring to the table, and I\u2019m not afraid to eat alone. It took me two, long days to truly understand what this quote is about. 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