{"id":29453,"date":"2020-11-05T14:03:50","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T14:03:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29453"},"modified":"2022-01-19T11:03:06","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T11:03:06","slug":"mesmo-que-nao-o-ultrapasse-completamente-aprendera-a-viver-sem-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mesmo-que-nao-o-ultrapasse-completamente-aprendera-a-viver-sem-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"Mesmo que n\u00e3o o ultrapasse completamente, aprender\u00e1 a viver sem ele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tenho a certeza de que isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que queira ouvir nesta altura, mas a verdade \u00e9 que h\u00e1 alturas em que nunca se consegue ultrapassar a pessoa que se amou. Ela guarda sempre uma pequena parte de n\u00f3s e, por vezes, nunca voltamos a ser a pessoa que \u00e9ramos.<\/p>\n<p><b>No, this doesn\u2019t mean that this person was <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-eras-a-minha-alma-gemea-eras-apenas-a-minha-licao\/\"><b>a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/b><\/a><b>. It doesn\u2019t mean that you won\u2019t find a man you\u2019ll love more than you loved him and it certainly doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life missing him the way you miss him now.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que, por vezes, a pessoa de quem gost\u00e1vamos tanto muda-nos para sempre. De certa forma, lembramo-nos sempre dela, por muito que tentemos apagar da nossa mem\u00f3ria o facto de ela ter existido.<\/p>\n<p>E mesmo quando pensamos que esse homem faz parte do passado e que est\u00e1 h\u00e1 muito esquecido, a sua imagem aparece mesmo \u00e0 frente dos nossos olhos, do nada. Sente-se a sua col\u00f3nia algures ao longe ou v\u00ea-se algu\u00e9m parecido com ele e todas as borboletas voltam.<\/p>\n<p><b>H\u00e1 alguns desgostos que ficam sempre presos algures no fundo de n\u00f3s e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possamos fazer. Quando se trata de alguns homens, ficamos para sempre a pensar no que poderia ter sido de voc\u00eas os dois e nunca os ultrapassamos completamente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste em casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But one thing is for sure\u2014you learn to live without them, sooner or later. And this is exactly what will happen with this guy as well.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014there is a possibility that you never forget all about him. But before you know it, he\u2019ll no longer be the first or the last thing that goes through your mind every single day.<\/p>\n<p><b>Before you know it, you\u2019ll get used to his absence and you won\u2019t crave his presence anymore. You\u2019ll get used to this person not being a part of your life. And <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-tera-problemas-sem\/\">you\u2019ll be OK without him<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll start smiling without any particular reason. You\u2019ll hear his name and your heart won\u2019t skip a beat the way it used to.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll stop looking for him on the other side of the bed and your sheets will lose his scent. You won\u2019t think he is calling you every time your phone rings and you\u2019ll stop expecting his text every minute of every day. You&#8217;ll accept the fact that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-bloqueou-me-o-que-e-que-isso-significa\/\">ele bloqueou-o<\/a> e v\u00eaem-no como a melhor coisa que vos aconteceu desde h\u00e1 algum tempo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One of these nights, you won\u2019t even notice that you didn\u2019t cry yourself to sleep. You\u2019ll look forward to a new day, even though you\u2019ll know that he won\u2019t be in it.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll take off your rose-tinted glasses and you\u2019ll see this man for who he\u2019s really been all of this time. You\u2019ll stop idealizing him and you\u2019ll finally see all of his flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123040\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado na cama, costas com costas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll accept that it was for the better that things turned out the way they did. You\u2019ll accept that you would probably never be happy around this guy, you\u2019ll see all of your incompatibilities and differences and you\u2019ll realize that you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/mesmo-que-nao-fosse-para-durar-para-sempre-especial\/\">weren\u2019t meant to last forever<\/a>. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll accept the fact that he\u2019s gone and that he isn\u2019t coming back. You won\u2019t expect to see him on your doorstep, asking for forgiveness and just like that\u2014you\u2019ll stop waiting for him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Just like that, you\u2019ll stop counting the days which have passed since his departure. You\u2019ll stop measuring the time before and after him and you won\u2019t feel like a part of you is missing just because he is not there by your side.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pode pensar nele no dia do seu anivers\u00e1rio ou no dia do vosso anivers\u00e1rio. Poder\u00e1 ficar triste quando souber que ele se casou, pensando em como deveria ter sido o vosso casamento.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll probably spend the next few hours replaying your relationship in your head every time you see him pass by you.<\/p>\n<p>Mas vais curar-te. Vais sobreviver e vais <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-sinais-de-que-voce-esta-oficialmente-deixando-seu-ex-toxico-para-tras\/\">seguir em frente<\/a>. The pain won\u2019t be all-consuming the way it is now and your heart won\u2019t ache forever\u2014I promise you that. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Mesmo que n\u00e3o o supere completamente, aprender\u00e1 a viver sem ele\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am sure that this is not something you want to hear at this point but the truth is that there are times when you never get over the person you once loved. They always keep a small part of you and sometimes, you never go back to the person you used to be. No,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":123037,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29453"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29453\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123037"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}