{"id":29558,"date":"2020-03-07T08:36:22","date_gmt":"2020-03-07T08:36:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29558"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:31:34","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:31:34","slug":"as-9-fases-da-relacao-pelas-quais-todos-os-casais-passam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-9-fases-da-relacao-pelas-quais-todos-os-casais-passam\/","title":{"rendered":"As 9 fases da rela\u00e7\u00e3o pelas quais todos os casais passam"},"content":{"rendered":"

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es podem ser complicadas e dif\u00edceis e requerem o equil\u00edbrio perfeito entre dar e receber para sobreviver a todos os obst\u00e1culos.<\/p>\n

Every relationship is a unique experience in itself and you can never know how it\u2019s going to finish until you reach the end of the relationship cycle.<\/p>\n

But, there are some stages that all couples need to go through and if they \u2018survive\u2019 them, they will reach the stage of an unconditional love meaning that they have developed an ultimate trust and mutual understanding of each other.<\/p>\n

Se falhar na primeira fase, nunca chegar\u00e1 \u00e0 seguinte, porque todas est\u00e3o interligadas.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es exigem grandes esfor\u00e7os para sobreviverem e se tornarem indestrut\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Alguns casais apercebem-se, ap\u00f3s a primeira fase, que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis um com o outro e \u00e9 nessa altura que decidem seguir caminhos diferentes.<\/p>\n

The worst thing that could happen is to fail in the very last stages when you\u2019re almost there.<\/p>\n

Por muito dif\u00edcil que pare\u00e7a, nunca desista de tentar reavivar a paix\u00e3o e trazer alegria \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Pense nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es como se fossem beb\u00e9s. Precisam de ser constantemente nutridos, alimentados, vestidos, banhados e precisam do calor do amor.<\/p>\n

That is how you should treat your relationship if you don\u2019t want to get stuck at one stage and waste your potential for unconditional love.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

E tu tamb\u00e9m o podes conseguir! Basta confiar em si pr\u00f3prio e esfor\u00e7ar-se sempre, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, e o sucesso ser\u00e1 garantido.<\/p>\n

Here are 9 stages of a relationship that all couples need to go through and you\u2019ll find all of them described in detail below:<\/b><\/p>\n

1. Fase de atra\u00e7\u00e3o e de paix\u00e3o<\/p>\n

2. A fase de compreens\u00e3o<\/p>\n

3. A fase da luta<\/p>\n

4. Fase das opini\u00f5es e expectativas<\/p>\n

5. A fase de dar e receber<\/p>\n

6. A fase do amor radiante<\/p>\n

7. A fase de crise<\/p>\n

8. A fase da confian\u00e7a inquebr\u00e1vel<\/p>\n

9. A fase do amor incondicional<\/p>\n

Fase de atra\u00e7\u00e3o e paix\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

This is the first relationship stage that we go through when we meet someone who makes us feel like we\u2019re living in clouds.<\/p>\n

It has the same effect on our brain like drugs, except that you\u2019re being high on love. And you can never get enough of this feeling.<\/p>\n

Apreciamos cada segundo passado com essa pessoa e queremos que dure at\u00e9 \u00e0 eternidade.<\/p>\n

And when the two of you part, you feel like you\u2019re missing a big part of you even though the two of you haven\u2019t been together for a long time now.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A atra\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa muito poderosa e, por vezes, leva-nos a comportarmo-nos de forma irracional.<\/p>\n

For example, you\u2019ve met a menino mau<\/a> ou uma rapariga e sabe que ele ou ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom para si, mas continua a desej\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

You still want them so bad because you\u2019re in a way ADDICTED to them. You\u2019re addicted to the way how they make you feel.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re infatuated by them because you\u2019ve never felt like this before and it\u2019s a real breakthrough for you.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you\u2019ll go through the different kinds of happy, but sometimes it may end fatally if you rush things instead of taking it slowly.<\/p>\n

A fase de compreens\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Na fase de compreens\u00e3o, os dois est\u00e3o empenhados em conhecer-se melhor.<\/p>\n

You talk a lot and it feels like you\u2019ll never run out of potential topics. Whatever you say to your partner, it immediately turns into a discussion.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you realize each other\u2019s likings, preferences, attitudes, interests and many more.<\/p>\n

Esta fase consiste em compreender o outro e cavar cada vez mais para escavar tudo o que se quer saber sobre a pessoa de quem se gosta.<\/p>\n

You ask each other questions all the time and you\u2019re happy and excited about everything new you hear about your partner.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

E depois come\u00e7amos a formar a personalidade deles na nossa cabe\u00e7a e finalmente sabemos todas as pe\u00e7as que faltam no puzzle.<\/p>\n

You learn so much about them and you don\u2019t forget to tell everyone what an amazing partner you have.<\/p>\n

Esta fase tamb\u00e9m tem a ver com compreender-se a si pr\u00f3prio e saber o que espera da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You either want it to continue or you see that it is not going to work like you\u2019ve thought it might. You get the understanding of your own feelings because finally, everything makes sense to you.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve known them for years and you\u2019re all positive about the outcome.<\/p>\n

A fase de luta<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A terceira fase, de luta, \u00e9 aquela em que a paix\u00e3o se torna menos intensa e se toma consci\u00eancia de que as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o t\u00e3o vibrantes como eram no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

This stage starts after six months or more. In this stage, you engage in your first arguments with your partner and both of you struggle to accept each other\u2019s quirks and flows.<\/p>\n

Na primeira fase, simplesmente n\u00e3o se apercebeu de todas estas coisas porque a paix\u00e3o tornou-o literalmente cego e a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar pedrado de amor prevalece.<\/p>\n

Mas a terceira fase \u00e9 uma verdadeira luta. Lutamos contra a vontade de dizer ao nosso parceiro que algo nos irrita.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

E quando o dizem, rapidamente se transformam em discuss\u00f5es, porque essa \u00e9 a luta que os dois t\u00eam de ultrapassar para chegarem ao nirvana final.<\/p>\n

Nesta fase, tem de aprender a aceitar todos os seus lados maus e os bons, se quiser que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o continue.<\/p>\n

Muitos casais falham nesta fase porque t\u00eam dificuldade em aceitar que os seus parceiros n\u00e3o s\u00e3o t\u00e3o perfeitos como pensavam na primeira fase de paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 nessa altura que t\u00eam uma revela\u00e7\u00e3o e, por vezes, se apercebem de que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 condenada ao fracasso devido \u00e0 incompatibilidade e \u00e0 incapacidade de chegarem a um compromisso um com o outro.<\/p>\n

Fase da opini\u00e3o e das expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

In this stage, both of you have developed strong opinions about each other\u2019s habits and general behavior.<\/p>\n

Sabe o que deixa o seu parceiro louco, conhece as suas reac\u00e7\u00f5es a certos est\u00edmulos e sabe como lidar com eles.<\/p>\n

E tamb\u00e9m espera o mesmo do seu parceiro. Espera que ele conhe\u00e7a as suas prefer\u00eancias e que a trate com respeito.<\/p>\n

This stage revolves around feeling ecstatic and feeling disappointed. When your partner does the right thing you\u2019ve expected of him, you\u2019ll feel an ultimate joy and appreciation for it.<\/p>\n

But, when he fails at meeting your expectations, you\u2019ll feel utterly disappointed and you will start questioning your relationship.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

For example, your partner surprises you with bringing flowers or making dinner even though you didn\u2019t expect him to do it.<\/p>\n

E sente-se muito especial<\/a>. But, when your partner fails to do something you\u2019ve expected him to do, you will feel \u2018betrayed\u2019 and disappointed.<\/p>\n

And when they disappoint you, you will feel like they are not trying enough and they don\u2019t take your relationship for serious.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 a\u00ed que se come\u00e7a a fazer suposi\u00e7\u00f5es sobre o empenho da pessoa na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Classifica-os como emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel <\/a>ego\u00edsta, com medo de compromissos ou outra coisa qualquer.<\/p>\n

Procura uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o para o seu comportamento e n\u00e3o desistir\u00e1 at\u00e9 encontrar as suas respostas e compreender o tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que se encontra.<\/p>\n

A fase de dar e receber<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tem a sua pr\u00f3pria vis\u00e3o de um parceiro ideal.<\/p>\n

And in the fifth stage, you\u2019re trying to change your partner\u2019s habits that you find annoying or you try to find the missing puzzles that will make your partner into an ideal partner you\u2019ve ever wanted to be with.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you need to realize that love is a mutual agreement, giving and not only receiving, and embracing what you\u2019ve got.<\/p>\n

Se tentar mudar o seu parceiro, h\u00e1 grandes probabilidades de a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o se desmoronar.<\/p>\n

Para evitar que isso aconte\u00e7a, \u00e9 preciso estar pronto para fazer ced\u00eancias, porque a ced\u00eancia \u00e9 o a chave para qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

A fase de dar e receber serve para aprender a adaptar-se a novas situa\u00e7\u00f5es e a aceitar tudo o que n\u00e3o pode mudar no seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

Mas, se decidir apenas receber e n\u00e3o se comprometer com eles quando necess\u00e1rio, criar\u00e1 um grande fosso entre os dois e ser\u00e1 imposs\u00edvel voltar a preench\u00ea-lo com apre\u00e7o e respeito.<\/p>\n

Give with all of your heart and receive with an open mind. And don\u2019t forget to be grateful for everything good your partner does for you.<\/p>\n

A aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o e a gratid\u00e3o s\u00e3o os principais ingredientes de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida.<\/p>\n

A fase do amor radiante<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you get to this stage, it means you have accepted all of your partner\u2019s good and bad sides and you\u2019re ready to compromise with them.<\/p>\n

Isto far\u00e1 com que irradie amor e felicidade.<\/p>\n

You will finally feel like everything\u2019s the way it should be and you no longer try to change your partner because you like them they way they are.<\/p>\n

Mas, nesta fase, falta a confian\u00e7a total um no outro.<\/p>\n

You trust to your partner, but to a certain degree because you still have that defense mechanism which tells you that you\u2019re not 100% sure that this is it.<\/p>\n

E opta por se manter em guarda enquanto constr\u00f3i confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Esta fase consiste mais em contemplar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o do que em viv\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n

Your mind is your biggest enemy here because sometimes our mind may deceive us not to trust them because we\u2019ve been hurt before.<\/p>\n

But, if you overcome these barriers and you see that you\u2019re ready to fully comprometer-se com o seu parceiro <\/a>, you\u2019ll get to the next stage.<\/p>\n

E para o ultrapassar, \u00e9 preciso passar pela fase de crise que ser\u00e1 um fator crucial para alcan\u00e7ar o amor incondicional.<\/p>\n

A fase de crise<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A fase de crise existe por uma raz\u00e3o. Funciona como um filtro para todas as suas d\u00favidas ou falta de confian\u00e7a na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Funciona da seguinte forma: Se queres ver o arco-\u00edris, primeiro tens de passar pela chuva.<\/p>\n

Se quer conseguir ganhar a confian\u00e7a definitiva do seu parceiro, tem de passar pela fase de crise que revelar\u00e1 a verdadeira for\u00e7a do seu amor.<\/p>\n

In the crisis stage, your passion and radiant love fade. But, don\u2019t let this confuse you. The crisis stage is about reviving your initial passion and bringing love to another level.<\/p>\n

E para isso, \u00e9 preciso passar por alguns desafios que nos tornar\u00e3o mais fortes e prontos para o que est\u00e1 para vir.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Nesta fase, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio procurar formas de tornar a vossa vida sexual e o tempo que passam juntos mais excitantes.<\/p>\n

You need to realize that things are not as they were in the beginning and now you have to work hard to preserve the passion you\u2019ve shared in the first few stages.<\/p>\n

Tem de pensar em novas formas de surpreender o seu parceiro e manter o n\u00edvel de excita\u00e7\u00e3o no auge.<\/p>\n

Porque se n\u00e3o o fizer, a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o mudar\u00e1 de dire\u00e7\u00e3o e ficar\u00e1 numa rotina.<\/p>\n

A fase da confian\u00e7a inquebr\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve survived the seventh stage, you\u2019ll automatically be in the unbreakable trust stage.<\/p>\n

This stage is the result of all of these previous stages and if you\u2019ve gone this far, you\u2019ve done an awesome job.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you will have no doubts or second thoughts about your partner. You\u2019ve accepted them as they are and you trust them with all of your heart.<\/p>\n

You can also imagine your future with them in it because you\u2019re 100% that your relationship is the right thing.<\/p>\n

The trust stage is all about enjoying a mutual appreciation of each other, being ready to compromise, respecting each other and trusting them as you\u2019ve never trusted anyone before.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando chegares \u00e0 fase do inquebr\u00e1vel, ser\u00e1s INTOP\u00c1VEL. A partir desta fase, tudo o que acontecer a seguir ser\u00e1 uma verdadeira b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Deixar\u00e1 de questionar o que quer que seja sobre a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o tornar-se-\u00e1 a sua segunda casa, onde se sentir\u00e1 segura e cuidada.<\/p>\n

And you will be grateful for all of your efforts and troubles you\u2019ve gone through in order to reach this eighth stage.<\/p>\n

Tornar-se-\u00e1 a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio e nada se interpor\u00e1 no seu caminho para a felicidade.<\/p>\n

A fase do amor incondicional<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima fase \u00e9 a fase do amor incondicional e \u00e9 igual \u00e0 fase do amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you come to the realization that you\u2019ll be loving your partner unconditionally no matter what happens. And your partner realizes it, too.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you\u2019ll be asking yourself how you could have lived without that person in your life.<\/p>\n

Before you\u2019ve met them, your life was just another story, but now it has become a fairytale and you feel like you\u2019re the only woman\/man in the world.<\/p>\n

\"belo<\/p>\n

You want to share your joy with the rest of the less lucky who didn\u2019t succeed in coming to the last stage of their relationship.<\/p>\n

And you tell them that you\u2019ve fought hard to come to where you are now and you realize the importance of love.<\/p>\n

Percebe-se que o verdadeiro amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se possa come\u00e7ar a sentir de um dia para o outro. \u00c9 um longo processo de altos e baixos que testa os seus limites e a sua vontade de se comprometer.<\/p>\n

E quando passamos este teste, somos aben\u00e7oados com o amor incondicional que \u00e9 realmente raro de encontrar hoje em dia.<\/p>\n

E damos por n\u00f3s a n\u00e3o conseguir adormecer porque a realidade \u00e9 finalmente melhor do que os nossos sonhos.<\/p>\n

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