{"id":29394,"date":"2018-12-05T09:14:27","date_gmt":"2018-12-05T09:14:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29394"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:14:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:14:02","slug":"7-maneiras-de-sabotar-acidentalmente-o-seu-relacionamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-maneiras-de-sabotar-acidentalmente-o-seu-relacionamento\/","title":{"rendered":"7 maneiras de sabotar acidentalmente o seu relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. Control mode \u2018ON\u2019<\/h2>\n<p>\u00c9 natural termos controlo sobre a nossa pr\u00f3pria vida, mas n\u00e3o podemos controlar a vida do nosso parceiro ou todas as pequenas coisas que nos acontecem.<\/p>\n<p>Pensar demasiado no futuro e tentar prever todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es poss\u00edveis \u00e9 demasiado dif\u00edcil para qualquer pessoa, e o seu parceiro pode facilmente sentir-se sobrecarregado por ter de viver de acordo com os seus regulamentos e desejos, o que acabar\u00e1 por o fazer fugir para as colinas.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Esconder as coisas debaixo do tapete<\/h2>\n<p>You expect things to sort themselves out. You don\u2019t want to deal with issues your relationship comes across. You just brush them under the carpet and pray that they\u2019ll magically disappear.<\/p>\n<p>They never do; they just get bigger and bigger as time goes by. Don\u2019t be afraid to face them. If you allow your problems to pile up, your relationship <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-indicadores-de-rutura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">quebrar\u00e1 inevitavelmente<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Sempre correto<\/h2>\n<p>Even though facing your problems is a good thing, you shouldn\u2019t create problems where they aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n<p>Your way of seeing and dealing with things doesn\u2019t always have to be right. Acknowledge the other person, and take their thoughts into consideration. Listen before you act, and try to see the bigger picture.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships are about togetherness, not about a division between who\u2019s right and who\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Comparar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com a dos seus amigos<\/h2>\n<p>A sua amiga acabou de lhe contar que o namorado lhe comprou um presente fant\u00e1stico ou planeou uma viagem para os dois e voc\u00ea sente que o seu namorado devia fazer o mesmo. Come\u00e7a ent\u00e3o a sentir que est\u00e1 a perder algo na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, that could be the only decent thing your friend\u2019s boyfriend did in their entire relationship while yours is thriving in some other areas already.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas s\u00e3o diferentes, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o diferentes. Tente n\u00e3o comparar as coisas. Preste mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s pequenas e grandes coisas que o seu namorado pode estar a fazer por si no dia a dia.<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u201c An eye for an eye\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Revenge is never a good idea. If you\u2019ve talked things through with your boyfriend, if you\u2019ve decided to forgive him for something, leave it at that.<\/p>\n<p>There is no point in getting even, no matter how big or small his mistake was. Be the bigger person\u2014forgive. Because revenge is an endless circle, and there is no happiness there.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Existe uma coisa chamada ser demasiado honesto<\/h2>\n<p>Demasiado de uma coisa boa pode lev\u00e1-lo a um caminho errado. Embora a honestidade seja sempre o melhor caminho a seguir, h\u00e1 algumas coisas que \u00e9 melhor n\u00e3o dizer.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner might mistake your brutally honest sentences for insults or attacks. It\u2019s ok to hold some things to yourself, especially the ones that can hurt your partner&#8217;s feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Apego<\/h2>\n<p>Metade das mulheres s\u00e3o injustamente acusadas de serem agarradas, e metade delas s\u00e3o-no de facto. Determine de que lado est\u00e1 e seja honesta consigo pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>You should have your own life and not everything should revolve around your partner. If you notice that you depend on him for all sorts of things or expect him to make you happy, you might be clingy, and it\u2019s time to change that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-29398 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 maneiras de sabotar acidentalmente o seu relacionamento\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Control mode \u2018ON\u2019 It\u2019s only natural to have control over your own life, but you can\u2019t control your partner\u2019s life or every little thing that happens to you. Thinking too much ahead and trying to predict every possible situation will be too much for anyone to handle, and your partner can easily feel burdened&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":29397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29394","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/justin-chrn-1126631-unsplash-1.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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