mas para mim \u00e9 um campo de batalha.<\/a> Tenho de lutar comigo pr\u00f3prio para sobreviver. Sei que posso parecer frio, distante e desinteressado.<\/p>\nI tend to avoid eye contact and I end up staring at something else while you talk to me. I\u2019m not ignoring you, I\u2019m paying attention to every single word you say. I\u2019m just not good at having normal conversations and it makes me feel like a bad person, a lousy friend, a cold bitch.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m not good at small talk. I\u2019m the quiet one. People despise me because they believe I\u2019m just sitting there, judging them for everything they say and do. But in fact, I\u2019m just terrified because I can\u2019t communicate with such ease like them.<\/p>\n
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They seem so connected, even when they are leading discussions and having arguments. Taking part in a discussion or fighting with someone freaks me out. I don\u2019t feel human sometimes, I feel like a plant.<\/p>\n
People are not aware of my anxiety. They just think I\u2019m a bitch, an asshole, \u2018the quiet one\u2019, \u2018the shy one\u2019.<\/p>\n
I hate drawing attention to myself and that\u2019s why I\u2019m careful with every move I make. My insecurities eat me up, and that\u2019s why I might seem distant. It\u2019s not that I want to act like an asshole.<\/p>\n
A minha ansiedade faz-me ficar calado mesmo quando tenho algo importante para dizer, quando quero desesperadamente participar numa discuss\u00e3o e quando sinto a necessidade de fazer parte de um grupo.<\/p>\n
I want to belong somewhere. I don\u2019t want to hate myself anymore. I don\u2019t want to turn down opportunities that I know I would enjoy. I don\u2019t want you to call me names and whisper what a bitch I am.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m just someone who needs to try extra hard to achieve something that other people already have.<\/p>\n
Antes de me chamarem nomes, tentem compreender-me.
\nAntes de me rotularem de cabra, tentem p\u00f4r-se no meu lugar.
\nAntes de me rejeitarem, tentem dar-me uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n
I know I can be awkward, but if you get to know me a little bit better, you\u2019d know I\u2019m completely different than the picture of me that you have in your head.<\/p>\n
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