{"id":29503,"date":"2020-07-06T11:13:50","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T11:13:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29503"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:58:55","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:58:55","slug":"por-favor-parem-de-dar-a-vossa-energia-as-pessoas-erradas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-favor-parem-de-dar-a-vossa-energia-as-pessoas-erradas\/","title":{"rendered":"Por favor, pare de dar a sua energia \u00e0s pessoas erradas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tu \u00e9s tudo menos uma tola. \u00c9 uma mulher inteligente, independente, esperta e autossuficiente. Sabes o quanto mereces e conheces o teu valor.<\/p>\n

So, what exactly is the problem? Why do you keep letting the wrong people in and giving them your heart? Why do you keep wasting your time and energy on those who don\u2019t deserve it?<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que deixas que os outros te esgotem e drenem toda a tua energia positiva? Porque \u00e9 que continua a agarrar-se a algu\u00e9m, quando sabe muito bem que devia deixar ir<\/a>?<\/p>\n

I know that cutting off toxic people from your life isn\u2019t easy. That breaking all ties with someone who\u2019s been around for years means stepping out of your comfort zone. I know you are scared of doing all of this, even when you know it is the only option you have.<\/p>\n

But I am here to tell you that it\u2019s time for you to escolher-se a si pr\u00f3prio em vez de todos os outros.<\/b> And most of all, I am here to tell you that you are strong enough to do it, even if you don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n

\"bela<\/p>\n

Please, understand that it\u2019s time for you to deixar de se preocupar com os outros mais do que eles se preocupam consigo.<\/b> Remember that someone\u2019s efforts are the only reflection of their love for you.<\/p>\n

If a guy acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, it is probably the truth and you better start believing him.<\/p>\n

And this goes for everyone else in your life as well. You are not everyone\u2019s mother and making others feel good and rearranging their lives is not your duty.<\/p>\n

Em vez de tentar melhorar outra pessoa, concentre-se em tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio. Trabalhe para se fazer feliz, porque essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica responsabilidade que tem e \u00e9 algo que deve a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra de amar os tipos errados mais do que te amas a ti pr\u00f3prio. Na verdade, p\u00e1ra de amar algu\u00e9m mais do que a ti mesmo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por fim, coloque-se em primeiro lugar e deixe de dar prioridade \u00e0queles que o tratam como uma segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, comece a valorizar o seu pr\u00f3prio tempo e esfor\u00e7o e todos \u00e0 sua volta o seguir\u00e3o. Comece a respeitar-se a si pr\u00f3prio e d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio o amor que espera dos outros.<\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra de perseguir os homens errados e p\u00e1ra implorar pela sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o ou amor<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

The moment you see that a guy is playing mind games with you and the moment you see he is trying to make you go after him, understand that he isn\u2019t worthy of your trouble.<\/p>\n

Porque o homem certo dar-te-\u00e1 todo o seu amor, sem que tenhas de o pedir.<\/p>\n

Ele dar-te-\u00e1 toda a aten\u00e7\u00e3o e nunca te far\u00e1 sentir indesejada ou mal amada. E se o seu homem n\u00e3o for assim, afaste-se dele, por muito que lhe doa.<\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Parar de tentar <\/b>reparar as pessoas falhadas<\/b><\/a> who don\u2019t want to heal.<\/b> You need to understand that there are some people who are incapable of loving and it is not your job to ty to save them because you\u2019ll never succeed in doing so.<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019ll just end up being dragged into their darkness and they\u2019ll end up damaging you.<\/p>\n

Deixar de esperar por uma mudan\u00e7a que nunca vir\u00e1.<\/b> You are a big girl now and you know that sadly, sometimes your love isn\u2019t enough for those who are incapable of loving, regardless of its magnitude or depth.<\/p>\n

So, stop making excuses and stop justifying someone mistreating you. He doesn\u2019t love you in his own special way and he isn\u2019t emotionally damaged\u2014he is a jerk who keeps on breaking your heart and it\u2019s about time you accept this.<\/p>\n

Deixe de permitir que os outros o infectem com a sua toxicidade e negatividade.<\/b> Stop thinking about everyone else\u2019s problems, especially when these people couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I know that you are an emp\u00e1tico<\/a> who can\u2019t stay immune to the  misfortune of others.<\/p>\n

But you need to understand that you can\u2019t be everyone\u2019s shoulder to cry on and that you don\u2019t have the ability to repair all the damage in this world.<\/p>\n

Sei que \u00e9s forte, mas tamb\u00e9m \u00e9s apenas um ser humano. N\u00e3o \u00e9s uma super-mulher que consegue resolver tudo de um dia para o outro.<\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, guarda a tua energia para ti. Porque quando se mete em sarilhos, o<\/b>re won\u2019t be anyone to give you a hand. There won\u2019t be anyone you can count on and you\u2019ll understand that you are on your own.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that is when you\u2019ll understand that you need all the inner strength you can get.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ll understand that you are the one who has to pick up the broken pieces of herself and that you are the one who has to put herself back together, without anyone\u2019s help. That is when you\u2019ll understand that you can\u2019t rely on anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n

\"Por<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You are anything but a fool. You are an intelligent, independent, smart and self-sufficient woman. You know how much you deserve and you know your worth. So, what exactly is the problem? Why do you keep letting the wrong people in and giving them your heart? Why do you keep wasting your time and energy…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":94663,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Please-Stop-Giving-Your-Energy-Away-To-The-Wrong-People.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29503"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29503\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}