{"id":29766,"date":"2020-07-22T12:00:55","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T12:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29766"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:14:19","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:14:19","slug":"coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-se-tem-vontade-de-desistir-do-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-se-tem-vontade-de-desistir-do-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"14 coisas a ter em conta quando se tem vontade de desistir do amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e1 alguma vez sentiu que estava farto? Chega de dor, de desilus\u00f5es e de desgostos?<\/p>\n<p>Enough of always being the one who gives everything and receives nothing in return (like in Jerry Butler\u2019s Giving Up On Love and in other songs and poems on giving up on love)?<\/p>\n<p>Chega de procurar a pessoa certa que, obviamente, nunca vir\u00e1? Chega de esperar que o amor e o romance entrem na sua vida?<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever been so hurt that you ended up telling yourself: \u201cI\u2019ve given up on love\u201d? If you have, this one is for you.<\/p>\n<p>Por muito que tente, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredita que o amor verdadeiro exista ou que alguma vez venha a entrar na sua vida.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>All of these heartbreaks didn\u2019t just cause you to give up on finding love\u2014they did something even worse: they changed the essence of who you are and distorted your self-image completely.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After all the disappointments and emotional pain you\u2019ve been through, you\u2019ve become convinced that you\u2019ll never find love.<\/p>\n<p>That you should give up all of your hopes that one day, you\u2019ll open your heart to someone who deserves to get it. Of course, giving up on romance seems easier than enduring all the struggles it can bring.<\/p>\n<p>Desistir do amor significa n\u00e3o correr o risco de ser magoado e proteger-se para n\u00e3o ter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96829\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shallow-focus-photography-of-woman-in-black-and-white-striped-top.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia de uma mulher com um top \u00e0s riscas a preto e branco\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shallow-focus-photography-of-woman-in-black-and-white-striped-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shallow-focus-photography-of-woman-in-black-and-white-striped-top-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shallow-focus-photography-of-woman-in-black-and-white-striped-top-768x526.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shallow-focus-photography-of-woman-in-black-and-white-striped-top-150x103.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After all, if you don&#8217;t let anyone in and if you decide not to love anyone ever again, you&#8217;re not giving them an opportunity to do you any harm either, am I right?<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, don&#8217;t forget this: giving up on love means voluntarily depriving yourself of all the beauties it brings with itself as well.<\/p>\n<p>Significa condenar-se a uma vida sem amor, o que a transforma em nada mais do que pura sobreviv\u00eancia e mera exist\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>You might not see it but a decision like this will negatively impact all of your life aspects and not just your love life\u2014it will also be harmful for your social life, your mental health and even your career.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So, instead of allowing this to happen, take matters into your own hands, stand up straight and say, \u201cI won\u2019t give up on love because nobody who\u2019s ever hurt me is worth it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Decide that you\u2019ll be stronger than all of your traumas and bad experiences and that you won\u2019t allow your past to ruin your future. Of course, nobody expects this change to happen overnight.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody expects you to start believing in love just because someone asked you to. That is why we\u2019re here, to tell you, \u201cDon\u2019t give up on love\u201d!<\/p>\n<p>Aqui para lhe dizer exatamente o que precisa de ouvir para se ajudar a restaurar a f\u00e9 no amor e a abra\u00e7\u00e1-lo de novo.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o 14 coisas a ter em conta se sentir que desistir do amor \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que lhe resta.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">N\u00e3o est\u00e1 sozinho nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96838\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a escrever no telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/5-sinais-de-que-ser-solteiro-e-a-coisa-que-precisa-neste-momento\/\">\u00e9 solteiro<\/a> e tem a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de desistir completamente do amor, est\u00e1 convencido de que \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa no mundo que tem este tipo de pensamentos. No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 bem diferente.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, h\u00e1 muitas pessoas que pensam que a sua procura de amor \u00e9 em v\u00e3o e que deve finalmente chegar ao fim.<\/p>\n<p>Milh\u00f5es de outras pessoas que passaram pelos mesmos dilemas que tu est\u00e1s a passar agora tamb\u00e9m perderam toda a esperan\u00e7a no momento em que o amor entrou nas suas vidas.<\/p>\n<p>Be honest: Have you ever been so desperate that you even caught yourself searching for quotes about giving up on love, listened to giving up on love songs, tried to laugh at memes about giving up on love and even read poems about giving up on love? If you have, you\u2019ve had the chance to see that you\u2019re not alone in this.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>De facto, toda a Internet est\u00e1 repleta destes poemas sobre desistir do amor, cita\u00e7\u00f5es e prov\u00e9rbios sobre desistir do amor, can\u00e7\u00f5es sobre desistir do amor e letras de can\u00e7\u00f5es sobre desistir do amor, o que torna \u00f3bvio que muitas pessoas est\u00e3o a lidar com os mesmos problemas que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, there is also a handful of not giving up on love quotes, not giving up on love songs, don\u2019t give up on love quotes and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/melhores-versiculos-de-proverbios\/\"> Vers\u00edculos da B\u00edblia<\/a> sobre n\u00e3o desistir do amor, o que torna \u00f3bvio que h\u00e1 muitos daqueles que secretamente querem restaurar a sua f\u00e9 no amor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So, no, you are not the only one waiting for your soulmate to come along, not the only one fighting to embrace your single status and not the only one who got so disappointed that you accepted the fact that you\u2019ll be forever alone.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, being aware of this doesn\u2019t make it any easier.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t make your disappointment or hopelessness any less. I know that you probably don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s opinions and that your struggles are all that matter to you.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, pense em todas essas pessoas bonitas e solteiras que pensam da mesma forma que voc\u00ea sobre o amor.<\/p>\n<p>These are exactly the people you should pay more attention to because I\u2019m sure that the skepticism you both feel toward love is something that will connect you to them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-amor-requer-trabalho-arduo-nao-se-pode-simplesmente-ir-embora-quando-as-coisas-ficam-dificeis\/\"><b>O amor requer <\/b><b>trabalho \u00e1rduo<\/b><\/a><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96846\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-hugs-her-sad-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher abra\u00e7a o seu namorado triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-hugs-her-sad-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-hugs-her-sad-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-hugs-her-sad-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-hugs-her-sad-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-hugs-her-sad-boyfriend-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Desculpe rebentar a sua bolha, mas a verdade \u00e9 que o amor verdadeiro tem pouco a ver com o que viu em todas aquelas com\u00e9dias rom\u00e2nticas na televis\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that you shouldn\u2019t believe in fairy tales but you also need to be aware that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and you shouldn\u2019t hope to find one.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, existe a possibilidade de experimentar o amor \u00e0 primeira vista, mas \u00e9 preciso ter consci\u00eancia de que as liga\u00e7\u00f5es duradouras raramente come\u00e7am desta forma.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, love requires a lot of effort, time and hard work and it doesn\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n<p>Esse pode ser um dos seus problemas e a raz\u00e3o pela qual tenciona desistir do romance. Todos gostar\u00edamos que as coisas na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o corressem sempre t\u00e3o bem quanto poss\u00edvel, mas a realidade \u00e9 um pouco diferente.<\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/com-que-frequencia-os-casais-discutem\/\">\u00e9 preciso lutar para manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e duradoura a<\/a>e \u00e9 altura de perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio se isto era algo que estava pronto a fazer no passado.<\/p>\n<p>Ou tinha o h\u00e1bito de recuar \u00e0 primeira vista de problemas?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O amor vir\u00e1 ao teu encontro quando deixares de o procurar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96830\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thankful-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher agradecida de olhos fechados no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thankful-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thankful-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thankful-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thankful-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though you shouldn\u2019t give up on finding love, every piece of professional advice will tell you that you shouldn\u2019t run after it either because this can often be counterproductive.<\/p>\n<p>This might lead you to desperation and into thinking that it\u2019s time for you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/encontraras-o-amor-quando-deixares-de-o-procurar\/\">parar de procurar o amor<\/a> para sempre. Quanto mais se vai atr\u00e1s do amor, mais se sente que ele foge de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Well, you are not imagining things\u2014we usually can\u2019t seem to get the things we are most desperate for.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that like everything else in life, love has its own timing and that you can\u2019t rush it to cross your path whenever you feel like it. If love keeps escaping you, it happens for one simple reason: you are still not ready for it.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t have to mean that love will never come into your life because it definitely will.<\/p>\n<p>And it will happen when you least expect it.&nbsp; No, it doesn&#8217;t have to happen while you&#8217;re<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-descobrir-se-alguem-esta-no-tinder\/\"> \u00e0 procura de algu\u00e9m no Tinder<\/a> or other dating apps. It doesn&#8217;t have to happen when you keep on thinking about it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o que o far\u00e1 esquecer todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas apanh\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 provavelmente de surpresa. Surgir\u00e1 do nada e ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a perceber o que significa o amor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O amor vale a pena esperar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96840\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beautiful-brunette-looking-herself-in-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"morena bonita a olhar-se ao espelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beautiful-brunette-looking-herself-in-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beautiful-brunette-looking-herself-in-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beautiful-brunette-looking-herself-in-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beautiful-brunette-looking-herself-in-mirror-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beautiful-brunette-looking-herself-in-mirror-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Even though being a proud single woman or man rocks if you play your cards right, I won\u2019t lie to you by trying to make you believe that love doesn\u2019t have any advantages.<\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que o amor \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico e que partilhar a nossa vida com outra pessoa pode torn\u00e1-la muito mais bonita.<\/p>\n<p>Esperar por um amor nunca \u00e9 uma perda de tempo, porque ele \u00e9 digno de todos os problemas que temos de passar at\u00e9 o conseguirmos.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing this, you&#8217;ll understand that giving up on love is never an option. Or at least, it never should be.&nbsp; Don\u2019t forget that everything happens for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>All those wrong people weren\u2019t there to teach you that you aren\u2019t cut out for love or that you should turn your back on it.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, todos eles tinham o objetivo de o preparar para o que vem a seguir. E isso \u00e9 nada menos do que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/amor-verdadeiro-como\/\">amor verdadeiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vai curar-se e sentir-se melhor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96841\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/relaxed-woman-raising-her-hands-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher descontra\u00edda que levanta as m\u00e3os no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/relaxed-woman-raising-her-hands-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/relaxed-woman-raising-her-hands-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/relaxed-woman-raising-her-hands-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/relaxed-woman-raising-her-hands-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/relaxed-woman-raising-her-hands-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Let\u2019s face it\u2014you wouldn\u2019t have given up on the idea of love just like that. Instead, you probably went through some severe emotional trauma which changed your perspective on life and your views on romantic love.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, all that has happened to you has changed you. The person you loved the most did you this much harm, so what is there for you to expect from others? Well, let me tell you that no matter what you\u2019ve been through, you will <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/dar-tempo-para-curar\/\">curar<\/a> mais cedo ou mais tarde.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll wake up and you\u2019ll be sorry that letting go of your past took so long.&nbsp; You&#8217;ll be sorry that you allowed that one toxic person to have this huge impact on your life because that is the last thing they deserved.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll see that thinking of them was just a waste of time and a waste of energy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll understand that the person who hurt you wasn\u2019t worthy of destroying all of your faith in love in general.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll understand that they will have won if they\u2019ve managed to scar you for life and you\u2019ll be sorry for wasting so much time consumed with bitterness and resentment.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c9 permitido ter medo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96843\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-sofa-and-holding-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no sof\u00e1 e com o telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-sofa-and-holding-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-sofa-and-holding-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-sofa-and-holding-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-sofa-and-holding-her-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-sofa-and-holding-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Falling back in love after you have had your heart broken is scary\u2014there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n<p>Tem medo de voltar a passar pelas mesmas coisas e n\u00e3o tem a certeza se consegue aguentar toda esta dor mais uma vez.<\/p>\n<p>That is perfectly normal because this is your body\u2019s defense mechanism and its way of protecting you and is not something you should be ashamed of.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9s fraco s\u00f3 porque \u00e9s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-tem-medo-de-se-apaixonar-tem-medo-de-se-apaixonar-pelo-homem-errado\/\">medo de se apaixonar<\/a> but that doesn\u2019t mean that you should be the one who has given up on love for good because of this fear.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014everything that you are feeling now will just be a part of the past before you know it. Soon enough, you\u2019ll liberate yourself from this fear and you\u2019ll understand that it had no purpose.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c9 uma pessoa completa por si s\u00f3<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96831\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Closeup-portrait-of-tanned-woman-in-light-blouse.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato em grande plano de uma mulher bronzeada com uma blusa clara\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Closeup-portrait-of-tanned-woman-in-light-blouse.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Closeup-portrait-of-tanned-woman-in-light-blouse-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Closeup-portrait-of-tanned-woman-in-light-blouse-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Closeup-portrait-of-tanned-woman-in-light-blouse-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Closeup-portrait-of-tanned-woman-in-light-blouse-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another thing you need to remember after deciding to quit love forever is that you don\u2019t need a life partner to complete you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s suficientemente forte para viveres a vida sozinha e isso \u00e9 algo de que te deves orgulhar.<\/p>\n<p>So this definitely shouldn\u2019t be a reason to give up on romance. Just because you can make it alone, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer-lhe para procurar algu\u00e9m que d\u00ea sentido \u00e0 sua vida ou para se envolver com a primeira pessoa que aparecer por medo da solid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I am advising you to wait for a special person who will be your partner in crime in the first place and who will be strong enough to walk through life shoulder to shoulder with you. Remember\u2014only this is real love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nem toda a gente \u00e9 como o seu ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96845\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-gets-mad-on-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zanga-se com o namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-gets-mad-on-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-gets-mad-on-boyfriend-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-gets-mad-on-boyfriend-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-gets-mad-on-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-gets-mad-on-boyfriend-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>In his song \u201cGiving Up On Love\u201d, Rick Astley says: \u201cI\u2019m giving up on love, \u2018cause I\u2019ve been hurt before\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>This is exactly what you\u2019ve done\u2014you allowed a bad experience to ruin your views on love and romance in general.<\/p>\n<p>When one person hurts you, it is only natural for you to think that everyone will be just like them and that there doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world who will treat you differently.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Parte do princ\u00edpio de que todos os que se aproximam de si querem apanh\u00e1-lo e que todos os que deixa entrar v\u00e3o partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o da mesma forma que o seu ex o fez. Consequentemente, constr\u00f3i paredes grossas e altas \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, tentando proteg\u00ea-lo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tornamo-nos demasiado cuidadosos por medo de voltar a encontrar algu\u00e9m semelhante e pensamos que desistir do amor \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de nos mantermos seguros. Deixa-me dizer-te que est\u00e1s enganado e que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-tenha-medo-de-amar-de-novo-nem-todos-serao-como-o-seu-ex\/\">nem toda a gente \u00e9 como o seu ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>There exists someone who will give you everything they didn\u2019t and someone who is meant to be yours.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, por que raz\u00e3o permitiria que o seu ex t\u00f3xico destru\u00edsse todas as suas hip\u00f3teses com essa pessoa?<\/p>\n<p>Why would you let them still have a place in your life even in this indirect way? One of the most famous quotes about not giving up on love is: \u201cIf the person you love doesn\u2019t love you back, don\u2019t be afraid to love someone else again, for you\u2019ll never know until you give it a try.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 tens de aceitar o facto de que desistir de algu\u00e9m que amas n\u00e3o \u00e9 desistir do amor.<\/p>\n<p>Just because one person hurt you doesn\u2019t mean that you should be giving up on finding love altogether.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deixar de se comparar com os outros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96847\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looks-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com ar pensativo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looks-thoughtful.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looks-thoughtful-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looks-thoughtful-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looks-thoughtful-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looks-thoughtful-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Another one of the inspiring quotes about never giving up on love is: \u201cA true relationship is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/amor-imperfeitamente-perfeito-juntos\/\">duas pessoas imperfeitas<\/a> refusing to give up on each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It means that you don\u2019t have to be flawless in order to find your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eis-como-o-tipo-que-eu-rejeitei-acabou-por-ser-o-meu-par-perfeito\/\"> combina\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m espera que seja perfeito, por isso deixe de se comparar com os outros e deixe de assumir que tem de se enquadrar em alguns padr\u00f5es imagin\u00e1rios para ser mais agrad\u00e1vel ao sexo oposto.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de mudar a si pr\u00f3prio, espere por algu\u00e9m que o aceite como realmente \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>I know this seems impossible now but trust me\u2014this person will come along and they will restore your faith in love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fugir da negatividade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96842\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada sozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Uma coisa que pode t\u00ea-lo feito desistir do amor rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 o facto de continuar a ver os seus amigos e familiares a fazer a mesma coisa.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve lost all of your trust in the opposite sex and that is not just due to your disappointments\u2014you are also dragged into other people\u2019s relationship problems and their negativity overwhelms you, whether you like to admit it or not.<\/p>\n<p>Para onde quer que olhemos, h\u00e1 pessoas a pedir conselhos profissionais sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es e muitas pessoas a envolverem-se em namoros e casos sem sentido que conseguiram convencer-nos de que o amor perdeu todo o seu valor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Agradecimentos a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/e-por-isto-que-odeio-tanto-os-encontros-modernos\/\">encontros modernos<\/a>, you\u2019ve started seeing yourself as a foolish, hopeless romantic just because of the fact that once you thought that there existed such things as soulmates and everlasting love.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez pensasse que os seus pais iam ficar juntos para o resto da vida, mas eles divorciaram-se?<\/p>\n<p>Ou alguns dos seus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos tamb\u00e9m passaram por um grave drama numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou por uma rutura devastadora? Viu uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aparentemente boa desmoronar-se sem qualquer raz\u00e3o aparente?<\/p>\n<p>So, if these couples you believed in so much didn\u2019t make it, what is there for you to expect? How can you possibly hope to have it any better?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96833\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-touching-her-face.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar no seu rosto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-touching-her-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-touching-her-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-touching-her-face-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-touching-her-face-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-touching-her-face-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que se apanhar a pensar desta forma, lembre-se que todos n\u00f3s temos o nosso percurso de vida e o nosso destino.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t be comparing yourself to anyone and other people\u2019s sad love stories shouldn\u2019t be the source of your pessimism.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, vire-se para os casais felizes \u00e0 sua volta. Olhe para todas as pessoas que realmente conseguiram e que se mantiveram unidas durante todo o tempo, tal como prometeram. Encontre neles a esperan\u00e7a de que o amor existe mesmo e que um dia tamb\u00e9m lhe acontecer\u00e1 a si.<\/p>\n<p>If they could have made it and if they could have found their match made in heaven, then why would you think you\u2019d have it worse?<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de ficar na tristeza e permitir que os pensamentos negativos o consumam, tente voltar-se para algo mais positivo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Instead of reading giving up on someone you love quotes, try listening to some optimistic songs about not giving up on love, for example, such as \u201cNot Giving Up On Love\u201d- Armin van Buuren featuring Sophie Ellis Bextor.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, the second you feel the energy of these songs, you will feel better and you\u2019ll get hope of a better tomorrow because you\u2019ll see that love really is worthy and that the right person will come along.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o est\u00e1s demasiado danificado para o amor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96835\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-wearing-blue-framed-cat-eye-sunglasses-with-water-in-background.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com \u00f3culos de sol de arma\u00e7\u00e3o azul e \u00e1gua ao fundo\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-wearing-blue-framed-cat-eye-sunglasses-with-water-in-background.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-wearing-blue-framed-cat-eye-sunglasses-with-water-in-background-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-wearing-blue-framed-cat-eye-sunglasses-with-water-in-background-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-wearing-blue-framed-cat-eye-sunglasses-with-water-in-background-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In her song \u201cGiving Up On Love\u201d, Miranda Lambert says that she has to give up on love because love has given up on her.<\/p>\n<p>This is exactly how you feel\u2014that love will never find its way to you because you\u2019re simply too damaged for it.<\/p>\n<p>Well, it doesn\u2019t mean you are unlovable or that you are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-ela-esta-convencida-de-que-nao-esta-destinada-a-ser-amada\/\">n\u00e3o foi feito para ser amado<\/a> just because you aren&#8217;t the best version of yourself right now.<\/p>\n<p>I know this person from your past tried their best to convince you that you had all of this pain coming. They tried to make you feel like you were good for nothing and that you\u2019d never find happiness after they were done with you.<\/p>\n<p>A pessoa que abusou de si de mais de uma forma e que fez da sua vida um inferno convenceu-o de que estava demasiado danificado para o amor e que ningu\u00e9m neste mundo pensaria em ficar com algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o quebrado como voc\u00ea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Com o tempo, come\u00e7ou a acreditar neles e pensou que a \u00fanica solu\u00e7\u00e3o para si era colocar uma armadura de a\u00e7o \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e enclausurar-se na sua pr\u00f3pria concha, sem deixar ningu\u00e9m entrar.<\/p>\n<p>I know you won\u2019t believe me now but none of these things your ex made you believe are true.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Garanto-vos que haver\u00e1 uma pessoa especial que se esfor\u00e7ar\u00e1 por saltar esses muros ou por os deitar abaixo.<\/p>\n<p>And eventually, they\u2019ll succeed in doing so. There will come this special person who will help you heal without ever pushing you too hard.<\/p>\n<p>Uma pessoa que amar\u00e1 todas as suas partes quebradas e que o ajudar\u00e1 a colar-se de novo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O presente \u00e9 o que importa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96837\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-sitting-alone-on-wooden-dock.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada sozinha numa doca de madeira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-sitting-alone-on-wooden-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-sitting-alone-on-wooden-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-sitting-alone-on-wooden-dock-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-sitting-alone-on-wooden-dock-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-sitting-alone-on-wooden-dock-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>What made you stop believing in love are your past relationships, am I right? Your emotional baggage keeps on dragging you down and doesn\u2019t allow you to move on to a new relationship and it doesn\u2019t even give you a chance to meet some new people.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 convencido de que o seu passado se vai repetir e que est\u00e1 disposto a fazer tudo o que for preciso para o evitar, mas a verdade \u00e9 que nunca se sabe o que vai acontecer.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-nao-se-pode-planear-tudo-numa-parceria\/\">You can\u2019t control everything<\/a> que est\u00e1 a acontecer, ent\u00e3o porqu\u00ea continuar a tentar? Mas responde-me a isto: Porque \u00e9 que ainda te agarras \u00e0s coisas que j\u00e1 devias ter deixado para tr\u00e1s h\u00e1 muito tempo?<\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 que ainda deixas que o teu passado afecte a tua vida? Porque \u00e9 que pensa tanto no seu futuro?<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying that you ought to shut your brain off completely and that you shouldn\u2019t think through your decisions before you make them.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, est\u00e1 na altura de iniciar o processo de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/citacoes-incriveis-para-deixar-ir-que-o-vao-inspirar-a-seguir-em-frente\/\">deixar ir<\/a> e come\u00e7ar a viver no momento presente. Para abra\u00e7ar cada dia e aproveit\u00e1-lo ao m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 tempo de perdoar e de se livrar de todos os rancores e da bagagem emocional que carrega dentro de si.<\/p>\n<p>When this happens, trust me\u2014kicking love out of your life will be the last thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abrace a sua vida de solteiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96839\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-leaning-on-blue-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos de sol encostada a uma parede azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-leaning-on-blue-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-leaning-on-blue-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-leaning-on-blue-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-leaning-on-blue-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-wearing-sunglasses-leaning-on-blue-wall-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>H\u00e1 muito mais mulheres e homens solteiros do que se possa pensar.<\/p>\n<p>So, guess what? You\u2019re not a weirdo for not having a partner right now and that is not something you should obsess over.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de se concentrar em encontrar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa e em perseguir o amor ou fugir dele, dedique toda a sua energia a desfrutar do seu estatuto de solteiro e de tudo o que isso lhe traz.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de ficar a pensar no que fazer com a sua vida amorosa e com o seu futuro estatuto de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, concentre-se em tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio e em aproveitar tudo o que a sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/time-embrace-single-life\/\">vida de solteiro<\/a> pode dar-vos.<\/p>\n<p>Tome o assunto nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os e fa\u00e7a o que o faz feliz, a menos que isso prejudique os outros.<\/p>\n<p>Esque\u00e7a completamente o amor e quanto mais cedo o fizer, ele vir\u00e1 at\u00e9 si. Claro que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em trabalhar para melhorar a sua vida social e conhecer novas pessoas, porque isso d\u00e1-lhe mais hip\u00f3teses de conhecer a pessoa perfeita.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, visitar de vez em quando algumas aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros, como o Tinder, n\u00e3o lhe far\u00e1 mal nenhum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Just make sure not to become obsessed with finding your other half. Be relaxed about it and if someone special comes along\u2014don&#8217;t chase them away.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O amor-pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 o tipo de amor mais importante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96844\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-meditating-while-sitting-on-the-beach-tree.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a meditar sentada numa \u00e1rvore da praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-meditating-while-sitting-on-the-beach-tree.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-meditating-while-sitting-on-the-beach-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-meditating-while-sitting-on-the-beach-tree-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-meditating-while-sitting-on-the-beach-tree-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-meditating-while-sitting-on-the-beach-tree-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>A \u00faltima coisa, mas n\u00e3o menos importante, que deve recordar se estava a pensar desistir do amor \u00e9 que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/20-sinais-de-que-se-deve-amar-mais-a-si-proprio\/\">amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios<\/a> \u00e9 o mais importante.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect anyone to give you the treatment you aren\u2019t even giving to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t build a good relationship with another person until you start working on your relationship with yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t demand respect and appreciation if you are putting yourself at the bottom of your own priority list.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect someone else to spoil you if you don\u2019t know how to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ideias-para-encontros-a-solo\/\">mimar-se<\/a> in the first place. Most importantly, you can\u2019t expect someone to love you unless you learn to love yourself more!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96827\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/14-Things-To-Remember-If-You-Feel-Like-Giving-Up-On-Love-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"14 coisas a ter em conta quando se tem vontade de desistir do amor\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/14-Things-To-Remember-If-You-Feel-Like-Giving-Up-On-Love-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/14-Things-To-Remember-If-You-Feel-Like-Giving-Up-On-Love-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/14-Things-To-Remember-If-You-Feel-Like-Giving-Up-On-Love-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt like you\u2019ve had enough? Enough of the pain, of the disappointments and heartbreaks? Enough of always being the one who gives everything and receives nothing in return (like in Jerry Butler\u2019s Giving Up On Love and in other songs and poems on giving up on love)? 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