{"id":29413,"date":"2020-09-05T11:00:45","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T11:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29413"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:45","slug":"es-suficientemente-forte-para-amar-uma-mulher-destrocada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/es-suficientemente-forte-para-amar-uma-mulher-destrocada\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9s suficientemente forte para amar uma mulher destro\u00e7ada?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se pensa que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-preciso-um-homem-de-verdade-para-amar-uma-mulher-quebrada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">amoroso <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma mulher quebrada<\/span><\/a> is an easy thing to do, man, you are so wrong. A broken woman has gone through so much hell that you can\u2019t even imagine.<\/p>\n<p>Foi espancada at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte emocional, magoada, completamente partida, e tem cicatrizes por todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Essa \u00e9 a principal raz\u00e3o pela qual ela ergueu muros t\u00e3o altos, para que ningu\u00e9m possa chegar at\u00e9 ela.<\/p>\n<p>Ela \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que tem medo de amar de novo porque a sua confian\u00e7a e o seu amor foram tomados como garantidos da \u00faltima vez.<\/p>\n<p>She is someone who doesn\u2019t believe she will ever love again because she had one bad love experience.<\/p>\n<p>Ela tem medo de deixar que um homem entre na sua vida, porque pensa que o seu destino se vai repetir.<\/p>\n<p>Ela acha que todos os homens que deixa entrar no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a v\u00e3o magoar como o seu ex fez. Acredita que n\u00e3o \u00e9 um bom material para o amor e que todos os homens que aparecerem v\u00e3o perceber isso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107580\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-at-the-sky.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa a olhar para o c\u00e9u\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-at-the-sky.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-at-the-sky-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-at-the-sky-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-at-the-sky-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-at-the-sky-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She is afraid to express her emotions because she thinks nobody will listen to her\u2014because she is used to having someone who didn\u2019t give a damn about her for far so long.<\/p>\n<p>Uma mulher como esta \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que conhece a dor a s\u00e9rio, porque \u00e9 isso que tem estado a sentir durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t blame her for being broken because that wasn\u2019t her choice. She wasn\u2019t born broken. Life broke her. Circumstances broke her.<\/p>\n<p>The man she was madly in love broke her. And that is something she can\u2019t change.<\/p>\n<p>So, you will need to accept her the way she is and never ask her to change because she won\u2019t. She put someone else first for a long time, and now it is time to finally put herself first.<\/p>\n<p>That means she won\u2019t put up with any shit from you because she has become allergic to that.<\/p>\n<p>It means she won\u2019t let you play any mind games with her because she knows every red flag possible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107581\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-woman-with-freckles-on-her-face-e1603802250166.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita com sardas no rosto\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\"><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to pretend she is someone she is not just so you would like her. No.<\/p>\n<p>Desta vez, quer ser ela pr\u00f3pria, com todos os seus defeitos, e precisa de algu\u00e9m que a aceite tal como ela \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Uma mulher como esta \u00e9 dif\u00edcil de amar, mas vale mesmo a pena. Por isso, pergunto-vos: s\u00e3o suficientemente fortes para amar uma mulher destro\u00e7ada?<\/p>\n<p>Are you ready to love a woman who won\u2019t be able to reciprocate in the same way because she has trauma from her past?<\/p>\n<p>Are you ready to give yourself all in for someone with trust issues, someone who will never believe you love them as much as you say because she thinks she isn\u2019t good enough?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s suficientemente forte para amar uma mulher com um passado sombrio, que ter\u00e1 os seus epis\u00f3dios de loucura de vez em quando?<\/p>\n<p>Achas que podes amar uma mulher que se vai abaixo s\u00f3 porque algo lhe faz lembrar o ex?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107583\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-cliff-e1603802434768.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada numa fal\u00e9sia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-cliff-e1603802434768.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-cliff-e1603802434768-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Are you strong enough to handle her in every situation, especially in the bad ones? If your answer is \u2018yes\u2019, then it means you will love her more than you love yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Significa que ela ser\u00e1 a sua principal prioridade e que nunca questionar\u00e1 a sua decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Deve saber que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil amar uma mulher destro\u00e7ada, mas pode ganhar mais do que d\u00e1. Com ela, receber\u00e1 amor, afeto, apoio e compreens\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Ela am\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 tanto porque sabe o que \u00e9 ser pouco amado. Ela nunca o ofender\u00e1 oferecendo-lhe um quase amor, uma quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou apenas metade do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ela decidir que tu \u00e9s o tal, ela vai apostar tudo, com todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Mas tens de lhe dar tempo. D\u00e1-lhe tempo para se curar. D\u00e1-lhe tempo&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/apaixonar-se-a-rapariga-nao-sabe-amar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">voltar a apaixonar-se por si pr\u00f3pria<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>E d\u00ea-lhe tempo para pensar no que quer realmente da sua vida. Quando ela decidir o que vai fazer da vida, pode apaixonar-se por si. Por isso, certifique-se de que ela o escolhe a si.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be harsh on her. Win her over with a late night call, a flower while you are walking through the park or her favorite song on your car playlist.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107584\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-young-woman-standing-outdoor-e1603802483923.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e bonita de p\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\"><\/p>\n<p>Se consegue realmente lidar e aceitar uma mulher destro\u00e7ada, ent\u00e3o \u00e9 um homem not\u00e1vel. S\u00f3 um homem com um grande cora\u00e7\u00e3o pode realmente consertar algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 quebrado em pequenos peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 um homem a s\u00e9rio se envolver\u00e1 em tudo isso e sair\u00e1 vencedor.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se fores suficientemente forte para amar uma mulher destro\u00e7ada, n\u00e3o te esque\u00e7as que ela vai precisar que lhe lembres o teu amor todos os dias.<\/p>\n<p>She needs you to choose her every day or leave. She doesn\u2019t need material things. She wants you to spoil her with loyalty.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se fores suficientemente forte para lhe dares tudo o que ela deseja, dar-te-ei todo o cr\u00e9dito por isso. Porque s\u00f3 um homem forte pode aceitar e apaixonar-se loucamente por uma mulher destro\u00e7ada.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 um homem que se mant\u00e9m firme com os dois p\u00e9s no ch\u00e3o pode lutar por si pr\u00f3prio e pela sua parceira, se for necess\u00e1rio, e s\u00f3 um homem forte pode acreditar que as coisas acabar\u00e3o por correr bem.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Um homem assim nunca deixa de ter esperan\u00e7a, de se preocupar e, o que \u00e9 mais importante, nunca deixa de amar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107578\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Are-You-Strong-Enough-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9s suficientemente forte para amar uma mulher destro\u00e7ada?\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Are-You-Strong-Enough-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Are-You-Strong-Enough-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Are-You-Strong-Enough-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you think that loving a broken woman is an easy thing to do, man, you are so wrong. A broken woman has gone through so much hell that you can\u2019t even imagine. She has been beaten to an emotional death, bruised, completely broken, and there are scars all over her heart. That is the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":107582,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Are-You-Strong-Enough-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman.jpg",1000,667,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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