{"id":2941,"date":"2020-08-02T11:52:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T11:52:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2941"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:30:06","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:30:06","slug":"para-o-tipo-que-magoou-a-boa-rapariga-enquanto-ele-estava-a-magoar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-tipo-que-magoou-a-boa-rapariga-enquanto-ele-estava-a-magoar\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o tipo que magoou a boa rapariga enquanto estava magoado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Para se salvar, afastou-a. Por causa do medo de ser magoado, nunca lhe deu uma oportunidade, uma verdadeira oportunidade.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 fez <i> como <\/i> tentar. Foi um esfor\u00e7o miser\u00e1vel. <b>You didn\u2019t allow yourself to feel while she was the one experiencing the feelings for both of you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Deixas que o teu passado se intrometa no teu futuro.<\/b> Continuavas a olhar para tr\u00e1s e a ver nela tudo o que te tinha magoado.<\/p>\n<p>She paid for every time your heart was broken. She was the one to carry all the pain at once\u2014all the pain you\u2019ve been through in the past, she lived all at once thanks to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>In Japan, broken objects are often repaired with gold. The flaw is seen as a unique piece of the object\u2019s history, which adds to its beauty. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She could\u2019ve been the very gold for your heart if you gave her the chance. She could\u2019ve patched it together with her love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste de casaco vermelho a olhar para longe\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Assustava-se sempre que ela se aproximava demasiado de si.<\/b> You couldn\u2019t keep the distance forever. She proved to you she was different, but you still fought back as if she were your worst enemy.<\/p>\n<p>You made her feel like she was doing something bad when in fact she was only loving you. You made her feel like she was to blame for how the things are between the two of you\u2014it was never you.<\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be called only when you were drunk. <\/b> She didn\u2019t deserve all those after-tequila calls followed by you admitting you care.<\/p>\n<p>You could\u2019ve manned up and said all those things while you were sober. <b>You could\u2019ve come to her straightforward instead of letting the alcohol speak out of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be lied to.<\/b> You lied that everything was fine and you lied when you said \u2018it was nothing\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>It was everything, but you didn\u2019t let her see the real you, the raw you. You chickened out.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107094\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be hurt first before you got hurt.<\/b> You shouldn\u2019t have seen your relationship with her as a competition\u2014you wouldn\u2019t\u2019ve gotten out as a loser, but you were too blind to see it.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, escolheste ser o predador s\u00f3 para evitar que te tornasses a presa.<\/p>\n<p>Her only sin was falling for an emotionally broken man. But she didn&#8217;t know you were unavailable.<\/p>\n<p>Ela sabia que estavas danificado e escolheu amar-te apesar da tua fragilidade, danos e defeitos. E o que \u00e9 que ela recebeu em troca? Bem, ela ficou destro\u00e7ada.<\/p>\n<p><b>She deserved a chance, just a small try, even the tiniest effort would&#8217;ve done the cham. <\/b> You should\u2019ve given \u2018you\u2019 at least one chance, but a real one.<\/p>\n<p>Ela gostava mesmo de si. Ela estava disposta a correr riscos. <b>Ela estava pronta para se apaixonar por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E ela apaixonou-se por ti. Mas em vez de a apanhar, deixou-a cair de cara no ch\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107095\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no ch\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t deserve the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She didn\u2019t deserve to be led on for months and then be left empty-handed.<\/p>\n<p>She didn&#8217;t deserve all the empty promises you made, she didn&#8217;t deserve to be led into believing you two had a future while you were only using her to feel better, to feed your insecurities and to not be alone.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of using her and pushing her away, you should&#8217;ve let her in. She&#8217;d help you heal.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;d show you that there is more to love and life than you&#8217;ve already seen. She&#8217;d loved you the right way. But you were too guarded and too selfish to do that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Agora fizeste-lhe tudo o que te foi feito a ti. Como \u00e9 que se sente ao fazer o mesmo mal que lhe foi feito a si? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t blame it on your past or the hell you&#8217;ve been through. Because you could&#8217;ve made it, if you only gave her a chance.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-quase-parti\/\">Partiu uma boa rapariga<\/a> and, darling, this one&#8217;s on you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107092\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para o tipo que magoou a boa rapariga enquanto estava magoado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In order to save yourself, you\u2019ve brushed her off. Because of the fear of being hurt, you never gave her a chance, a real chance. You did even like try. It was a miserable effort. You didn\u2019t allow yourself to feel while she was the one experiencing the feelings for both of you. 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