{"id":29980,"date":"2020-05-14T10:37:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T10:37:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29980"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:58:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:58:40","slug":"8-passos-para-fazer-a-transicao-de-amantes-para-amigos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-passos-para-fazer-a-transicao-de-amantes-para-amigos\/","title":{"rendered":"8 passos para fazer a transi\u00e7\u00e3o de amantes para amigos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tornar-se amigo de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 esteve apaixonado \u00e9 extremamente dif\u00edcil e nem toda a gente \u00e9 capaz de o conseguir.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que queira ser amigo de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, haver\u00e1 sempre algumas barreiras que ter\u00e1 de ultrapassar para conseguir fazer a transi\u00e7\u00e3o de amante para amigo.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sure that you\u2019re ready to become friends with the guy you once loved, here are 8 steps that will help you in achieving it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t skip any of it because every single step is equally important if you want to build a true, unbreakable friendship.<\/p>\n

Double check that you don\u2019t have feelings for him<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pergunte a si pr\u00f3pria se ainda sente algo por ele e se \u00e9 sensato come\u00e7ar a trabalhar para se tornarem amigos.<\/p>\n

Se tiver algum tipo de suspeita em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus sentimentos por ele, descarte a ideia de construir uma amizade com ele.<\/p>\n

Precisa de se libertar completamente de todos os sentimentos que tinha por ele antes.<\/p>\n

Only then will you be able to accomplish the transition from lovers to friends. Once you\u2019ve checked this, you can proceed to a step two.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tenha pressa<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t rush things. Even if you\u2019re sure that you don\u2019t have any feelings attached to him, this doesn\u2019t mean that you immediately ready to engage in any types of friendship activities with him.<\/p>\n

D\u00eaem algum tempo para poderem come\u00e7ar do zero. Ambos precisam de algum tempo a s\u00f3s para compreenderem o que aconteceu e para ultrapassarem quaisquer sentimentos n\u00e3o digeridos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso aprender a ser livre de novo para come\u00e7ar a ser amigos depois de amantes.<\/p>\n

Definir regras<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando chegar o momento certo, a primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 estabelecer regras. Tem de o fazer com ele, porque ambos t\u00eam de as cumprir.<\/p>\n

These can be rules regarding do\u2019s and don\u2019t and if someone fails at respecting it, you can think of some kind of a punishment that will prevent you from failing again.<\/p>\n

Quando tiver limites firmes, ser\u00e1 muito mais f\u00e1cil passar por tudo e n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 de pensar se deve dizer algo ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Saber\u00e3o exatamente o que se espera de ambos e, se se mantiverem fi\u00e9is, tornar-se-\u00e3o amigos em pouco tempo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think of hooking up again<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, please don\u2019t even think of voltar a estar com ele<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a real recipe for a catastrophe. Don\u2019t let your impulse rule your mind if you want to nourish a true friendship with someone you once loved.<\/p>\n

Deixar para tr\u00e1s os acontecimentos passados<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que se livra de todos os acontecimentos passados da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want your past to pop out every time you do something similar with him. If you\u2019re still living in the past, it will be really hard to focus on the present.<\/p>\n

Tudo vos far\u00e1 lembrar o que costumavam ter e, quando isso acontece, a nostalgia \u00e9 inevit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

And, nostalgia makes us do things we normally wouldn\u2019t consider doing.<\/p>\n

Redefinir as suas expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Another thing that you need to do is to reset your expectations. Don\u2019t stick to the same expectations you once had in your relationship because now it\u2019s a different story.<\/p>\n

You cannot be mad because he didn\u2019t reply to your text immediately because you are no longer in a relationship with him. If you want to be friends then you need act like that.<\/p>\n

You cannot blame him for some things that you\u2019ve blamed him for in the relationship as well.<\/p>\n

If you do, you\u2019ll destroy every single potential for becoming friends with him.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se de manter a casualidade<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Always keep your hanging out as casual as possible. Don\u2019t go to some romantic places like you used to do when you were in a relationship.<\/p>\n

The best choice is to hang out in groups for a start because that way you\u2019ll avoid any possible awkward moments.<\/p>\n

Keeping it casual means behaving casual and enjoying each other\u2019s company. It means enjoying his company on a whole different level \u2013 friendship level.<\/p>\n

And once you master it, you\u2019ll most surely succeed in making the transition from lover to friends.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t pay attention to other people\u2019s opinions<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

A partir do momento em que decide tornar-se amigo do seu ex<\/a>Para al\u00e9m disso, tem de saber que as outras pessoas lhe far\u00e3o perguntas, muitas perguntas.<\/p>\n

E deve estar preparado para ignorar tudo isso se quiser manter-se fiel a si pr\u00f3prio e aos seus desejos.<\/p>\n

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Becoming friends with someone you were once in love is extremely hard and not everyone is capable of achieving it. Even if you want to be friends with all of your heart, there will always be some barriers that you need to overcome in order to succeed in making the transition from lovers to friends….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":94670,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/8-Steps-To-Make-The-Transition-From-Lovers-To-Friends.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29980"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29980\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}