{"id":30026,"date":"2020-08-14T14:17:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T14:17:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30026"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:25:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:25:38","slug":"5-razoes-chocantes-pelas-quais-a-maioria-dos-homens-muda-depois-da-fase-de-lua-de-mel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-chocantes-pelas-quais-a-maioria-dos-homens-muda-depois-da-fase-de-lua-de-mel\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es chocantes pelas quais a maioria dos homens muda depois da fase da lua de mel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/as-9-fases-da-relacao-pelas-quais-todos-os-casais-passam\/\">fase inicial de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> is usually a real roller coaster of emotions. You and your boyfriend are crazy for each other and you don\u2019t mind showing it.<\/p>\n<p>Ambos aproveitam todos os momentos livres para passarem juntos e \u00e9 mais do que \u00f3bvio que as coisas entre os dois est\u00e3o a ficar s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t be happier because it appears that you\u2019ve finally hit the jackpot.<\/p>\n<p>And then, the butterflies are gone and everything changes overnight. All of a sudden, you can\u2019t seem to recognize the man you are dating and you can\u2019t help but wonder what went wrong.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que estamos aqui para lhe dar as 5 raz\u00f5es mais comuns pelas quais alguns homens mudam depois de terminada a fase de lua de mel da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>1.  Este \u00e9 o verdadeiro ele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116192\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"homem atraente com \u00f3culos de sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/attractive-man-wearing-sunglasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the reasons why your boyfriend drastically changed for the worse after everything had gone great at the beginning is that he actually hasn\u2019t changed\u2014he\u2019s been like this all along.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que ele fingiu ser algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 para poder entrar na tua cabe\u00e7a, no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e nas tuas cal\u00e7as.<\/p>\n<p>But you can\u2019t act forever. And now, his mask of Mr. Perfect has finally fallen off and he has showed you his true colors, which you obviously don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>Or you\u2019ve been looking at him through rose-tinted glasses all along.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 poss\u00edvel que se tenha apaixonado tanto por este homem no in\u00edcio, que decidiu ignorar os seus defeitos e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, que agora a incomodam.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 comum idealizarmos as pessoas por quem nos apaixonamos e voc\u00ea n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2><b>2. He&#8217;s started taking you for granted<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man.jpg\" alt=\"jovem bonito e elegante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/handsome-elegant-young-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando conheceste este tipo, ele esfor\u00e7ou-se tanto para te conquistar.<\/p>\n<p>I am not talking only about expensive gifts or fancy dinner dates here-\u2014I am talking about the fact that he was ready to do whatever it took just to make you happy and to know that he was the reason of your smile.<\/p>\n<p>And all of this lasted as long as he wasn\u2019t certain of your feelings for him.<\/p>\n<p>Mas agora que ele sabe que est\u00e1s aqui para ficar, tudo \u00e9 diferente.<\/p>\n<p>This guy has started thinking that he doesn\u2019t have to bother about you any longer and acts as if he doesn\u2019t have to try to make your relationship work anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Se isto est\u00e1 a acontecer na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 mais do que \u00f3bvio que o vosso namorado come\u00e7ou a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/an-open-letter-to-the-man-who-took-his-woman-for-granted\/\">tomar-te por garantido<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He got used to your presence and he is convinced that you aren\u2019t going anywhere, no matter how he treats you.<\/p>\n<h2>3. As borboletas foram-se embora<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116190\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car.jpg\" alt=\"homem elegante num fato de neg\u00f3cios a conduzir um carro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/elegant-man-in-business-suit-driving-car-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um dos sintomas da fase de lua de mel de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o as borboletas no est\u00f4mago, que nos consomem por completo.<\/p>\n<p>E o seu namorado n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o. Este rapaz apaixonou-se por si como um louco e essa paix\u00e3o e excita\u00e7\u00e3o que sentiu \u00e0 sua volta fez com que se tornasse o melhor rapaz do mundo.<\/p>\n<p>But these butterflies are now gone. And if there is no sign of the man he used to be, it is obvious that he never loved you\u2014he was only in love with love.<\/p>\n<p>Apesar de poderem tentar reavivar o vosso romance, a dura verdade \u00e9 que voc\u00eas estavam apenas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-perca-o-tempo-dela-se-esta-a-procura-de-algo-temporario\/\">algo tempor\u00e1rio<\/a> para este gajo.<\/p>\n<p>A paix\u00e3o inicial acabou e n\u00e3o restou nenhuma liga\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira ou sentimentos profundos.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ele cansou-se de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116195\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"jovem barbudo com \u00f3culos de sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/bearded-young-man-wearing-sunglasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outra raz\u00e3o pela qual a maioria dos homens muda depois de terminada a fase da lua de mel \u00e9 o facto de come\u00e7arem a sentir falta da vida de solteiro que levavam quando eram solteiros.<\/p>\n<p>Este homem estava convencido de que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso era o que ele queria e precisava, mas obviamente pensou errado.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, tudo correu bem enquanto a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o era s\u00f3 sol e rosas.<\/p>\n<p>Mas agora que h\u00e1 algumas coisas que precisam de ser trabalhadas e que voc\u00eas enfrentaram o vosso primeiro desafio como casal, ele decidiu que n\u00e3o \u00e9 isto que quer.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo cansou-se claramente de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o tem maturidade suficiente para fazer parte de uma equipa.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, he doesn\u2019t know how to break things off because he is scared that leaving you will be a mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Ou continua a mentir a si pr\u00f3prio que \u00e9 capaz de lidar com isto e que o seu desejo de vida de solteiro vai passar.<\/p>\n<h2>5. O seu ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116196\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem confiante em roupa casual elegante segurando um telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Confident-young-man-in-smart-casual-wear-holding-smart-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Detesto dizer-vos isto, mas a verdade \u00e9 que algumas pessoas iniciam uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o na esperan\u00e7a de esquecerem algu\u00e9m do seu passado.<\/p>\n<p>E h\u00e1 a possibilidade de o vosso homem ser uma dessas pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode ter tentado garantir a si pr\u00f3prio que estava pronto para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo, quando claramente n\u00e3o estava.<\/p>\n<p>Ou apercebeu-se de que ainda sentia algo pela sua ex, que tentava arduamente suprimir.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, he knew he didn\u2019t have a shot with her and didn\u2019t want to end up losing you either.<\/p>\n<p>De qualquer modo, uma das possibilidades de o seu namorado ter mudado \u00e9 o facto de ainda ter algumas coisas do passado por resolver.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not claiming that he is cheating on you with his ex or that he is planning on getting back together with her but it is a fact that his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-assim-que-vais-deixar-a-tua-bagagem-emocional-arruinar-a-tua-proxima-relacao\/\">a bagagem emocional est\u00e1 a arruinar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116361\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Most-Men-Change-After-The-Honeymoon-Phase-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es chocantes pelas quais a maioria dos homens muda depois da fase da lua de mel\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Most-Men-Change-After-The-Honeymoon-Phase-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Most-Men-Change-After-The-Honeymoon-Phase-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Most-Men-Change-After-The-Honeymoon-Phase-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Most-Men-Change-After-The-Honeymoon-Phase-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Most-Men-Change-After-The-Honeymoon-Phase-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The initial stage of a relationship is usually a real roller coaster of emotions. You and your boyfriend are crazy for each other and you don\u2019t mind showing it. Both of you use every free moment to spend together and it is more than obvious that things between the two of you are getting serious&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":116188,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30026","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Most-Men-Change-After-The-Honeymoon-Phase-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? 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