{"id":29482,"date":"2020-06-06T09:10:12","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T09:10:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29482"},"modified":"2021-12-15T21:28:02","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T21:28:02","slug":"7-coisas-a-fazer-quando-os-seus-parceiros-sao-maus-nas-mensagens-de-texto-mas-optimos-na-vida-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-a-fazer-quando-os-seus-parceiros-sao-maus-nas-mensagens-de-texto-mas-optimos-na-vida-real\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas a fazer quando o seu parceiro \u00e9 mau a enviar mensagens de texto (mas \u00f3timo na vida real)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ent\u00e3o, conheceste um tipo fant\u00e1stico e est\u00e1s a divertir-te imenso, mas ele \u00e9 um verdadeiro anti-talento quando se trata de enviar mensagens de texto.<\/p>\n<p>When the two of you are together, everything\u2019s perfect but when it comes to texting, you always have to wait for him to reply or you receive one-word replies.<\/p>\n<p>This is really annoying and you have every right to feel \u2018betrayed\u2019. But you have to understand that guys usually don\u2019t use texting as a means of connecting with someone.<\/p>\n<p>Utilizam-no para organizar reuni\u00f5es ou para um simples interc\u00e2mbio de informa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t understand that this pisses you off because they don\u2019t see it the way you see it. And that is why you should never question his affection for you or think that he\u2019s deliberately ignoring you.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, deve tentar compreend\u00ea-lo e chegar a um compromisso com ele, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>Here are 7 tips that will help you deal with your partner\u2019s bad texting skills:<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t overwhelm him with texting<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93443\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you see that he\u2019s really bad at texting but great in real life, you should never force him to answer you or overwhelm him with a hundred messages in his inbox.<\/p>\n<p>If you do that, he will feel that you\u2019re forcing him to do something he doesn\u2019t like or he\u2019s simply not good at.<\/p>\n<p>Always give him space so that he doesn\u2019t feel cornered or imprisoned by you.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenha o envio de mensagens de texto a um n\u00edvel m\u00ednimo e envie-lhe mensagens apenas sobre assuntos e acordos importantes ou quando precisar mesmo dele e n\u00e3o puder esperar para falar com ele pessoalmente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t take it to heart<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta a roer a unha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Try to understand that you have a great guy in your life but he\u2019s just not that into texting, which shouldn\u2019t influence the quality of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let your emotions manipulate you into believing that this is a real catastrophe because it is not and you know it too.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are simply not good at some things or they don\u2019t enjoy it the same way as you do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">V\u00ea-lo pessoalmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93445\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a olhar para os olhos de um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A melhor coisa a fazer nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 continuar a v\u00ea-lo pessoalmente com a maior frequ\u00eancia poss\u00edvel. \u00c9 uma alternativa muito melhor do que enviar mensagens de texto e tamb\u00e9m ajudar\u00e1 a manter os seus nervos.<\/p>\n<p>Reserve alguns temas que gostaria de discutir com ele e escreva-os numa folha de papel, se necess\u00e1rio, para se poder lembrar deles mais tarde.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll never get bored and you will take your relationship to another level.<\/p>\n<p>Ter\u00e3o sempre algo interessante para falar, o que enriquecer\u00e1 o tempo de qualidade que passam juntos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chame-o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93446\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a falar ao telefone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t wait to see him, you can always call him and talk to him about everything that comes to your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m uma \u00f3ptima alternativa \u00e0s mensagens de texto e poder\u00e1 realmente ouvir a sua voz e ouvir o seu sorriso.<\/p>\n<p>And he will also enjoy it because calling has more benefits and it\u2019s healthier for your relationship than texting.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falar com ele sobre o assunto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93447\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a olhar para uma mulher \" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve tried everything and you still cannot accept this misfortune of him being bad at texting, you should consider talking to him about it.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t raise your voice or freak out about it.<\/p>\n<p>Just stay calm and put everything into words nicely so that he doesn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re blaming him for something.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you\u2019re not mad at him but you would like him to try to work on his texting skills.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t confuse his being bad at texting with his affection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93448\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a enviar mensagens de texto na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nunca-te-manda-uma-mensagem-primeiro-mas-responde-sempre-quando-tu-lhe-mandas-uma\/\">Ele est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera que eu lhe envie uma mensagem primeiro?<\/a>? What if he doesn&#8217;t like me?<\/em> Don&#8217;t let such and similar questions interfere with your romance.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca confundir o problema das mensagens de texto com <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-a-saber-se-o-seu-parceiro-tem-dificuldade-em-demonstrar-afeto\/\">o seu afeto por ti<\/a>. It\u2019s obvious that he really likes you and wants to be with you because he wouldn\u2019t bother showing it in real life if this wasn\u2019t so.<\/p>\n<p>Being bad at texting is another type of problem and you should never question his feelings for you if he doesn\u2019t answer you immediately or if he replies with one word.<\/p>\n<p>E se continuar a for\u00e7\u00e1-lo a validar os seus sentimentos por si, vai arruinar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abrace-o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93449\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a abra\u00e7ar um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Em vez de o ver como um problema, deve abra\u00e7\u00e1-lo! \u00c9 uma excelente oportunidade para passar mais tempo ao ar livre e participar em diferentes actividades com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>You will have more energy and you will feel more stress-free because you won\u2019t be frustrated over him not texting you back.<\/p>\n<p>You should embrace it because you\u2019ll have more fun in life and you\u2019ll spend more quality time with your partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93442\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a fazer quando o seu parceiro \u00e9 mau a enviar mensagens de texto (mas \u00f3timo na vida real)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, you\u2019ve met a great guy and you\u2019re having the time of your life but he\u2019s a real anti-talent when it comes to texting. When the two of you are together, everything\u2019s perfect but when it comes to texting, you always have to wait for him to reply or you receive one-word replies. This is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93450,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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