{"id":3004,"date":"2020-09-01T13:09:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-01T13:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3004"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:57:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:57:09","slug":"narcisistas-manipuladores-psicopatas-pessoas-toxicas-prejudicar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/narcisistas-manipuladores-psicopatas-pessoas-toxicas-prejudicar\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que os narcisistas manipuladores nos prejudicam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As pessoas t\u00f3xicas frequentemente rebaixam e magoam os seus parceiros, familiares e amigos, utilizando diferentes t\u00e1cticas de divers\u00e3o que fazem com que as suas v\u00edtimas n\u00e3o tenham a certeza da realidade.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o apenas as pessoas narcisistas que utilizam estas t\u00e1cticas, mas tamb\u00e9m outras pessoas manipuladoras.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o 5 formas de as pessoas t\u00f3xicas o calarem e o degradarem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Vergonha p\u00fablica e privada<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Este tipo de pessoas est\u00e1 sempre pronto a fazer coment\u00e1rios que o menosprezam. Os narcisistas gostam de fazer as outras pessoas sentirem-se pequenas, parecerem fracas ou menos inteligentes do que eles pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>However, they will do this subtly so sometimes you won\u2019t even recognize it\u2014such as under the guise of \u201cI\u2019m just kidding.\u201d or \u201cCan\u2019t you take a joke?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Com o tempo, come\u00e7amos a confiar nessas palavras t\u00f3xicas ou na esperan\u00e7a de que finalmente nos aceitem como algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 suficientemente bom.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let this go too far. You\u2019re already enough, trust me.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Gaslighting or \u201ccrazy-making\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Este tipo de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 especialmente perigoso porque brinca tanto com a nossa mente que come\u00e7amos a duvidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-coisas-que-os-homens-fazem-sentir-como-se-fosses-louca\/\">questionar a tua sanidade mental.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sabe aquela sensa\u00e7\u00e3o quando come\u00e7a a perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio se disse mesmo alguma coisa, ou se eles nunca disseram nada, ou se as outras pessoas v\u00eaem a mesma coisa que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>Esta t\u00e9cnica funciona perfeitamente para o narcisista porque n\u00e3o h\u00e1 provas.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like you can\u2019t prove how they feel or if they said something bad or acted irrationally. And so you go in circles and things get worse and worse.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>MUITO controlo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3007 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249.jpg\" alt=\"Homem com bon\u00e9 na floresta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sentem que t\u00eam de controlar tudo, desde a conversa ao dinheiro, porque precisam sempre de estar no centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es e de ser o foco principal da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Sentem que, se o deixarem decidir alguma coisa, se tornar\u00e3o fracos.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/5-coisas-que-as-pessoas-toxicas-destroem\/\">Pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> mostrar estas quest\u00f5es de controlo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sempre que decidem que tem de mudar algo em si, como perder peso ou mudar a cor do cabelo.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o eles que decidem se podemos ver algumas pessoas ou ir a algum s\u00edtio ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If you recognize these signs early in a relationship, you should run as fast as you can. Don\u2019t wait until it becomes too late.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Minimizar o seu valor<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Nada do que fazes \u00e9 bem feito. Licenciaste-te, arranjaste um \u00f3timo emprego, tens \u00f3ptimos amigos e, para al\u00e9m disso, est\u00e1s fant\u00e1stica.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, estas pessoas v\u00e3o sempre descobrir algo que deve melhorar e fazer de forma diferente. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 palavras de apoio no seu vocabul\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>They are psychologically trying to diminish your achievements by making you think you\u2019re stupid, boring, ridiculous, or not good-looking.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que algu\u00e9m o elogia, sente-se amea\u00e7ado por n\u00e3o estar no topo. As pessoas t\u00f3xicas arruinar\u00e3o lentamente as suas ambi\u00e7\u00f5es, bem como a sua vida, se as deixar minimizar o seu valor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Pagar o papel de v\u00edtima<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>No, it\u2019s not their fault. It never is. It\u2019s always your fault and they are victims of your hazardous behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s exactly what they make you believe by playing the role of victim.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you recognize their toxic behavior and face them with facts, they will immediately pretend to be very hurt and insulted because whatever happened\u2014it\u2019s your fault and not theirs.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/3-jogos-mentais-que-todas-as-pessoas-toxicas-fazem\/\">Este jogo mental <\/a>is very dangerous because they can be very good and convincing actors. You will soon start hating yourself because obviously, you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n<p>You should always be cool, calm, and collected and stick to the facts, even though it\u2019s very easy to fall under the influence of these people and become their victim.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 necess\u00e1ria uma grande for\u00e7a, bem como muita coragem e energia para lidar com estas pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso usar toda a for\u00e7a emocional e mental que se tem para lutar, mas \u00e9 poss\u00edvel!<\/p>\n<p>O mais importante \u00e9 manter-se afastado dos pensamentos de que h\u00e1 algo de errado consigo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toxic people often demean and hurt their partners, family and friends by using different diversionary tactics that make their victims unsure of reality. Of course, not only narcissistic people use these tactics, but other manipulative people as well. Here are 5 ways toxic people shut you up and degrade you. 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