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<\/p>\nJ\u00e1 reparou que a maior parte de n\u00f3s tem o h\u00e1bito de se agarrar com mais for\u00e7a \u00e0quilo que sabemos que devemos deixar para tr\u00e1s? <\/b><\/p>\n
\u00c0 pessoa que, no fundo, sabes que n\u00e3o foi feita para ti? <\/b><\/p>\n
Que sofremos mais quando perdemos aquele que nunca foi realmente nosso, para come\u00e7ar?<\/b><\/p>\n
E voc\u00ea n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o. Embora a pessoa de que estamos a falar tenha sa\u00eddo fisicamente da sua vida h\u00e1 algum tempo, ela ainda est\u00e1 bem presente na sua mente.<\/p>\n
Esse homem de quem sentes tanta falta continua a ser o \u00fanico em quem consegues pensar, apesar de te esfor\u00e7ares por n\u00e3o o fazer.<\/p>\n
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You did everything in your power to forget all about him; you\u2019ve cut all ties with him, you got rid of everything that might remind you of him and you cut off all the people who connect the two of you.<\/p>\n
Seguiu a regra de n\u00e3o estabelecer contacto, bloqueou o n\u00famero dele e deixou de o seguir em todas as suas contas nas redes sociais.<\/p>\n
Todos \u00e0 sua volta assumem que este homem n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que uma parte do seu passado distante.<\/p>\n
Even the ones closest to you are convinced that you\u2019ve gotten over him and that you\u2019ve moved on with your life completely, as if he was never a part of it.<\/p>\n
But the truth is different. The truth is that you\u2019ve<\/b> aprendeu a viver sem ele<\/b><\/a> at\u00e9 certo ponto, mas que continua a ser consumida pelo pensamento desse homem.<\/b><\/p>\n Que ele continua a ser a primeira coisa que te passa pela cabe\u00e7a assim que acordas e que a sua imagem \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que v\u00eas quando est\u00e1s prestes a fechar os olhos e a adormecer.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que ainda sente borboletas sempre que v\u00ea algu\u00e9m parecido com ele ou ouve uma voz semelhante \u00e0 dele.<\/p>\n And most of all \u2014 the truth is that you still hope that one day, he\u2019ll come back to you, admitting that he made a mistake when he walked out on you.<\/p>\n That you still wait for his phone call and that you hope it\u2019s him every time you hear the sound of receiving a text message.<\/p>\n Mas isso \u00e9 algo que se recusa a admitir a toda a gente, incluindo a si pr\u00f3prio. Porque despite all of the feelings you still have for this man, deep down, you know that you guys aren\u2019t meant to be.<\/b><\/p>\n You aren\u2019t happy without him but you are also aware that you wouldn\u2019t be anywhere near happiness with him either.<\/b><\/p>\n So basically, you aren\u2019t holding on to this man<\/b>\u2014<\/b>est\u00e1 a agarrar-se \u00e0 mem\u00f3ria dele e ao potencial da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n Est\u00e1 a agarrar-se aos belos momentos que partilharam e \u00e0s coisas que poderiam ter sido de voc\u00eas os dois, se ele tivesse escolhido ser diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n Detesto ter de ser eu a dizer-to mas est\u00e1 a fazer tudo isto porque, inconscientemente, quer que as coisas sejam assim.<\/b><\/p>\n You want to hold on to him, even though you know that you\u2019ll have to let go sooner or later.<\/b><\/p>\n E sabem porqu\u00ea? Porque a tua mem\u00f3ria \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que mant\u00e9m esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o viva.<\/b><\/p>\n Porque se o deixares ir, se deixares verdadeiramente de pensar nele e se fizeres o teu melhor para apagar esse homem da tua mente e do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, isso significa que aceitas que acabou.<\/p>\n It means that you accept that this guy is just a part of your past. And most of all \u2014 it means that you accept that he isn\u2019t coming back.<\/p>\n Even though you think you are ready to do this, it is clear that you aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n It is more than obvious that you don\u2019t want to move on with your life and that you are more comfortable with your painful thoughts because with time, they\u2019ve become familiar to you.<\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-woman-standing-in-the-park.jpg\")
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