{"id":29848,"date":"2018-12-12T09:47:27","date_gmt":"2018-12-12T09:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29848"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:02:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:02:46","slug":"que-se-lixe-por-gostar-de-ti-mas-nao-o-suficiente-para-se-comprometer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/que-se-lixe-por-gostar-de-ti-mas-nao-o-suficiente-para-se-comprometer\/","title":{"rendered":"F*ck Him For Like You, But Not Enough To Commit (Foda-se ele por gostar de voc\u00ea, mas n\u00e3o o suficiente para se comprometer)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you\u2019re <\/span>no amor<\/span><\/a> or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no room for anything in between.<\/span><\/p>\n

But what happens when the one you\u2019re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn\u2019t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but he doesn\u2019t want a relationship? Why would he show interest and then bail on you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sinto a tua frustra\u00e7\u00e3o. Pode ser t\u00e3o confuso quando algu\u00e9m \u00e9 t\u00e3o atencioso connosco, nos faz sentir t\u00e3o amadas e depois se afasta e nos deixa sem nada para fazer durante algum tempo. Pode ser um desafio tentar decifrar o que pode levar um homem a comportar-se de forma t\u00e3o cruel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Regardless of how much it kills you not knowing and trying to get to the bottom of his behavior, don\u2019t waste your precious time and nerves on figuring out somebody who clearly has no idea <\/b>o que ele quer<\/b><\/a> and cannot appreciate a good thing, even when it\u2019s standing right in front of him.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you want the honest truth, here it is. Yeah, he likes you \u2013 just not enough to commit to you. And screw him for that!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que ele volta sempre a rastejar para si depois de terminarem. Porque ele gosta claramente da sua companhia, mas n\u00e3o o suficiente para um compromisso permanente.<\/span><\/p>\n

F*ck anyone who treats you like you\u2019re not enough!<\/b><\/p>\n

Ele que se lixe por ter passado um fim de semana fant\u00e1stico contigo e depois se recusar a atender as tuas chamadas durante toda a semana seguinte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele que se lixe por te dizer que \u00e9s fant\u00e1stica e depois te enganar durante semanas a fio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele que se lixe por enviar uma mensagem de texto a altas horas da noite a dizer que tem muitas saudades tuas, mas por se recusar a p\u00f4r um r\u00f3tulo na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele que se lixe por n\u00e3o se esfor\u00e7ar nada, depois de te garantir que quer estar contigo, <\/span>mas desta vez a s\u00e9rio<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve experienced enough lies and tricks from him to expect nothing more than empty words substantiated by occasional professions of affection, which usually translates to sex and a few scattered texts.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re better than <\/b>uma chamada para sexo<\/b><\/a>Lembre-se disso, n\u00e3o importa o qu\u00e3o bom amante ele seja ou o qu\u00e3o suavemente ele consiga convenc\u00ea-la a perdo\u00e1-lo pela bilion\u00e9sima vez. O suficiente \u00e9 suficiente. Que se lixe isso.<\/b><\/p>\n

The most important thing here is to know better than to take it personally. You should know by now that it most definitely isn\u2019t you. It\u2019s him. It\u2019s not your fault that he can\u2019t appreciate you for the amazing woman that you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

Never change who you are for someone who won\u2019t know how to appreciate you either way. Never change how you see yourself due to somebody not being able to see you in your full glory. And never let someone diminish your worth by treating you like you\u2019re only what he makes of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re hurting right now. But the reason for that is not because you\u2019re losing the guy who\u2019s right for you because he\u2019s not.<\/span><\/p>\n

The reason you\u2019re hurting is because your ego has been rocked by his inconsistent pattern of behavior. Don\u2019t let that faze you too much. He\u2019s not important enough to shatter your self-confidence.<\/b><\/p>\n

This sucks, sure. But you can\u2019t force people into feeling things that aren\u2019t there. As brutal as it is to hear this, it\u2019s true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tudo o que pode fazer \u00e9 apreciar aqueles que sabem o seu valor e deixar de lado todos os que o fazem sentir-se inferior.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re a smart, badass, sexy specimen of a human being. And no temporary man can prove you otherwise. Let that f*cker go, and make yourself available for when the right guy comes along.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"F*ck<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you\u2019re in love or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no room for anything in between. But what happens when the one you\u2019re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn\u2019t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29849,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/jonas-svidras-1215372-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29849"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}