{"id":30110,"date":"2020-11-15T19:14:35","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T19:14:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30110"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:32:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:32:10","slug":"se-a-amas-mesmo-nao-a-destruas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-a-amas-mesmo-nao-a-destruas\/","title":{"rendered":"Se a amas mesmo, n\u00e3o a destruas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando uma mulher <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-assim-que-se-abre-ao-amor-depois-de-ter-sido-emocionalmente-afetado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">abre o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor<\/a> por sua causa, ela est\u00e1 a sair da sua zona de conforto.<\/p>\n<p>Ela est\u00e1 a ignorar todos os seus medos e inseguran\u00e7as e decide confiar em si, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>She tears down the walls around her heart which she\u2019s been building for years and she lets you in all the way, even though she promised not to do that ever again.<\/p>\n<p>She decides to put her faith in you and to believe that you won\u2019t do her any harm.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando uma mulher o ama, por muito forte e autossuficiente que seja, est\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m a dar-lhe muito poder sobre si pr\u00f3pria. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ela est\u00e1 a dar-te todo o seu ser e, com isso, est\u00e1 a dar-te uma oportunidade de lhe partires o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I<\/b><b>De certa forma, ela est\u00e1 a dar-lhe a oportunidade de a magoar e de a arruinar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118825\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de neg\u00f3cios a olhar para o lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>And it is just up to you if you\u2019ll take that chance.<\/b> It is up to you if you\u2019ll use her and take advantage of the fact that she is wearing her heart on her sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>Depende de ti se vais amar esta mulher de verdade. <b>But just remember one thing\u2014you don\u2019t destroy the ones you love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por favor, <b>don\u2019t break her heart if you love her.<\/b> Because she\u2019s been through something like that in the past and she couldn\u2019t stand having another heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t make her beg for your attention.<\/b> Se a amas, mostra-lhe a profundidade do teu amor.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make her feel unloved or unwanted. Don\u2019t ruin her confidence and don\u2019t ever compare her to other girls.<\/p>\n<p>Se a amas, trata-a como se ela fosse a \u00fanica mulher com quem poderias estar.<\/p>\n<p>Mostre-lhe que v\u00ea como ela \u00e9 \u00fanica e especial e como est\u00e1 orgulhoso por ter uma mulher assim ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118827\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a beber caf\u00e9 perto da janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat her like your last resort because she will always put you first. This girl ought to be your priority and the last thing she deserves is to be treated like a second choice.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t make her feel like your last resort or safety net.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t expect her to deal with your emotional baggage.<\/b> Don\u2019t expect her to be your personal savior and the one who will fix you, while you break her.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat her like a rebound relationship because she is much more than that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t treat her like <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-perca-o-tempo-dela-se-esta-a-procura-de-algo-temporario\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>algo tempor\u00e1rio<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> Quando esta rapariga deixa algu\u00e9m entrar, quer que seja para toda a vida.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t looking for just a good time and she isn\u2019t looking for meaningless relationships. Instead, she wants you to love all of her.<\/p>\n<p>She wants you to be her partner in every sense of that word and if this is something you can\u2019t offer her, please walk away in time, before you enter her heart completely.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118828\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"silhueta de mulher a olhar para o sol na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t play games with her<\/b> porque ela vai ver atrav\u00e9s das suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>No, she won\u2019t think of you as the bigger man if you pretend to be this tough guy who is incapable of loving because that will only chase her away.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to send her mixed signals because she doesn\u2019t have the time or the energy to waste on decoding you and your actions. Just be honest with her.<\/p>\n<p>There is no need for you to hold back your emotions or to hide your vulnerable side because I promise you that she\u2019ll never use them against you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t allow her to be <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ja-fiz-uma-tentativa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>o \u00fanico que est\u00e1 a tentar<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> If you love her, make her feel that love. Show her that you care because it is the only way she\u2019ll believe you.<\/p>\n<p>This girl won\u2019t justify you for not treating her right because she knows that your love is shown through your efforts around her.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t make her chase you.<\/b> Because she never will. And it doesn\u2019t have anything to do with the fact that she doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118829\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira bonita a olhar para o lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta rapariga conhece o seu valor e nunca permitiria que algu\u00e9m a humilhasse, fazendo-a implorar pelo seu amor.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t try to control her and don\u2019t try to manipulate her<\/b> because she knows who she is and she knows she doesn\u2019t need you, even though she loves you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s worked hard to become the woman she is today and she won\u2019t let anyone change her.<\/p>\n<p>E o mais importante, <b>if you love her, don\u2019t ever let her go.<\/b> Because trust me\u2014this is the girl you find once in a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>A girl like no other and a girl you\u2019ll be searching for in every other woman, if you happen to lose her.<\/p>\n<p>So please, do your best to keep her around. Because if you do, she\u2019ll show you what it means to be loved and she\u2019ll show you that she is worth it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118824\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se a amas de verdade, n\u00e3o a destruas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><br \/>\n<!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a woman opens her heart to love because of you, she is stepping out of her comfort zone. She is ignoring all of her fears and insecurities and she decides to trust you, no matter what. She tears down the walls around her heart which she\u2019s been building for years and she lets you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":118826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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