{"id":30000,"date":"2018-12-14T13:13:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-14T13:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30000"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:58:04","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:58:04","slug":"5-coisas-que-nunca-deves-dizer-ao-teu-parceiro-se-quiseres-ficar-com-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-nunca-deves-dizer-ao-teu-parceiro-se-quiseres-ficar-com-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que nunca deves dizer ao teu parceiro se quiseres ficar com ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando come\u00e7amos a namorar com algu\u00e9m, estamos sempre atentos ao que dizemos e \u00e0 forma como nos comportamos, para deixarmos uma boa impress\u00e3o e n\u00e3o ferirmos involuntariamente os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

But when you\u2019ve been with your man for a while, things you wouldn\u2019t dream of saying at the beginning are now things you will say without thinking twice. And that\u2019s okay, to an extent.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal to get so comfortable around your partner where you don\u2019t have to watch your every word and knowing they\u2019ll get it either way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, por vezes, passamos dos limites. Por vezes, os sentimentos s\u00e3o feridos e por uma boa raz\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you feel like your partner can endure whatever insult you jokingly throw at him, without explaining yourself, you\u2019re actually wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 coisas que deve evitar dizer regularmente se quiser ficar com ele e aqui est\u00e3o algumas frases que deve evitar se quiser que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o dure.<\/span><\/p>\n

1.  \u201cTold you so!\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n

Esta afirma\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o ep\u00edtome da imaturidade e, sinceramente, s\u00f3 as crian\u00e7as deviam diz\u00ea-la.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isso mostra a vossa falta de compaix\u00e3o e respeito para com <\/span>o seu parceiro<\/span><\/a> e f\u00e1-lo parecer e sentir-se est\u00fapido. E essa nunca deve ser a sua inten\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/span><\/p>\n

Evite diz\u00ea-lo, pois nada de positivo poder\u00e1 resultar disso, mas o ressentimento poder\u00e1 em breve significar o fim da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

A empatia e a compaix\u00e3o s\u00e3o o caminho a seguir.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. \"N\u00e3o podes fazer isso!<\/h2>\n

Um parceiro rom\u00e2ntico nunca deve utilizar a palavra \"n\u00e3o posso\" quando fala com a pessoa amada.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are going to be times when you will wish your partner didn\u2019t do a certain thing, like spending too much money on a pair of kicks or staying out until the early hours of the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

But telling him that he \u2018can\u2019t\u2019 do something makes you look controlling and kind of like his parent and you don\u2019t want that.<\/span><\/p>\n

As much as you want to tell him that, don\u2019t, as you really shouldn\u2019t tell him what he can or cannot do. He is a grown-up and he should know how to make good, smart decisions himself.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. \"Acalma-te\" ou \"Relaxa\".<\/h2>\n

Saying this to your partner is acceptable literally only if you want him to get ten times as upset as he already is. This usually does the opposite of what it\u2019s supposed to.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tentar validar o sentimento dele<\/a> at all times. If you don\u2019t understand where he\u2019s coming from, ask!<\/span><\/p>\n

But don\u2019t make him seem irrational for having feelings and openly expressing them. Act like a mature adult and talk without judging or diminishing his feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

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4. \"Fazes sempre isto\/aquilo\".<\/h2>\n

Quando se come\u00e7a uma discuss\u00e3o com isto, est\u00e1-se imediatamente a acus\u00e1-lo de alguma coisa, dando a entender que ele faz sempre alguma coisa errada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Essa n\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma de ter uma conversa saud\u00e1vel e s\u00f3 o vai fazer escolher a via defensiva.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present. If he has to defend himself all the time, he\u2019s just not going to take it that much longer.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. \"Se me amasses, farias isto por mim\".<\/h2>\n

Se continuar a obrig\u00e1-lo a provar o seu amor por si fazendo certas coisas, isso \u00e9<\/span> n\u00e3o o amor<\/span>. It\u2019s a dysfunctional partnership.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m gosta de ser chantageado para fazer alguma coisa. Ele ama-te claramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

But don\u2019t make him do something to prove that. That is a childish thing to do and your partner won\u2019t stand for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t like having to prove your love for him by doing this and that, so don\u2019t make him go through the same thing; it\u2019s as simple as that.<\/span><\/p>\n

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When you first start dating someone, you always watch what you say and how you behave, to leave a good impression and to not unintentionally hurt his feelings. But when you\u2019ve been with your man for a while, things you wouldn\u2019t dream of saying at the beginning are now things you will say without thinking…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":30003,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/StockSnap_XE6KTUQ1SX.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30000","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30000"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30000\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}