{"id":29494,"date":"2020-04-06T09:26:03","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T09:26:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29494"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:17:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:17:08","slug":"6-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-podes-ser-apenas-amigo-de-alguem-que-ja-amaste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-podes-ser-apenas-amigo-de-alguem-que-ja-amaste\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o se pode ser \"apenas amigo\" de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 se amou"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ser ou n\u00e3o ser? Continuar amigo de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 amou ou, pelo contr\u00e1rio, n\u00e3o o fazer? \u00c9 uma quest\u00e3o inevit\u00e1vel que invade a nossa mente ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes we\u2019re not even aware of it and we subconsciously consider the idea of staying friends with them because we\u2019re afraid of completely losing them from our life.<\/p>\n<p>When love \u2018shuts down\u2019, it somehow comes naturally to us to think about friendship with the person with whom we once shared everything.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, na maioria dos casos, esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma ideia t\u00e3o boa como pode parecer.<\/p>\n<p>Staying friends with someone you once loved means erasing the past that the two of you share together and not wanting to do anything with them that is not related with \u2018being friends\u2019 (except if you\u2019re friends with benefits).<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o se pode ser \"apenas amigo\" de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 se amou<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Precisa de tempo para fazer o luto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73988\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/friend-comforting-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"amigo a confortar mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/friend-comforting-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/friend-comforting-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/friend-comforting-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The number one reason why you can\u2019t be<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-ele-quer-que-voces-sejam-apenas-amigos\/\"> apenas amigos<\/a> com eles \u00e9 porque precisas de tempo para fazer o luto.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether your partner is the one who initiated the break-up or perhaps you, you simply need some alone time to understand the situation and heal properly.<\/p>\n<p>E se continuares a ser amigo deles, nunca ser\u00e1s capaz de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/merece-deixar-se-curar-2\/\">curar-se<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de viver em paz e harmonia consigo pr\u00f3prio, porque a decis\u00e3o de continuar amigo deles ir\u00e1 persegui-lo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019ve been intimate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73989\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-couple-laying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz deitado na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-couple-laying-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-couple-laying-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-couple-laying-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Intimacy is something we shouldn\u2019t take for granted because it is a powerful force that connects us with another human being.<\/p>\n<p>And once you\u2019re connected, it is hard to disconnect. It is hard to forget the smell of their hair, the way they kiss or hug.<\/p>\n<p>Once you share your heart and intimacy with someone, they automatically become a part of you and that is why it is almost impossible to all of a sudden shift to the \u2018just friends\u2019 label.<\/p>\n<p>You will always have some d\u00e9j\u00e0 vus and they will always remind you of what the two of you used to have.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o conseguir\u00e1 seguir em frente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73991\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada junto ao muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se decidir manter a amizade com eles, nunca conseguir\u00e1 seguir em frente. Ficar\u00e1 a viver no passado e no presente ao mesmo tempo.<\/p>\n<p>And the more you go forward, the more you\u2019ll be pulled back.<\/p>\n<p>You will never be able to find your true self and erase your past because you\u2019ll be too busy thinking about what went wrong.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pode provocar ci\u00fames no seu novo parceiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/angry-woman-looking-at-man-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a olhar para um homem na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/angry-woman-looking-at-man-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/angry-woman-looking-at-man-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/angry-woman-looking-at-man-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Manter a amizade com o seu ex pode afetar muito o seu novo e potencial parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>They could become jealous and start questioning whether you\u2019ve gotten over them or not. And it will influence them to behave possessively even though they\u2019re not that kind of a person.<\/p>\n<p>They will never be 100% sure that you\u2019ll not change your mind and reunite with them and that will cause stress and unnecessary arguments with your new, potential partner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar\u00e1 numa constante montanha russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73993\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-worried-woman-standing-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher preocupada na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-worried-woman-standing-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-worried-woman-standing-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-worried-woman-standing-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se continuar amigo de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 amou, prepare-se para estar numa constante montanha-russa emocional.<\/p>\n<p>Ter\u00e1 sentimentos contradit\u00f3rios em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo.<\/p>\n<p>As suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es record\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o dos momentos felizes que passaram juntos e f\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o questionar a validade da sua decis\u00e3o de seguir caminhos separados.<\/p>\n<p>As emo\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o muito complicadas e o nosso c\u00e9rebro nunca se esquece de nada.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 mesmo uma palavra que ele tenha dito antes pode desencadear certas emo\u00e7\u00f5es em si e faz\u00ea-la sentir-se perdida e confusa. Isso deve-se ao facto de o seu c\u00e9rebro n\u00e3o compreender que tudo acabou.<\/p>\n<p>O seu c\u00e9rebro est\u00e1 programado para gostar das coisas que costumava gostar antes e \u00e9 por isso que os seus sentimentos podem aparecer quando menos espera.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ll be in a constant labyrinth of questioning everything.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As pessoas podem ficar com uma ideia errada<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73994\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/family-having-fun-together.jpg\" alt=\"fam\u00edlia a divertir-se em conjunto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/family-having-fun-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/family-having-fun-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/family-having-fun-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>Os seus amigos e familiares podem confundir o facto de estar a tentar reunir-se com eles e, por isso, come\u00e7ar\u00e3o a fazer-lhe perguntas desnecess\u00e1rias.<\/p>\n<p>Provar-lhes que as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o exclusivamente amig\u00e1veis n\u00e3o os tranquilizar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>E \u00e9 realmente frustrante quando temos de validar todos os nossos passos e pensamentos perante eles.<\/p>\n<p>To you, \u2018just friends\u2019 might mean something completely different to what they are imagined and in this case, staying away from your ex would be a much better alternative.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Be-Just-Friends-With-Someone-You-Once-Loved-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o se pode ser &quot;apenas amigo&quot; de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 se amou\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Be-Just-Friends-With-Someone-You-Once-Loved-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Be-Just-Friends-With-Someone-You-Once-Loved-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To be or not to be? To stay friends with someone you once loved or, rather, not to? It is an inevitable question that invades our mind after a break-up. Sometimes we\u2019re not even aware of it and we subconsciously consider the idea of staying friends with them because we\u2019re afraid of completely losing them&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":73995,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Be-Just-Friends-With-Someone-You-Once-Loved.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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