{"id":29704,"date":"2020-06-10T09:18:54","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T09:18:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29704"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:29:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:29:54","slug":"o-facto-de-ele-te-tratar-mal-e-apenas-um-sinal-de-que-ele-nao-se-ama-a-si-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-facto-de-ele-te-tratar-mal-e-apenas-um-sinal-de-que-ele-nao-se-ama-a-si-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele tratar-te mal \u00e9 apenas um sinal de que n\u00e3o se ama a si pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aposto que ele era maravilhoso quando se conheceram. Ele fazia tudo de acordo com as regras. Ligava e mandava mensagens regularmente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dava-te toda a aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele era gentil e doce. Esfor\u00e7ava-se. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando come\u00e7ava a pensar que estava a viver num daqueles romances perfeitos, ele provou que estava enganada. <\/span><\/p>\n

His behavior changed so drastically. At first, he couldn\u2019t stand to be apart from you or to hear from you. Then all of a sudden, he completely ignored you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me when I say you had nothing to do with his behavior. It\u2019s not that he doesn\u2019t like you anymore. He did it because he doesn\u2019t like himself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A confident man, a man who loves himself, behaves differently. Even if he loses interest in a woman, he will tell her. If he\u2019s not ready for a relationship, he will be honest about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t string her along and treat her like she is the center<\/span> do seu universo s\u00f3 para a poder deitar fora mais tarde como se ela n\u00e3o significasse nada.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s not how a real man behaves. That\u2019s how<\/span> cobardes <\/span><\/a>e os manipuladores jogam jogos.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he deliberately started your relationship with love bombing. He knew you will hold on to that perfect beginning when he starts mistreating you later on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele sabia que esses momentos perfeitos com ele seriam suficientes para continuares a perdo\u00e1-lo sempre que ele te faz mal. Que seriam suficientes para esperares que ele voltasse a mudar. Mas ele nunca muda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Men like him don\u2019t change; they only get worse. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sadly, you are unable to see it right away. You can\u2019t grasp that someone who was so warm and loving to you can be so cold and heartless. <\/span><\/p>\n

Apesar de tudo, continua a acreditar no que h\u00e1 de bom nele. Continua a recordar os momentos felizes que passou com ele e a agarrar-se a eles para sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Culpa-se por tudo porque ele a ensinou a fazer isso. Ele foi sempre t\u00e3o habilidoso e sempre desempenhou o papel de v\u00edtima de forma maravilhosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

You truly started to believe that everything he says is the truth. And it\u2019s no wonder because he used every atom of his strength to lower your self-esteem. He needed to make you emotionally weak, so he could rule your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trust him when he says he loves you. He is incapable of love you because he doesn\u2019t love himself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If he treats you poorly, don\u2019t believe his declarations of love. Trust your tears. Trust your nervous breakdowns. Trust your feeling of helplessness that he is not the one for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trust his words because words don\u2019t mean much when <\/i><\/b>ac\u00e7\u00f5es falham<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O \u00fanico que pode amar-te \u00e9 o homem que j\u00e1 se ama a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele vai derramar todo o seu amor em ti, desinteressadamente. Trat\u00e1-la-\u00e1 bem, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer. \u00c9 certo que ter\u00e3o os vossos desentendimentos de vez em quando, mas ele nunca vos far\u00e1 passar por um inferno. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um homem que se ama a si pr\u00f3prio ser\u00e1 o vento debaixo das suas asas. Nunca lhe passar\u00e1 pela cabe\u00e7a menosprez\u00e1-la ou faz\u00ea-la sentir-se inferior, porque ele pensa muito bem de si.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see a man like this will make efforts not excuses. He will give as much as he takes. He will never make you feel alone. A man who loves himself will know how to love you, and that\u2019s the only truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, wait for him…find him… find yourself and acknowledge your worth. Don\u2019t allow anybody to treat you like you are unworthy. Don\u2019t settle for someone who treats you badly. That\u2019s not love… that\u2019s torture.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I bet he was wonderful when you first met. He did everything by the book. He called and texted regularly. He showered you with attention. He was gentle and sweet. He made efforts. Just when you started to think you are living in one of those perfect romance novels, he proved you wrong. His behavior…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":95325,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Him-Treating-You-Poorly-Is-Just-A-Sign-He-Doesnt-Love-Himself.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29704\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95325"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}