{"id":29972,"date":"2023-10-19T10:13:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-19T10:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29972"},"modified":"2023-10-20T16:02:55","modified_gmt":"2023-10-20T16:02:55","slug":"a-dura-realidade-de-conhecer-um-bom-rapaz-logo-apos-um-desgosto-de-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-dura-realidade-de-conhecer-um-bom-rapaz-logo-apos-um-desgosto-de-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"A dura realidade de conhecer um bom rapaz logo ap\u00f3s um desgosto de amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ainda estava a apanhar os meus cacos, a tentar col\u00e1-los de novo, quando te conheci. Estava longe de estar preparado para come\u00e7ar algo novo, o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mal batia.<\/p>\n

I was learning to breathe again, I was learning to love myself again I was trying to put my life back on the right track — I wasn\u2019t expecting you to cross my path.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que tudo a que eu estava habituado era \u00e0 dor e \u00e0 desilus\u00e3o. Era tudo o que eu conhecia e tornou-se normal, mesmo que no fundo eu soubesse que estava longe disso.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you came as a shock, you see for me getting hurt was something I expected but all that happiness that you brought into my life is something I never imagined — the feeling.<\/p>\n

Foi uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o fant\u00e1stica, nunca tinha sentido nada assim. Acalmaste as minhas ansiedades e medos com seguran\u00e7a. Foste sempre aberta e honesta e nunca tive de me esfor\u00e7ar para decifrar sinais contradit\u00f3rios como no passado.<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t the only one making all efforts it was all reciprocated. The emphasis was on creating emotional bonds and not just physical.<\/p>\n

And I stood in awe thinking that this can\u2019t be real, men like you don\u2019t exist, I am in a dream and I don\u2019t want to wake up from it ever.<\/p>\n

Mas os meus medos n\u00e3o paravam de me acordar, tinha tanto medo de te perder. Estava a morrer de medo porque pela primeira vez tinha algo genu\u00edno e real. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Eu tinha algu\u00e9m que sabe amar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o progrediu rapidamente, foi f\u00e1cil para ti abrires-te e convidares-me a entrar no teu mundo e no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Mas eu continuava a ser cauteloso, ainda tinha o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, por isso tentei abrandar o ritmo.<\/p>\n

Tive medo de que o amor que se acende depressa arda ainda mais depressa. Tinha medo que tu fosses igual a ele. Estava cheia de d\u00favidas sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que est\u00e1vamos a tentar criar.<\/p>\n

Por isso, continuei a fugir, mas tu nunca me deixaste, s\u00f3 me puxavas para mais perto. <\/b><\/p>\n

I wanted you to know all about me, so I literary told you everything — from things I was most proud of to the ones that I was so ashamed of.<\/p>\n

Partilhei convosco hist\u00f3rias felizes e tamb\u00e9m as mais dolorosas.<\/p>\n

I wanted you to know the real me and not just the good parts. I wanted you to know that I still haven\u2019t found a way to let go of my past.<\/p>\n

I wanted to bear my soul and what\u2019s left from my heart.<\/p>\n

My past didn\u2019t allow me to enjoy my present. The pain I carried with me kept mixing with happiness and I was so lost. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

E, mais uma vez, deixaste-me sem palavras, trataste as minhas palavras, os meus medos e os meus pensamentos ansiosos como se fossem a coisa mais normal do mundo.<\/p>\n

Abra\u00e7aste-me durante tanto tempo e com tanta for\u00e7a que comecei a sentir-me segura no teu abra\u00e7o. Eu precisava mesmo disso.<\/p>\n

Eu precisava de algu\u00e9m que entendesse. Precisava de algu\u00e9m que aceitasse. Precisava de algu\u00e9m que realmente se preocupasse comigo.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t ever think that you were there to fill some void that somebody else left. You were there as an angel sent from the heavens that stood by me while I was strong enough to fill that void myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tive de consertar-me<\/span><\/a>Tive de voltar a encontrar o meu pr\u00f3prio sorriso, tive de me curar completamente. Tive de lutar contra as minhas inseguran\u00e7as. Tive de resolver os problemas de confian\u00e7a que outra pessoa criou e deixar de duvidar de ti sem raz\u00e3o aparente.<\/p>\n

Tive de me encontrar para te poder encontrar nesta hist\u00f3ria de amor que constru\u00edste para n\u00f3s desde o in\u00edcio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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I was still picking up my shatter pieces trying to glue them back together when I met you. I was far from ready to start something new, my heart was hardly beating. I was learning to breathe again, I was learning to love myself again I was trying to put my life back on the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29973,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/davids-kokainis-1217561-unsplash.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29972"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29972\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29973"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}